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Ok, I know this sounds lame, but I think boys don't like me. I haven't had a boyfriend for a bit longer than a year. I even tried asking some guys out and they said no. It just makes me feel like they don't like me. I'm nice, athletic, funny, cool, and all that stuff. I tried being patient, but it's not working. Even the guys I like treat me just like one of their friends. What am I supposed to do? I'll rate HIGH!!!!!!!!!

i think that any girl should be able to get someone, if they say no then ther just jerks and you shouldnt waste time with jerks like that go with guys who have good insides

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Hey, um, I used to go out with this dude and like we loved each other a lot. When we broke up it hurt like shit loads and like I still love him. But I hide it from all my friends and everything. I still have dreams about him and I can't stop thinking about him. Like long story short, I still love him like a lot. I've told many people that I have gotten over him and that I love someone else and whatever. But truth is I haven't. How can like how can I forget about him and just move yet like just be friends with him. Because everytime I try to get over him, but like the next time I see him I fall for him again. How can I just look at him as a friend rather than as a boyfriend or as a crush? How can I move on?

Signed, Troubled Child

hi jenny lol

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there is this boy and we went out over the summer, but a day before shcool started abck we broke up. We havent talked in almost 6 months and i still like him. He has a girlfriend, but he stares at me and all sometimes. I want to write him a note and tell him that i still like him, but i dont know what all to say. Anyone got any ideas? i rate high!!

ok just tell him that you still have great feelings about him and that he made you happy in so many ways, tell him that you can give him happiness as well if you guys get back together, tell him you like him, there is no limit on expressing your feelings, just tell him you need him so bad and well i know that probably wasnt very helpfull so sorry if it wasnt laters good luck.

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Hey guyz, im flirty! i would love 4 u guyz to give feedback and visit my cloumn. ask me questions or view tthe questions. i give good advice, and i would love to spread the word bout whoever asks me questions or email me. visit my column and you'll see who i am. lol. :P :D

y that sounds nice but how do i know who you are lol, how do i know what collumn is yours.

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well last saturday i went to my cousins daughters birthday party and i was downstairs with my grandmothers neighbors grandson and we were hanging out, and we were watching TV and i had my head resting on his shoulder and my legs were on his lap and he had his arm around me.. and then my brother came down and was like.. ahh u like her!! to him and he pushed me off and stood up and he was like, no i dont, we were just watching TV. and then he went upstairs and i have NO IDEA what he's thinking now, because he sent mixed signals. and now i like this other kid and he's REALLY funny and pretty cute, and i pretty much cant get my mind off him.. but i dont know what do do... i have mised feelings.

ok, this grandparents neighbors grandson is the one you should pick, he most likley likes you because i say this alot i am a guy and i know the signs, he sounds like he likes you alot and him leaving was us guys way of life all guys are shy, and embarrased, and also some peoples families dont let them date but they do anyways, just pick him believe me. good luck laters.

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OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?!

wow, lol well if you havnt already, get mad at him and if he tries to talk to you blow him of and tell him to stop, he probably likes you and then he will stop telling you stuff like that because he will think you know he likes you, hope it works good luck laters.

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okay well my best friend is always telling the people i like that i like them!! and she's always mean and like, yeah you have no friends, haha im just kidding! and then she says that the kid i like, matt, would never like me. and its really annoying.

And my other best friend is ALWAYS up on the guy i like. and if i stop liking them, she loses all interest. its REALLY annoying.

ok just dont talk to those people again, make it seem like you have sympathy on them and dont seem dissapointed when they say stuff about you even though you are, girls dont deserve to be treated like that good luck.

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well my friends suck, theyre always rude to me and get on my nerves. i try to help with their problems but they just act like im an idiot. anyway, i try to meet new people and talk and get together but no one wants to..and they already have best friends. what do i do?

um, thats a good question i dont know what to say sorry but just keep looking, you will find somone who does and then they will introduce you to other friends and there you go, i know thats a mom answer but it works, and i will be your friend:) just add me if you have hotmail add arsenic_4_@hotmail.com im a nice guy lol but seriously im nice and im 13 and i am nice lol good luck laters.

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i know alot of girls probably do this.. but i always compare myself to models and girls who i believe are prettier than me.. im always putting myself down and looking in the mirror finding everything thats wrong with me and wishing i was perfect like other girls I know... does anyone else do the same.. how do you get over it

ok, im a guy and i say all girls are perfect and models think they are, and you should not think about the bad things about you and look for the good things good luck laters.

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Hey. I'm in the 7th grade, and for my grade in math for the 3rd quarter, I know I got a 87.45% B+. Can that be rounded to an A?

lol sorry but no, if you do an extra credit assignment then mabey, but the only way you can have it rounded is if it is a 89.5 or higher% lol believe me, ive tried good luck laters.

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so today i asked a guy i really like to be my b/f and he said yes after keeping me in suspence for a few hours during the school day. hes really shy all the time so i asked him out. im afraid this relationship isnt gonna work out cuz he wont call or talk to me... should i give it some time to get comfy (if yes, how should i help him) or just tell him to forget it?

ok, look this guy is a good guy, because all guys are shy i know because i am one and guys who are not acting like they are tough and not shy are shallow and worthless on the inside dont brake up with him because then he will get more shy and you will ruin his oppurtunities with other women, just give him time and joke around with him alot take things slow and tell him to call you and stuff just dont brake up with him. good luck laters.

