there is this boy and we went out over the summer, but a day before shcool started abck we broke up. We havent talked in almost 6 months and i still like him. He has a girlfriend, but he stares at me and all sometimes. I want to write him a note and tell him that i still like him, but i dont know what all to say. Anyone got any ideas? i rate high!!
dreamingkat answered Monday March 21 2005, 6:32 pm: I'm a strong proponent of friendship. I wouldn't push anything romantic right away, but there's no reason you can't hang out as friends. I would start by finding a handful of friends - boys and girls - and invite him and his girlfriend to hang out with all of you sometime.
I'd write a note that said something like "Hi! I know we haven't spoken much/at-all since school started, and I'd like to change that. Would you and your girlfriend be interested in hanging out with this-chick, that-dude, a-few-other-people, and I after school on friday? We were thinking about getting milkshakes and hanging out in the park" That way he can write back and say "sure! I've missed hanging out with you too", or "I'm busy on friday, what about going with a group of my friends to the mall saturday afternoon?". He may also just not answer, which probably means that either he's not interested or his girlfriend doesn't like the idea. [ dreamingkat's advice column | Ask dreamingkat A Question ]
sweet_apples answered Monday March 21 2005, 11:27 am: well i cant give the kind of advive that would he;p but what i would is write him a letter i mean what the worst he can do turn you down but before i write him i would make sure he stares at me and maybe even say hi to make sure he knows that you still exsit you know sorry couldnt be more help write back if you need more advice good luck love sweet apples [ sweet_apples's advice column | Ask sweet_apples A Question ]
4Gotten answered Sunday March 20 2005, 10:22 pm: ok just tell him that you still have great feelings about him and that he made you happy in so many ways, tell him that you can give him happiness as well if you guys get back together, tell him you like him, there is no limit on expressing your feelings, just tell him you need him so bad and well i know that probably wasnt very helpfull so sorry if it wasnt laters good luck. [ 4Gotten's advice column | Ask 4Gotten A Question ]
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