I'm sorry if this is kind of long but please, please answer back
[13/F] I like this girl named Jackie and i just can't stop thinking about her. But i feel like...im in love. I liked her for 2 years and she knows that I like her. I talk to her online a lot and my friends know that I like. She knows i wrote about 10 poems about her and that i have a deep obsession about her and even made a journal about my feeling all about her. All my friends tell me to talk to her and that my poems show my true feelings about her. But I'm too scared to talk to her and . I get scared and start to panic when i stand around her, I just really want to say hi to her...even talk to her at school. The hardest thing is that we don't have any classes together and online, i asked her if i could be her boyfriend and she said that how could i be her b/f if i can't talk to her at school.
I'm just so confused and its killing me inside that i can't talk to her and time is running out until she might find a boyfriend that can talk to her. I'm just so depressed without her...I just can't explain most of the situation already, because no one don't know how i feel because i can't put it in words. Please help me.
Additional info, added Sunday March 20 2005, 7:30 pm: my mistake, i meant [13/M]. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? redxroses answered Sunday March 20 2005, 10:44 pm: If you have lunch with her talk to her then. Try to find her in hallways and have small conversations with her. Maybe meet her at her locker before classes... A lot of girls love a guy who loves her, so since she knows about it, maybe she likes you too. Maybe you can ask her out on a date instead of going straight to boyfriend and girlfriend. Good luck. =D [ redxroses's advice column | Ask redxroses A Question ]
mousie_101 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 9:01 pm: Just pull yourself together to say ANYTHING to her! if its a simple "hi" or having a conversation about something you 2 like. it will get easier once you start to talk to her. Maybe you should try talking to other girls more too. i hope i helped!! tell me how it goes!!!
lostinside answered Sunday March 20 2005, 8:55 pm: Do you have lunch together? Maybe you could sit with her at lunch one day. I would take it one day at a time. Everyday get closer and closer to her. You can start off by just saying "Hey, how are you" or something like that. Talk to her online.. maybe you could say "Hey, I think we should hang out sometime, or get to know each other more. You seem really sweet and I want to get to know you." Or maybe you could show her a poem you wrote about her to show her how much you care. You seem like a really sweet guy, and I would love to have a guy like me as much as you like this girl. She doesn't know what she's missing, but she doesn't know how you feel about her! Like you said, if you don't say something soon she could get a boyfriend. You might regret not saying anything to her if you don't say anything soon. You can IM me sometime if you wanna talk.. my s/n is on my column. Goodluck with this girl, I hope everything works out!
perfect101 answered Sunday March 20 2005, 8:33 pm: well it easy try tslking to her maybe the resone you can't talk to her is you really don't like her even though you fell like you like her you may just be confused so take some time and think and if you still can't talk to her write her note or a letter about how you feel she will totaly under stand and it will help you see if she really cares good luck it's killing me insed [ perfect101's advice column | Ask perfect101 A Question ]
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