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I am 13 and I still don't have my period!I don't know what is going on, I weigh more than a lot of my friends and they all already have them!!!What do I do????
Love always(please help),
Gina (link)
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sorry hun there is nothing you really can do. everyone just gets it in their own time.. your not behind or anything my friend didnt get hers til she was 15.. dont be in a hurry cuz once you get it trust me youll wish you didnt..
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One of my friends likes this guys and wants to date him, so we have all been trying to get them together. the thing is whenever we all go to the movies or whatever her best friend is always all over him. her best friend just got out of a relationship and is taking it pretty hard. lately she has been hanging out with my friend's crush (just her and him)
I was wondering whether anyone thinks that she would go for the guy. I mean normally i dont think she would, but she isnt in the best mental state. what do i do?
ps: the guy likes them both
Thanks!
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well it sounds as if she must have some interest in him. she most likely wouldnt hang out with him, just the two of them if she didnt. Maybe she is just looking for confidence you get when someone likes you, the confidence you lose when you end a relationship. There really isnt anything you can do about it she'll come out of it on her own and maybe lose all interest in the guy, or maybe not. basically if i were you i would just talk to her about everything going on and see what she says..
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hi 14/f here and i just got my period for the very first time last night, but there is soooo much blood ! i dont know if this is normal or not . and i had cramps and got whiney and everything and i dont think that im suppossed to get this on my first time !! is this normal ?? help me im so scared !! (link)
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dont be scared sweetie its normal but if your worried about it talk to a friend or parent!
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ok i made a picture account on picture trail b/c my photobucket would not let me upload two really big pictures and well i get emails that say how many times my pic has been viewed this week so one of them has been viewed 203 times in 3 weeks!! ANd no one has the site! I mean no one i know has it becasue i never gave it anyone... so i realized that picturetrail is not private but then i wnet to go see how ppl find my pictures and i cant fuirgure it out... how do ppl find my pictures if they dont know my user name? (link)
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i think there is actualy a way you can make it private on there not sure how. and im not sure how they found them in the first place. maybe you have it set on public and so people can randomly see it or its listed.. thats how mine was at least. sorry i cant help more.
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Well. There's this guy I really really adore. I used to be close friends with him but I'm not anymore...:(. Anyways I wanna find some old blogs of his and I was wondering if you all could help me! :D Please, if you can, list all the diary/journal/blog sites that you know of. Thanks! :D (Yes, I do rate!) (link)
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open diary
live journal
storm diary - not sure if that is still around or not
diarest.net
xanga
myspace
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what should your gpa be to get into a good college? (link)
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most colleges that i have seen want it at least 3.0 or higher to be even considered. probably about a 3.5 to make a good impression.
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All of my friends and family tell me that I am beautiful, and so pretty. But when I look in the mirror, I am like.."eww." I can't take it anymore, I feel disgusted at myself. When I first meet people, they go, "wow you are beautiful!" I don't know if they are telling the truth or not. I have had people come up to me and ask if I model. But when I look in the mirror, I just don't see it. I have a boyfriend, he is wonderful, but he never tells me that I am beautiful. I went to a dance with him and he calls me up after and says, "hey, sorry I forgot to say you looked really nice tonight." and well he never said I look pretty or anything. I just don't know what to do. Is there any way to gain confidence on your looks? I am very outgoing..but sometimes I get so self conscious that I feel like I just want to go home and stay in the house. I am pretty popular at my school so I know it isn't a social disorder thing, because I have no problem with making friends. I just am so self conscious. Does anybody know of a way to stop being this way?
-14/F (link)
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no unfortunatly i wish i knew how to make it go away. i am soo self conscious too. whenever i get complaments im always like oh no im not im ugly or im fat. people get annoyed with that. just try not to think about i guess that is all that you really can do. whenever someone gives you a complament just beleve that it is true dont go analzying yourself. just have fun and eventualy you will be happy with yourself
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Is it weird that im in 7th grade and havnt had my first kiss yet?? i mean, so many people in my grade have been kissed. Am im like, a freak or something? (link)
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you are def. not a freak. try not to think about it. youll find a guy and it will happen for you when the time is right. lots of people that are my age, 16, still havnt even. dont be in a rush, not as many people as you think have been.
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14 year old male
There are a lot of "How do I get this guy/girl to like me" questions on this site, and mine is the exact opposite.
I'm pretty positive that a girl that I have PE with has a crush on me, and my friend agrees with me. The thing is, I'm not attracted to her in any way what-so-ever, not even as a friend. I don't like her because she over analyzes things and is an immature person that thinks she is mature.
Is there some sort of way I can make her not have a crush on me? I don't want to make a total jerk out of myself, because that's not that type of person that I am, and I also deffinetly do not want to hurt her. Any thoughts? (link)
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Well as a girl I would say don’t do anything just ignore her. Yeah shell think you’re a jerk but it would hurt her feelings and probably embarrass her if you said anything. So my advice is just don’t do anything that way she will eventually give up.
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Does anybody know how old you have to be to serve alcohol in MN? And also North Dakota? Thanks you! (link)
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in MN you only have to be 18 years old to serve alcohol..
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Do you think that giving your best friend a gift card is too impersonal?
Because the thing is even though we are really close I have no clue what to give her. Then any time I ask what she wants she just says, 'Whatever you know what I like.' And infact I do know what she likes but she seems to already have everything.
So is a gift card really something you could give a best friend?
♥ Thanks.
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well ive been told that it is impersonal but personally that is what i want my friends to get me and that is what i get them.. and they dont ever complain, obviously.. basically no there is no reason yuo cant give a gift card to your best friend.