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Okay now I dont want to sound too sluty but yesterday I went some where with my friend and when we got there it was this really cute boy there. Now he was flirting with me(rubbing my leg and holding my hand) but the bad part of all this is he was doin gthe same to my friend, when we went outside, we actually made out. When we got back to my friends house she told me that they made out! Now I don't know if that is true or not because they were never really alone together bu twhat if it is true? I have to see this boy every thursday, and I think we both like him, but who does he like??? PLEASE HELP ME

ok this guy is messed up if this is true what your cousin is saying, i am a guy and i know what he is thinking, he is thinking that he has two girls and which ever one of you doesnt go out with him, he will go with the other dont bother with him girls shouldnt be treated like that good luck laters.

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okay well i used to like this kid matt, and he found out but we didnt make a big deal out of it. it was around christmas. now its like 3 months later and im starting to like him again. he doesnt know.. but it seems like he wants to be with me alot more. he is always volunteering me for things in school, like today in math we did this thing with judges ((dont ask)) and he was like.. she would be good at it!! and i was like.. but i dont like to talk.. and he was like.. shut up you love to talk you talk to me all the time.. and then at lunch he kept looking at me and whenever our eyes met he would smile at me. im not sure if i should tell him or not.

ok i am a guy and i will tell you right now that is like a big siren lol he so likes you and you should tell him if what you said is true, then he will ask you out with time because guys are reely shy, well good luck and most guys including me are like that so this guy MIGHT be the same but it sounds like he is good luck laters

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Ok now well i have been with this kid whom we'll call john and my ex we'll call jack.Ok me and john have been together for about 3-4 weeks and i was with my ex for 5 months then we broke up in january but lately i have begun to get old feelings back for jack but we are BOTH in a relationship so i wrote him a letter after john left for florida basically asking him out and i am waiting for right now but the prob is if it doesn't work out should i tell john when he comes back about what i was secretley doing?? plz help i only have a couple of days left!!!
~~ME~~

well i know this is not the correct moral thing to do but i wouldnt, but if you tell john about this which is the best thing to do, then you wont have the fear of him finding out later and getting mad, and if he gets mad, hes not worth it, but im not saying that he shouldnt be a little angry because it was kind of bad what you did sorry to say just tell him that it wont happen again and meen it.good luck laters

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i have a whole spring break to make 300$! i need it at the end of the week! i borrowed my sisters ipod for a day and then someone stole it out of my purse! i have filed a police report but the chances fo finding it are very slim. PLEASE give me ideas besides just babysitting to come up with 300$ in a week! i dont have a job because im 15 but i dont have enough time to apply and make 300 in a week.

PLEASE give me any idea you have! i'll take it! I RATE! I"LL DO ANYTHING!

TIMES GOING FAST!

well if your a guy, then mow lawns and do other stuff that pays good, if your a girl, well then i would say....do alot of chores inside, i know that sounds sexist, but i dont meen it to be, im just saying that many people will not pay a girl much to do outside jobs because THEY dont believe that girls can, also just ask friends if they know any where you can get money good luck.

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I have this "friend"that talks behind my back!!! she even said she hated me, to my other friend!!!I don't know what i did?!! When i try to talk to her all she does is say "i don't need advise I'm not rude so shutup!!!" I think she is also a show off to impress me and my best friend!! How can i solve this?!!!

ok, this is really easy, just dont ever talk to her or consider her a friend anymore, dont talk about her behind her back because that just makes you as bad as her, just pretend like she was never in your life she was just anuther girl at school and always look happy around her so she feels even worse that your not getting hurt by what shes saying, trust me it works, i have done it lol good luck hope it helps.

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ok me and this guy have been going out for about 4 months, im 14, female, and i luv him soo much! We have made-out and been to each others houses, also hes looked down my shirt and lil things nuthing totally taking clothes off or anything, i definately dont want to have sex because im a christian and ive made that promise so what should we do if i want more than just making out?

well dont ever tell him that you want more than just making out, lol because he'll take it a different way all guys are like this he will try to have sex with you, just whenever you think of this again just just think of your religion and believe that its better to just keep it in your mind, what ever it takes to keep from having sex, i know that didnt sound very helpfull, but i cant really think of anything more than making out than having sex lol sorry good luck laters.

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ok well i dont know what else to tell you sorry but just good luck sorry add me if you have msn arsenic_4_@hotmail.com and im 13 not sum creepy guy lol laters.

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Me and this guy use to go out. He broke up with me and I didnt see him for a long time. I was in love with him, we started talking again and we hug and flirt and talk but theres this other girl he does some of that stuff with too. I still have feelings for him, everytime I see him I always think god he's hot, and think about how much I care for him. But wut do I do? I need him back, he's like all I ever think about.

i would say just ask him out again tell him how much you still care about him, if you tell him how you feel, he will see that you are serious about this, but do it fast because if the other girl asks him out, then youll be out of luck lol good luck.

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hi, remember me? I talked to you guys about this guy I like and I wasnt sure if he liked me back.
Anyway. I went to a party last night and I was shocked. I felt like I was shot twice : he smoked and he dirty-danced with a girl, you know with her butt all over him. I really thought he was different, that's why I liked him in the first place.She's not his gf cause she danced with other guys.
I really need some help...Should I ignore all this and try to get to know his personality better? Or should I move on and forget all about him?
Please don't delete this question, the answers are very important to me.

ok 4get this guy hes not worth it and ur good to be shocked because its not right hes messed up ur worth more than that get a guy who is clean and has better morals good luck take cares

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ok well i have this ex b/f i will call him z and i went out with im on and off for almost a year i alos got quite heavy with him. i still like him and have done since we broke up. he has mooved on and been with loads of other girls so why cant i move on???

the reason you cant move on is because he probably gave you care and love no other guy has and you miss the attention and care he has given you but its ok laters

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