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too skinny?
ok i like this kid and my friend asked him why he didnt like he and he said it was because i was too skinny. like i kno im skinny but not so much that you shouldnt like a person because of it and its really bothering me b.c a lot of people lately have been commenting about my weight.. i just dont gain any no matter what i eat.. its not my fault. but what should i do?
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hun its his loss you shouldnt have to change yourself for a guy. if he doesnt like you because your too skinny then he is just shallow and ridiculas. you can get better someone that will respect you more than that. dont let him bring you down and dont change yourself for anyone else. <3
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He might have actually said that because it was the easiest thing to grab at. However, he did make a pretty good point he's not interested in you. No point in pressing the matter with him.
As to your weight, the important thing is that you are eating properly and taking care of yourself. If you have other problems that you think are related to being underweight, please visit your doctor. Though I imagine she or he will say you're perfectly fine.
I know it's hard, but don't let strangers hurt you with their ignorance about weight. I'm also a very skinny person, but I found it works very well to laugh at the matter. As in, if someone mentions I'm skinny, I might say "Yeah, it's great!". That lets people know I don't have a problem with myself and they're less likely to be rude about it.
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Your right, it's not your fault. If he won't date you because of your weight, he's low. I know it might not be as easy as all that to label him a jerk and move on, but he's honestly not worth your time. Even if he did decided he liked you, it just shows how he'd act during a relationship. LOW. It could be possible that he was using your weight as an excuse because he didn't know how else to express to your friend why he didn't like you. When it comes right down, not all people have a reason to NOT like people. It's just their feelings torwards a specific person. There's not always a reason.
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You should not listen to what he says. He seems like a shallow asshole. Relationships with people who are that superficial hardly ever work. Don't waste your time with him.
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personaly from what you have said i would rather be like that then be over wieght. i mean if the guy doesnt like you because of your weight then fuck him i mean come on guys can be sooo picky some times. they shouldnt be judgin you about the way you look it should be more of personality. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*
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Miikelaa says:
lol alriightt. you REALLY shouldnt care what ne one thinks of you. its what YOU think of you. if a guy doesnt like you cause your skinny hes not the guy for you. some1 eles ..[[ some1 better ]]
is going to COME ALONG and hes not going to be a jerkishh asshole who wants to fuck a fat chick. [[ lmao sorry had to say it ]] if you liek your bodyy why should you care.
you just need to reminde yourselff thatt YOU LOVE YOUR BODY. just look n the mirror and sayy.
"FUCKK YEAHH THIS IS HOW I LOOK AND I ALWAYS WILL AND BITCHH IF U DONT LIKEE IT KISSS MY ASS CAUSE
[[ this is the important part ]] I LOVE MYSELFF AND I LOVEE MY BODYY AND I LOVEE MY SKINNY LITTLE SELF AND I DONT NEED TO CHANGEE CAUSE GOD [[ if you dont want to say god you can you I ]] LOVES ME JUST THE WAY I AMM BITCHHESS"
lol good luckk hott stuff
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Yuo should NEVER go by what someone else think of you. That guy is a loser...he shouldn't judge you like that and 'm sure you are a smart beautiful person and you don't need anyone to tell you otherwise
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we both sound the same. I can eat so much but i never gain anything. i'm in 10 grade adn weigh 105 pounds. and people say they wish they were skinny like me but i know some people probably say i am too skinny which i don't mind. but i think that thats not the real reson because i mean he probably didn't wanna say no i don't like her that way he just had to come up with a lame reson which probably isn't true. maybe you should talk to him. just be like hey so now i'm to skinny for you in a joking way...
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Dear Skinny,
First of all if a guy you like doesn't like you because of anything physical then he's not even worth your time and besides there are always plenty of other fish in the sea. You wouldn't even want a boyfriend who thought that you should change anything about yourself. You should always know that the people who truly care for you are the people who don't care about your appearences and are the people who except you for the special person that you are.
much love,
Lisha
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agree with brokenagain on everything.
if it bothers YOU, go talk to a docter about it, there may be ways to slow your metabolism or he might at least give you proper advice on the subject.
I'm the skinny and don't seem to gain weight, I noticed that I don't gain weight cause I skip alot of lunches and eat at random times (supper 17:00 one day, 20:00 the next,...).
hope this helps,
Cheers
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I think that first off, you should just forget about the guy who turned you down because of your weight. Hes shallow. And as for the comments you get, I think the best you can do is try taking them as a compliment instead. Now, if it's people insulting you and calling you a skinny whore or something, thats different. But I'm guessing that you're recieving comments from a few friends. If someone calls you skinny, it's most likely ment to be a compliment, who wants to be fat? Nobody. Everyone wants to be skinny to look attractive to people. I think what is upsetting you the most is that a guy turned you down because of it. Well, let me tell you something. This guy is a selfish ungreatful person, and hes going to have a tough time finding girls that match up his standards. Just because hes not interested in you, it doesn't make you less of a person, or less attractive.
-TheTeenGirl
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hey i have had the same problem before you just dont gain weight you will soon not alot but ya if he doesnt like you because your to skinny it sounds like an excuse to me but idk dont take what other people say to heart hope i helped
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if someone doesnt like you b/c of your weight then that person is no good for oyu--they should like you for the person you are. As for weight gaining sometimes people can eat 24-7 and not gain nothing. This is b/c your metabolism is very high. Depending how how old tyou are you probobly have alot of time left to grow--but if the metabolism conitnues to be high you wont gain--Dont try to do anything to please a person either they need to not only see the outter beauty but the inner also. The inner beauty is what makes a person beautiful
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