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We were having a Xmas party at my school today. In one of my classes, we were having a mock debate game. The teacher would call up four of us and give us a topic. One of the topics was 'it Santa Claus real or not"? Two people had to debate for the positive, that he was real, and the other two had to debate that he wasnt.
Well when my turn came up, the topic was: does Santa spend his summer in mexico or the North Pole? I was on the negative team, so I had to debate that Santa did NOT spend his Xmas in Mexico.
Well when I started talking I was really on a role. I said that I had been to Mexico 3 times and never once had a seen a fat, pasty looking man with a long white beard tanning on the beach. Then I added "who would want to see that? It's DISGUSTING!! I also talked about how Santa never has a tan, and that if he spent a whole summer in Mexico he would still be a bit bronn at Xmas time. I also added that he had to compile his naughty and nice list and get his elves in order, and that the summer is only 4 months away from Xmas so he would definatley have to spend his Xmas in the North Pole.
Well I got a couple of chuckles during my speech, and me and my partner won a prize for best debate!!
The only thing I'm worried about is now some of the guys in the class are avoiding me, and not being as friendly to me after I made my speech. I thought of two things: maybe some guys don't like girls to be funny and outspoken, that's what guys do, and 2, maybe they were offended by me saying that seeing Santa tanning on the beach was digusting.
Does anyone have any ideas?
PS, not everyone reacted this way. The teacher came up to me afterwords and told me I was hilarious. (link)
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i dont think you insulted them guys just dont like to lose maybe there mad thy didnt get laughs. but it doesnt sound like anything you said would be insulting so just try not to worry about it hun!
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Can you give me some websites that sell cute clothing. not hollister,abercrombie,american eagle or old navy. Thanks alot i dont know where to shop with my christmas money lol! (link)
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forever 21 - they have some cute things.
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ok i like this kid and my friend asked him why he didnt like he and he said it was because i was too skinny. like i kno im skinny but not so much that you shouldnt like a person because of it and its really bothering me b.c a lot of people lately have been commenting about my weight.. i just dont gain any no matter what i eat.. its not my fault. but what should i do? (link)
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hun its his loss you shouldnt have to change yourself for a guy. if he doesnt like you because your too skinny then he is just shallow and ridiculas. you can get better someone that will respect you more than that. dont let him bring you down and dont change yourself for anyone else.
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So today I got this message from some random person. I called that number and I found out it was an adult. He started asking me for personal information and I told him fake stuff like my names this and that. Then he started saying I want to start a realationship with you and I just went crazy. I messaged him ssome really rude messages because I want them to leave me alone SO BADLY!!! It really pisses me off to know that I haave stalkers that might.. Who knows what???
Also, I think I know who those guys are. I have a guitar teacher and hes perverted and he loves me. (eew... hes 20 years older then me.)
So I think he gave my number to his friends.. UGh.. What jerks.. Any ideas on how to stop this?? I cant ignore them because they keep on messaging me. I told them that I will call the police if they don't shut up.
Oh and by the way I live in Indonesia where it's really dangerous to just walk outside. (link)
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okay well you definetly cant ignroe them youre right about that. you have to talk to someone though. maybe try a parent or an adult you trust. they can help you through it. it sounds scary and you shouldnt have to deal with this all alone. good luck sweetie!
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yea hey everyone! ok there is this guy named walker, real sweetheart. he does nething for me and he helps me all the time but...here comes the weirdo part...he wont leave me alone. he calls me 24/7 texts me 24/7 and i cant take it anymore. the guy i like (nikk, you might want to read my other question about him) likes me alot and he is starting to get a little unencouraged on wanting to date me! and it will be all walkers fault and i feel so bad cuz he just wants to make me happy but were just not supposed to be together. how to i tell him to back off without using that phrase? someone help me get rid of walker the stalker! much love (link)
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hey hun. i have actualy been in a similar situation just recently. you just have to tell him how you feel, maybe tell him you think hes a great person and that your glad your friends that way when you tell him to "back off" he wont take it as something as harsh. yeah it will still hurt his feeleings. but make sure you really make an effort after it to show him you want to be freinds. as for nikk, just maybe tell him of the situation that way he knows that your just trying not to hurt walker. anyways good luck and hope i helped. : )
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Is it possible to have a orgasm when you're dreaming/asleep? (link)
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yeah it is possible.
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has anyone tried that? what did you think of it? (link)
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yeah ive tried it. i think its pretty good. :)
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ok i broke up w/ this girl and i really wish i hadnt and we still like each other-alot-but she made a vow not to go back out w/ me even though she still likes me or anyone until next year, but she may forget the feeling so should i ask her out or keep going on? i rate VERY HIGH!
thanks,
~fellow advicenator~ (link)
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hey.. dont keep asking her. just give her some space. just make sure she knows your not going anywhere and they way you feel for her. just remind her of the way she feels for you by doing whatever you did that made her feel that way in the first place. dont give up. girls just want to feel liked.. hope i helped!
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Ok, I know this sounds lame, but I think boys don't like me. I haven't had a boyfriend for a bit longer than a year. I even tried asking some guys out and they said no. It just makes me feel like they don't like me. I'm nice, athletic, funny, cool, and all that stuff. I tried being patient, but it's not working. Even the guys I like treat me just like one of their friends. What am I supposed to do? I'll rate HIGH!!!!!!!!! (link)
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well maybe it is a good thing they treat you like one of their friends? a lot of guys like to be friends with girls before they date them. just be patient sweetie. it will happen for you. you know what they say: it will find you when you least excpect it. hope that helps you!!
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