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Age: 16
Member Since: January 30, 2005
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Last Update: March 20, 2005
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i am pregnet like 2 months along, and as we know your not supposed to have sex, well my boyfriend really want it, but i cant give it to him, and i dont want him cheating on me, i was wondering if you can have anal sex while being pregnet? (link)
screw him. If he is going to dump you because you wont have sex then he doesnt deserve you!


I'm sorry if this is kind of long but please, please answer back

[13/F] I like this girl named Jackie and i just can't stop thinking about her. But i feel like...im in love. I liked her for 2 years and she knows that I like her. I talk to her online a lot and my friends know that I like. She knows i wrote about 10 poems about her and that i have a deep obsession about her and even made a journal about my feeling all about her. All my friends tell me to talk to her and that my poems show my true feelings about her. But I'm too scared to talk to her and . I get scared and start to panic when i stand around her, I just really want to say hi to her...even talk to her at school. The hardest thing is that we don't have any classes together and online, i asked her if i could be her boyfriend and she said that how could i be her b/f if i can't talk to her at school.
I'm just so confused and its killing me inside that i can't talk to her and time is running out until she might find a boyfriend that can talk to her. I'm just so depressed without her...I just can't explain most of the situation already, because no one don't know how i feel because i can't put it in words. Please help me. (link)
Just pull yourself together to say ANYTHING to her! if its a simple "hi" or having a conversation about something you 2 like. it will get easier once you start to talk to her. Maybe you should try talking to other girls more too. i hope i helped!! tell me how it goes!!!

~*Lesil*~


I'm in love with my boyfriend.. but he used to be best friends with my ex boyfriend. Me and my ex are friends but my boyfriend told me if i talk to him he would get pissed.. but i feel bad because i would have to like ignore my ex.. what should i do? (link)
Tell your boyfriend that if he cant help himself from being jealous then you cant be with him. Why would you even want to be with him if he is trying to pick who you can be friends with.


If I take my cartilidge piercings out for like 30 minutes every weekday for gym class, do you think it'll close? I've had one of them since June '04, and the other since August'04 =) thanks. (link)
im sure the june one wont close but maybe you can tape up your august one.


My fourteen year old daughter has been going out with this nineteen year old boy since the beginning of January, first of all she lied to me saying that he was sixteen. I am quite worried about this. Can somebody help me and tell me what I should be doing. She is my only daughter, in fact my only child. I am worried. Help. (link)
What you need to do is just pay close attention. Dont nag her or she will try to get away from you more and more. If she is always out late or her grades are DRASTICALLY dropping something is wrong and you need to have a talk with her. Just talk, dont get mad at her, just ask her whats going on and try to be her friend. If she seems perfectly normal and nothing is different let her be, im sure shes fine
~lyndsey


i have orangy-red hair, brown eyes and pale skin. what color eyeliner would look good on me? if you need more info just tell me! i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off. (link)
Well do you think you look okay without eyeliner? i am VERY pale and when i wear eyeliner i tend to look a little paler. Also what color are your eye lashes? do u put mascara on them?


well i am moving to Colorado next year before school starts and like i am really outgoing and stuff and i play volleyball, and that starts before school so i can meet people by doing that to, but i am like really scared of the change and i dont know waht to do to make the move easier????

Please help me out (link)
remember all your old friends and call them often. Make scrap books of all the fun youve had together. When you miss them a lot just look at it. what ever happens, just look at all the positives and start your reputation at your new school good. First impressions are the ones people have in their heads for a while. im sure youll be fine once you make friends, they always make everything easier.hope i helped!!
~luv lyndsey


okay whenever someone goes to ask me a question it says im like not accepting questions from anyone whats going on? (link)
what are you talking about? i dont get it


i am in two classes that has people that make fun of me so should i just ask my mom to talk to the principal so they can put me in a new classes? or should i stay there? (link)
First try to ignore them, never try and make come-backs or it will blow up in your face and you will look stupid. If it makes you that uncomfortable then yes, switch out. But how are you ever going to learn to deal with things if you are always running from them. If you can, just try to deal with them. Just remember, they are immature for making fun of you. If you ever need to talk im always here for you. Just email me back on this if you want one of my email addresses or something.


