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i'm a fun outgoing person who loves to hang out with friends. i love to rock climb swim draw shop read and hang out with friends. I also just love to help people with their problems thats why i think i'd be a great advice columnist. It could be about anything i have all the answers all you have to do it ask!!!

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hey bubblesamin i think that i like this guy and i' not sure if he likes me. Do you have any suggestions to test him if he likes me or not?

i rate all 5's thanks!

Dear confsed,
If you always catch him looking at you or always catch him talking about you in a good way that sorta gives away hints that he likes you. If you flirt with him a lot then try getting your friends to talk to his friends about the situation to find out if he truly likes you or not.


good luck and much love,
bubblesamin

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okay really random question. but in xoxo. which is the hug and which is the kiss?

Dear XOXO,
The x is the hug and the o is the kiss


much love,
bubblesamin

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Hey, Im 14 years old and found a bump on my vagina. It looked somewhat like a pimple. There's only one. Could this be herpes or what? Should I just forget about it? I'm a virgin. Any help thank you.

Dear Herpes,
That is such a huge coincidence cause i have one too. Trust me it's not herpes i asked my big sister what is was i showed it to her and she said it's an ingrown hair. Have you been shaving down there lately or the past month or so? If you have that's the reason and be honest, if you haven't you should get up enough courage to go to preferably your mom and ask her to make you an appointment with your doctor to go take a look but if you've been shaving down there lately thats the reason.

much love,
bubblesamin

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my boyfriend always wears black shirts and flannel ones that he rolls the sleeves up. I wanted to buy him more shirts or something but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Does anyone have any ideas on what I could do?

Dear Boyfriend,
Well hey here is your perfect chance to switch his look around a bit becuase it's Christmans time. Try getting some money up and going to a department store and getting him some shirts and sweat shirts that are different and some of the ones should be the ones you want to see him in. So trust me guy always wear the things that their girlfriends get them especially for the holidays cause' they know that we'll make a huge fuss about it. So you should go out and do that then for valentines day buy him something like that and then also for your anniversary.

much love,
bubblesamin

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ok so no offence but im kinda what people call a "computer whiz" or something dumb like that. but that doesnt mean I kno EVERYTHING THERE IS TO KNOW ABOUT CMPUTERS like bill gates.trust me everyone thinks im wonderful but i dont know that much. so all of a sudden my mom wants me to make xmas pics for her. so i go to do it cause i thought it was the least i could do. but, my dad being mr. cheapo bought the clearence printer for like 50 bucks. and it sucks and we just got it! so im trying to explain ro my parents that i tried and tried to fix the dam thing but it wont work!!!!! so there all mad and they are like "if it was for you, you would do it in a sec" but OMG i have no idea whats wrong with the printer!! im tried really hard and i tried tell em that and their like you know what your grounded you cant even do one favor for me. please someone help me with what i can say to convince my parents i have no idea about this printer.

Dear Pissed Off,
I really think you should calmly go up to your parents and tell them that you would love to make copies of pics for them because it's not that hard on a regular computer but the printer you guys bought isn't a good one and if you guys think you can make it work any better then please be my guest but i have tried over and over again and it still won't work, either go out and get a better printer maybe or call someone to come and see if they can fix it or make it work. They shouldn't get mad at you for just saying that to them.

good luck and much love
bubblesamin

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ive been thinking about a new years resolution---to get skinnier. im about 140ish pounds now and 5ft 3in and i wanted to know if doing like 100 sit ups/crunches a day and 100 of these leg excersises thingies when you lay down and lift up your butt. i wanted to know how long it would take to lose like 30 or 40lbs if i did this. if you had any suggestions on this please tell me.

