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Boys don't like me?
Ok, I know this sounds lame, but I think boys don't like me. I haven't had a boyfriend for a bit longer than a year. I even tried asking some guys out and they said no. It just makes me feel like they don't like me. I'm nice, athletic, funny, cool, and all that stuff. I tried being patient, but it's not working. Even the guys I like treat me just like one of their friends. What am I supposed to do? I'll rate HIGH!!!!!!!!!
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i think that any girl should be able to get someone, if they say no then ther just jerks and you shouldnt waste time with jerks like that go with guys who have good insides
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well maybe it is a good thing they treat you like one of their friends? a lot of guys like to be friends with girls before they date them. just be patient sweetie. it will happen for you. you know what they say: it will find you when you least excpect it. hope that helps you!! <3
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i know exactly how you feel but all you have to do is stop searchin for a boyfriend and everything u want will come to u. its like that saying never frown because you never know whos falling in love with your smile. that is so true. just stop looking for a boyfriend. be yourself and dont worry about any guys until they come to u. i hope i helped. =)
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hey
who cares if boys don't like you i really can't say you are pretty because i have not seen your face but i am dure you are just may be try to flirt with them but don't act like totally tarded ok
your friend daddydiva
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wow well some of my friends havent even had a boyfriend yet and they are 15 but try to flirt around w/ them and mayb give them a hug before you leave...you know just a friend saying goodbye hug and try to lead convo into more personal things
hope i helped
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It might seem like guys don't like you but im sure they really do, sometimes its just really hard to tell. I think everyone feels that way sometimes but just dont worry about it cuz you know that you've got a lot to offer so you'll find lots of guys who will appreciate that.
muchh <3 Rachel
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well sometimes..thing happen really slow...like wheni was younger..i always wanted boyfriends..and te would never like me..i had no clue why..and then in 3rd grade i got my first boy friend..and then eventually he broke up with me..i wsa devistated! i thought that i would nevver get another boyfriend again!. But not too long after that i had another one. It kinda happends like that. Just be patient, and when you find a guy that you like..you have to take a risk. Somehow let him know t t you like him..it might be really hard, and you might be nervous but, it really will help if he likes you. And if that guys doesn't then keep trying! Dont ever give up! because when you least expect it..you'll get you guy! ;)...im sure right now tere are many guys that like you..that have your same problem and probablly think that you wouldn't like them. But trust me..in time you wil get yor man!
good luck!!
Thanks
Love Always -Logan-
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You should not focus on the fact that you don't think boys like you. You don't know this for sure. Someone out there likes you (most likely) they just haven't had the guts to say so. Right now you should try having fun with your friends and hanging out and not worrying about when you will find your next boyfriend.
Someone should not be defined by their relationship status. Enjoy being unattached. You can flirt, you can openly talk about how hot guys are, you can do alot of things that you couldn't if you had a boyfriend. Eventually someone will come along, I know it is cliche, but it always finds a way to happen. You will not spend the rest of your high school years (or the rest of you life for that matter) single. Enjoy it while you have it.
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well.
are you ugly?
that could be part of it.
cause you know:
guys can be pretty shallow!
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You obviously need to meet new guys.
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Hey,
i used to hav the same problem. I finally got up the nerve to talk to my mom bout it and u kno wwat she said? she told me that when she was in HS she had a similar problem and her guy friend told her that it was because they were intimidated by her(the guys). So just start making guy friends and then they'll ease up. All the Luck!
-daria
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I found in life the more you're LOOKING for a boyfriend, the less likely you are to "find" one. There not something you need, make sure you tell yourself that. Sure, it's nice to have, but everyone sees dating as the most important thing ever. When really, that's not how it is. Enjoy being single & free because there's tons of people for everybody, it just depends who you meet first. And trust me--you WILL meet atleast one of them. I know you said you tried being patient--which is good. But you can't be patient for 2 weeks and think your chances with boys are over. There might be someone out there who even likes you but is too shy to say or just doesnt want a girlfriend. Also--about asking guys out--I'm not trying to be too old-fashioned, but wait for guys to ask you out. In a relationship, make a guy pursue you. Otherwise, when you start dating it's going to always be YOU making the plans and YOU calling him on the phone and it won't feel special. The more you help yourself to stop "needing" a boyfriend...the more confident you will look...and then you are more likely to actually find one. But you need to stop looking genuinely, because if you "stop looking" for 2 weeks and get tired of it your only going to anger yourself. Good Luck!!
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i know how you feel... i've been there trust me! all you have to do is stop searching for a boyfriend.. live your life and eventually they'll come to you!
<3Sarah
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