im about 4'11'' and i always have a really hard time finding clothes that fit me especially pants. im like size 1 for most jeans and stuff and i usually wear extra small shirts. where can i go to get clothes that fit me? if u need more info tell me. i rate 5s to answers that dont piss me off! (link)
I have pretty much the opposite problem, im about 5'8'' and im skinny and all my pants are falling to my ancles. Try Pennys, they have good jeans that usually fit me. and try to google it and see if when you type in "buy jeans" anything good comes up. online you can probably put in measurements that will work. Also i dont know if where you live they have one of these but there is a place near colorado i know of (they are probably lots of other places too) called Buckle. They have some tight fitting jeans that are in so many different sizes, you could probably try www.buckle.com they measure by height and waist.


I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for 2 months and 1 week. I really like him and all..but sometime he bugs me so much!! I kind of miss being single and I dont know what to do..
and i dont want to break up with him...ugh..i'm sucha mess...please tell me your answer (link)
Just tell him that you really dont want to break up, you just need a little break, say you need a break until valentines day or something, you can have your space until the romantic holidday and you will be so happy to have him back you will be ready for him.


OK i got this realllly cute real Guchi purse for my birthday. Its really cute! and I just figured out that the most popular girl in school has the same purse! Im really mad cause i really want to use it but i can't because if she see's it shes gonna hate me! and well she kinda likes me right now and lets me hang out with her and shes really nice and stuff. BUt we cant have any of the same stuff as them. Even clothes. It really stinks cause i love all her clothes and i have the oppurtunitiys to but them! I really like there group! should i even hang out with them? (link)
just ask yourself, are they my true friends or are they going to dump me tomorrow for the next new girl? If they are your friends, just let them have their style and you have yours and you can use your purse when your not with them. If they are going to dump you tomorrow just wear your purse every where, its not like you will care about them either in a week or so. I hope i helped at least a little!
~luv Lyndsey


I have an extremely sore throat. It wouldn't be a big deal but I have singing try-outs for the school play on Tuesday. Does anyone know how to heal a sore throat fast? Thanks. (link)
DONT TALK!! save your voice and drink lots of hot liquids, this way all the junk in your throat will be washed out. just dont talk a lot or else it will get worse and worse. Before your tryouts drink water, but not too much that would make you feel sick! tell me how it goes!!
~luv lyndsey


i know this girl, and i care about her more than anything in the world, but i can tell shes going down the wrong road, i can notice changes in her that i've made, in a good way, but its not enough, shes getting into alchohol now, and that could lead to anything, i've tried talking to her about it but i just cant let out how i feel, PLZ HELP!!! SOS (link)
Then dont tell her face to face, a lot of times that is harder. Try to tell her in a note in good handwriting (so she can tell what it says :P ) and give it to her sometime she is sober so she will remember. Tell her you dont want to lose a good friend like her. Try to tell her all the nasty things that can come from using drugs. One of my best friends went through that and is now in a clinic in montana. So many rumors went around the school about her that arent true and when she gets home she will have a bad reputation from all the rumors. If your friend is big with her look, tell her a bunch of different stuff that can happen if she does what she is doing and if she is big with her reputation, tell her how bad the rumors can get if she keeps doing that stuff. Most importantly tell her how much you care about her and you will help her get through it if she needs help. If she doesnt want to listen try telling a school counselor, i know its like ratting on your friend but trust me, you'll regret it if you dont.