~thankies~

Dear New Years,
I can't even begin to tell you how many times i've tried to lose weight and i have done many different types of things like dieting, sit ups and all different kinds of stuff. It's great that you wanna loose weight because that means that you really care about your appearence and your health. My solution is don't start all at once. Don't start emmidiatly doing 100 sit ups and 100 of those leg exercises because that will just make it harder on your body to make you lose weight. It makes it harder because your body isn't used to working out like that and doing that to your body is just like someone pouring very very cold water on you while you were in a very deep confertable sleep, you wouldn't like it would you? I didn't think so. So just start off with throwing any junk food away that would fall under the category like chips, candy bars, even too much carbs like bread and rice and that kind of stuff can be just as bad as eatting a candy bar. So just start off with throwing all the obvious stuff away like sweets but when you eat for example a bowl of cereal in the morning measure it to a cup and maybe eat some fruit along with it. Always remember that even coffee is bad so when you go to make it instead of sugar put in sweet'n'low you know the ones in the little pink bags. Then for lunch if your gonna have a cheese burgur with french fries take either the bottom or the top off your burgur so you don't have as much carbs as your would then only eat about 17 french fries or if you have a small portion 5 or 10 french fries. As for dinner never eat a piece of meat bigger than your fist yes the protein is good for you but you shouldn't have too much of the same thing. Then if you have rice, measure it to a cup and eat it but don't cheat on having a little bit more. Then for snacks instead of sweets switch your candy bar for an apple or banana or orange the small oragnes are the best. Then for some exercise tips start off doing 30 push ups and 30 crunches then every week add 10 more on to that. So then the second week you'd do 40 crunches and push-ups. Good luck and i hope i helped. Remember this isn't till you just lose weight then your back on your same routine it's a life time commitment.

Good Luck and i hope i helped remember if you ever need some support you can always email me at bubblesamin@yahoo.com

bubblesamin

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Ok, skip the whole. "oh my god, you are so stupid for breaking his heart" stuff. I just need help, I know what I did was wrong.

Ok, first off. I'm trying to get my ex back. I dumped him for another guy, who turned out to be an ass, and i realized what i did was wrong. i miss him a lot and i would do anything to have him back. I have talked to him about this before and he said it was not going to work out. since then we have been good friends, but now im starting to like him again, and he knows. he told me to call him on december 23rd when he gets new minutes on his phone so we can talk about it and i can tell him why i want him back so badly. he is afraid to get back together because he doesn't want me to break his heart again, and i swore on my life i wouldnt. because i won't. i just really miss him and like i dont know if he wants me back or not. im not afraid to call him, just afraid that its going to be a blunt "NO" answer. but why would he make me wait that long for a simple "NO"?

If anyone can help, it would be greatly appreciated. thank you! i give 5s if anyone helps me.

Dear Ex,
I think that admitting you made a mistake is the first step which is exactly what you did and that's a good thing. I think that he made you wait so long to just let it keep poking at you like you did to him when you broke up with him. Tell him when you call him that again "you made a mistake and that everyone does so can we please get back together" i am sure that if he sill rometly still likes you he would give you a chance.

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i feel sooo bad! my friend thinks shes soo amazing, and so talented, and she sings all the time. when she sings everyone either laughs or tells her to shut up. its.... really... really.. bad. i dont know what to tell her. i dont want to hurt her, but shes just embarassing herself! our school musical auditions just happened, and she was shooked when she didnt get called back from the lead. what can i do do help her :/ im 15/f is that helps at all. thank you!

Dear Can't Sing,
This is defiantly a toughy cause i myself looooooovvvveee to sing and artists are very sensitive. Just go up calmy to your friend and let her down easy. Maybe just trick her into taking singing lessons! Go up to her and tell her," You know you sing kinda good but i bet you'd be great if you got a proffesional singing coach to help you out with hitting the higher keys and lower keys just right!" Then if you have time on the weekends take your friend and flip through the yellow pages on affordable singing coaches. So your friend will be happy that your helping her get to a next level and your happy that she's not embarresing herself!!!

much love and i hope it works,
bubblesamin

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So I have this friend Mike. His best friend is Nick & I talk to him all the time (he likes me). Anyway, Mike has an ex gf named Cece. Nick saw Mike & Cece together at a party & told me they were together. So later my friends & I asked him if he had a gf & he said no. I saw Cece at one of Mike's shows and everyone, including Mike, knows I like him. I don't know what to believe! soo today we asked him again & he said he goes on "dates" but doesnt have a a steady/exclusive gf...so he's some kind of multidater? I really don't know what to do or say to him & I see him all day tomorrow. Please help me!

