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He won't stop
Please help me with my relationship problem, my boyfriend is like absessed with tickling me, he thinks it's funny and cute. It's fun, but it gets annoying. When I tell him to stop, he just keeps doing it. I can't get away. What do I do?? No matter how much I ask, he won't stop.
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I think I'm in the same boat as your boyfriend... but I've controlled my, um, obsessions. It sounds like he has a tickling fetish.
If you're really tired of it, tell him:
"I have bad news and good news. The bad news is I'm dumping you -- primarily because you like to tickle me and I hate it. Most people hate it.
The good news is that you're not alone. There are some people that like to tickle, or be tickled, or both. You (and they) have a tickling fetish.
Here's some terminology for you. If you like to give, but not receive, you're referred to as a TICKLER. (Big surprise there.)
If you like to receive, but not give, you're referred to as a TICKLEE.
(Many times, these are abbreviated with apostrophes: Being a 'ler or a 'lee.)
If you like to give and receive, you're referred to as a SWITCH.
There are hundreds of websites out there, but I hesitate to share them with you because I don't know your age.
Also, there are tickling-oriented gatherings throughout the world; most are in the U.S. I've been to many in Pennsylvania, Upstate New York, Ohio, and California. Again, I hesitate to share details of these events with you because I don't know your age.
Feel free to e-mail me with questions: recycler@duh.org.
-- Adam
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Openly come out and tell him that you don't like it. I used to be in a similar situation. Threaten to break up if you have to. He has no right to touch you if you tall him no. Let me know what happen! Feel free to email me or ask me anthing! Hope my advice helps!
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ahh, you need to break up with him, or have a serious talk with him, if he's touching you and you dont want him to, thats a little messed up, so just be confident and let him know, that when you don't want to be tickled anymore, he needs to stop.
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Dont be mean about it but just try to slip it in somewhere in your conversations or something. If you really want him to get the idea, figure out what somethign he hates is and do that. If he asks you to stop tell him you will if he stops tickling you.
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he probably thinks you're just kidding about the stopping part....tell him you really don't like the tickling you want him to stop tell him before or after the tickling begins
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I am in this exact same problem as you, My boyfriend constantly tickles me and I have become more immune to it, but he still does it. What I do, is I use force and push him away and tell him to stop and that I don't like it. He does get the point of it. Sometimes you need to use a little force upon men to get to their brains, because alot of them think women are just play things. If he keeps doing it, it could be harmful to your emotional health, so talk to him about it and push him away if you need to.
Good Luck and Hallelujah (ha ha sorry im listening to that song)
College Girl NH
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if he doesnt stop when you tell him to you might be in trouble down the line. next time he tries poke him in the ribs, hard. tell him its really pissing you off, exadurtate becasue something like "its preatty annoying" wont get his attention. if he still wont stop hit him in the balls, not hard. if you two are having sex/doing whatever you could try threatening to not do anything if he doesnt stop tickling you.
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i know how you feel........ i myself am very ticklesh. my boyfriend did the samething for the first year of our relationship. What i did, was i simply told him that if he didnt stop, he wouldnt have anyone to tickle! in the nicest way possible. if you are truely uncomfortable with what he is doing, and he still keeps doing it, drop him like hes hott!
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i think you should tell him its annoying, you have to be honest in your relationship
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well next time he does it and you tell him to stop and he wont... slap him and/or push him away. you dont need to hit him hard enough to knock him out or anything, just hard enough to get your attention. and when he asks whats wrong tell him that you said to stop and your tired of telling him to stop and him never listening to you.
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