ok well ive been goin out wit this guy 4 about 2/3 months and we still didnt kiss he alwayz sayz he is gonna kiss me and wen he is wit me he he dont stay by me at all he alwayz makes ^ exuses about y he didnt tak 2 me n stuf i realy like this guy & he tells me he luvs me & he tells his friendz he loves me but i dont this he realy likez me ! he also dont like some of mi friendz i think & he says they r the reason y he dont tak to me and i think it is wrong i am not alowed to have a boyfrend cuz i am only 12 and he alwayz says he wanna hang out n stuff but when we do hang out his frendz alwayz come before me and he ignores me n wen i talk to him about it he says he tried n stuff and im getting tired of it ! i really like him ! so wat do i do !please help mee
is he shy , scared of me or wat? (link)
He is probably a little of both. Maybe he just is scared to have a girlfriend and or amybe he has bad experiences with them in the past. You should just kiss him first. that way it takes the pressure off him and you already seem like you would be comfortable with it. wait for the right moment and just do it! And tell him that if he stops putting his friends first, you dont want to be with him, then he will get the idea and will pay more attention to you and talk to you more and if he doesnt, leave him, he doesnt deserve you if he is going to treat you like that. And if you do break up tell your friends how much he ignores girlfriends and that way the memo will get around and the next time he asks someone out, she wont want to because she heard he wouldnt treat her right. I hope i helped!!
~luv Lyndsey


ugh my dad has really been pissin me off lately...i have had alot of cell phones but my last one i lost and now i dont have one..i have been trying to save up for one but it takes to long..how do i get him to buy me the one i want? and my step-mom is a real bitch and last week-end i walked in on them having sex...i dont know what to do! (link)
wow, that must have been a nightmare!i cant even imagine how bad that must have been! okay well maybe you should tell your dad to leave the sex for when you definately arent home and tell him how bad that was and now everytime you walk in on them, you deserve a cell phone.Or just do what lots of people do and save the money untill you have enough, that way when you can get it, it will be so gratifying and you will be so happy with what you earned, it will be hard to lose it.


This may sound dumb but I really need help.

I was browsing the internet and remembered a site I had visited earlier called TeenOrg or something like that- it had like chat rooms and articles and stuff. I was pretty sure I remembered it, so I typed in teenorg.com. And viola, a teen porn page appears. Of course I closed it out, but I'm freaked now- my uncle fixes my computer quite often and I'm scared he'll see it.

My internet browser is Mozilla Firefox and my computer is Windows XP. How do I get rid of it? (link)
Just tell him rite away, before he finds it and you can prove to him that its a chat room by going on google and typing in Teen Chat or Teen Org or whatever and explain all what happens before he even finds it.


okay my best guy friend and my best girl friend are going out...i really wish them luck..but i cant help but feel jealous...i keep telling myself that i dont like the guy.but every time i see him i melt..the girl invites me to the movies with them but i dont think i could take it..watching them hold hands..is there anything i can do about it..or should i just sit back and watch them go out to the movies and crap right in front of me...i promise ill rate high and i really need help...(13 female) (link)
tell your friend how you fel, at first just tell your girl friend and tell her you cant help it. Let them be but once they break up if its okay with your friend tell him. If you want them to be happy just let them be together and wait for your special guy.


Please help me with my relationship problem, my boyfriend is like absessed with tickling me, he thinks it's funny and cute. It's fun, but it gets annoying. When I tell him to stop, he just keeps doing it. I can't get away. What do I do?? No matter how much I ask, he won't stop. (link)
Dont be mean about it but just try to slip it in somewhere in your conversations or something. If you really want him to get the idea, figure out what somethign he hates is and do that. If he asks you to stop tell him you will if he stops tickling you.


ok well me and my boyfriend are 13..and i heard from like a bunch of people that hes getting me a necklace and flowers but i have no clue what to get him..like i was at the mall yesterday and i went into like every store and i couldn't find anything..i dont want to get him something to expensive cause i really dont have that much money..but like can anyone give me any ideas and like the price they might be? thanks (link)
It depends on how much you really want to spend on him but one way to give him a present that wouldnt take his mind off you that much is to just treat him to dinner and a movie or something. just ask him his favorite resteraunt and surprise him when you bring him there after your movie.




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