Dear Guyfriend,
I know for a fact that guys can be sooooooooo confusing!! The thing most guys like to do once they find a girl who likes them they start to play hard to get. Since he knows that you like him that's exactly what he's doing. If you like him that much just have your friends and his friends get together to hook you two up but find out if he likes you first!!! There's no harm in trying. And don't worry if there was a slight possibility that he doesn't like you just remember that guys are like bustops if you miss your chance a new one keeps comen' every 15 minutes!!lol

much love and good luck with the guy you know is yours!!!

bubblesamin

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so i have this mole. its all red around the area where the mole is... whats with that? and could there be something wrong with the mole?

Dear Mole,
If you have been messing with the mole that could be the problem if you have been picking at it or something like that. But if you just don't want it there then you can go to the doctors and have it taken off! My grandma once had one taken off and she said that it doesn't hurt that they just freeze it off and that it just comes right off without any pain!

Good Luck and much love,
bubblesamin

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my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ?

Dear Liked,
I think you should tell your friend about it. if she's that good of a friend she will understand. Then let him know right off the bat that your not available and that you could never do that to such a good friend. But one thing to keep in mind is that people can be really sensitive when it comes to relationships so let him down easy and tell him that he already has a girlfriend and that he shouldn't be scopping out any girls. And if there is the slightest chance you like him and want to be with him then tell him that your wouldn't go out with him until your friend and him were broken up.

much love and good luck i really hoped i helped because relationships can be kinda confusing!

bubblesamin

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OMG i just swalled a tortilla chip. it was half of a "Tortillas : Scoops!" and it got stuck in my throat. it didnt totally cover my pipe but i felt it got stuck. i think it ripped something on its way down and im really nervous. then i could feel it going down my body and it felt like it was ripping anything it passed. I'm so scared. What do I do? I already tried drinking a thick liquid. It's down my throat nd all so thats fine.

Dear Scared,
I think if your this scared of it ripping something or sutting something inside of your body then you should make an appointment to go see your doctor i'm not 100% on what they could do or what they do for that sort of thing but just have them take a little look around to make sure every thing is okay and just to let you know that right now it's prbably not there anymore because the natural acids in your stomache have already broken it down so you don't have to worry about it being there for a long time.

Good luck much love and be careful next time lol
bubblesamin

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my bf gave me a hickey on tuesday and it hasnt lightened at all or anything..i mean its VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust me they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help

Dear Hickey,
I don't really know what to do in this situation but try this. Try right before you go to school so you don't have to wear your hair down and be hot all day dabbing on some cover up on it then no one should notice. Then right before you go into practise dab on some more thats water resistant so your sweat doesn't make it come off!

Good luck and much love,
bubblesamin

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Every night for the past week or two, I've been having really bad nightmares. Two of the nights I've had nightmares that I was in a car accident. The other two nights, I've had dreams that I killed someone I love and tried to hide their body, then realized what I did was wrong and felt scared and guilty. I looked everywhere online to find out what these dreams mean and why I keep having them. Can someone tell me what all of this means? I rate 5's for all answers.

Dear Nightmares,
I've had your dreams before for a straight week and i have a dream book that i read and it told me sorta why i had them. First of all try not eatting anything garlic a few hours before you go to sleep. If you had dreams of killing a person you really care for that might mean that you are mad at them for something and your keeping it in instead of telling that person about it. If thats not it then it most likely isn't anything don't stress about it. They should go away any time now. If you have time and really want to know what's going on inside that head of yours then go to your local library and check out some books on dreams and what they mean. They could probably help you out better than I can.

Good Luck and Sweet Dreams,
bubblesamin

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Ok i am 16 female and i got to high school and my boyfriend (getting married) is like 20. Well the other day he seen me hugging my Step-Brother and he was like this that you boyfriend and what are you doing with him anyways. Well told him that it is my Step-Brother and he is going back home and i dont know when the next time i get to see him. But my Boyfriend just said bulls**t. And he is always with other girls. but he don't know thhat i know about it. But then i just said that if you are going to keep on saying that i am cheating we are though so he said fine then i said ok we are over. but i still love him. Was it wrong for me saying we are over or did i do the right thing?

Dear boyfriend,
I think if your guy didn't trust you to at least hug your family then how would he ever trust you with anything else. Trust is the key ingrediant to forming a good relationship and if he can't trust you and he is already cheating on you and you knew about it you did the right thing it's good to get out of that kind of relationship. A relationship without trust and honesty isn't a real relationship. Your only 16 you have plenty of othor people who would be lucky to go out with you so don't fret. Like I always say 'guys are like bustops if you miss one another one comes around every 15 minutes'.

much love and good luck,
bubblesamin

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Okay so my bf and I have been dating almost half a year (6 months dec 10) his birthday is soon and so is Christmas..so what do I get him? Can you give me any ideas please. He's gonna be 16 if that helps

Dear Undecided,
It depends on what kind of guy that you have. Is he a sensitive kind of guy who is really sentimental about things and remeber and pays attention to the little things. Or is he a normal guy who like bling and that kind of stuff? If he sensitive then i'd suggest making him a picture book of all your happy times together and write little comments throughout the book that only he would get sort of like little inside jokes. I think that would be really cute. If he is a normal guy then i'd suggest buying him a really cool silver chain necklace. If your on a low buget then just try and buy him some nice cologne at a discount store with a good name on it so it's cheap for you but makes him think you spent a lot of money on his gift. Nobody siad you couldn't do that! lol!

much love and good luck in finding a gift,
bubblesamin

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why do you think religion is important?

Dear Religion,
It all depends on how you look at religion and what kind of person you are. Sometimes religion is huge because like the muslim, their lives revolve around their religion. If your a person who doesn't take any faith seriously but you do believe in God then religion isn't really important to you. So just ask yourself, " Do I believe in God enough to go to church or something like that every Sunday and to obide by all the rules that follow the religion?" " Would this be the right religion for me?" "Would I really believe this way?"

much love i hope i helped,
bubblesamin

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Help! I get gross sweat marks all the time. I've swithched deoderants and I shower daily! How do I get rid of them, please?!

Dear Swear Marks,
I think i know what your going through because i get them sometimes. First of all what you need to keep in mind is that, yes, you might have switched your deoderant a billion times and take showers daily but moisture deactivates the stuff in deoderant from working. So in the morning put your deoderant on then a couple times during the day about 4 times try keeping your arms apart from you shirt and let some air get in there to keep you from sweating. If you still have sweat marks at the end of the day just wash your clothes and they should come out.

Good luck and much love,
bubblesamin

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Okay so Ive been raped,cheated,used and more in past relationships. But I've know this guy for about 3 years now and weve been dating almost 6 months. Were very close and well I really really think I love him...Is this possible..were sophomores in highschool and weve been best friends ever since 7th grade. We have the same family background and everything. He talks of me being his wife someday..what do you all think?

Dear Possible,
I think that it's cool how he talks about you that way you can tell that this is something kinda serious but you also have to consider that you two are only sophmores in highschool and that it's not a good time to get all crazy about someone because you young and there are plenty other people in the world you can meet that feel the same exact way. Don't let what i said stop you though! You two sound like you are really in love but just consider other options just incase!

Good Luck and much love,
bubblesamin

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ok so im not quite sure how to word this but here it goes my friend told the guy i like that i liked him 2 weeks ago and i just found out monday the thing is tho he didnt act weird about it but now that i know he knows im acting weird bc i feel like i cant talk to him about it and i really cant im just not capable of it, its like i can talk to all my guy friends but when i like someone i go like talking retarded i cant say what i mean and i talk really fast so anyways my friends keep getting involved and one of my friends thats a guy is set to get this guy to ask me out so i feel bad 4 him that everyone is getting in his business ok so heres my question since i cant talk to him what should i do? all ive thought of is write a note but even then i dunno what to say i think it would be pointless to put hey i like you do u like me to bc he doesnt know what hes gonna do he wont communicate with anyone what he wants to anyways back to my question what should i write in my note? do yall have any better ideas i honestly cant talk to him right now well i can but i cant make the first move like i cant just start talking to him but yea what should i write im so confused! sorry this is so long its just confusing thanks!!

Dear Confused,
I think I can help. What i think you should do is first find out if he likes you too but scratch that idea of writing him a note. If he likes you then ask him out if he doesn't then find yourself some other person there will always be someone else trust me!!!

much love and good luck,
bubblesamin

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