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Ok i am 16 female and i got to high school and my boyfriend (getting married) is like 20. Well the other day he seen me hugging my Step-Brother and he was like this that you boyfriend and what are you doing with him anyways. Well told him that it is my Step-Brother and he is going back home and i dont know when the next time i get to see him. But my Boyfriend just said bulls**t. And he is always with other girls. but he don't know thhat i know about it. But then i just said that if you are going to keep on saying that i am cheating we are though so he said fine then i said ok we are over. but i still love him. Was it wrong for me saying we are over or did i do the right thing?
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You ABSOLUTELY did the right thing. No matter how sweet he may seem when you are together, and how you may love that side of him, his jealousy could possibly have turned into an extremely controlling and emotionally/physically abusive relationship. The fact that he wouldn't accept that the guy you hugged is your step-brother (and not to mention got jealous over a simple HUG) is classic preliminary behavior for someone who may turn extremely jealous and possessive. You can do SO much better, especially if he's such a hyprocrite that he's with other girls all the time. I know it can be difficult for you, but don't stress to much and try to do things for yourself or meet guys who will have a trusting and loving relationship with you.
Hope this helps!
Love,
Nevaeh
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Even though you still love him (it will take a while to get over), you did the best thing.
He is always with other girls, and he didn't want to believe you about your step brother. He is old enough to know better.
My guess is HE wanted to break up, He just didn't want to be the bad guy. There is someone out there who will treat you better than that. :)
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Yes you did the right thing, because honestly he would have said something like no baby please don't if he cared a damn about you. Just think about it why love someone that really cheated on you. Like I said this to someone else if a guy is seems paranoid about you cheating most likely he's cheating just blaming someone else hoping to god that you don't get suspicious. Yeah don't try to get back with him he sounds like a total ass. Hope I helped.
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Hun you definetly did the RIGHT thing... if hes going to sit there and be out and about with other girls and leave you home praying that hes not cheating on you and hes going to make you worry like that then hes not worth it... PLUS he was you step brother... why the hell would you honestly do anything with your step brother.. your boyfriend (x) must have had 10 kinds of issues to think that..! Your better off with out him hun..
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Trust is a vital part in a relationship and by reading this it shows he doesnt really trust you.
Basically only you should know if its the right thing you may realise it now or in the future only you can know. Personally I think you did do the right thing as trust is vital and if he is always with other girls he doesnt seem to being showing oyu alot of respect.
I hope i helped
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Dear boyfriend,
I think if your guy didn't trust you to at least hug your family then how would he ever trust you with anything else. Trust is the key ingrediant to forming a good relationship and if he can't trust you and he is already cheating on you and you knew about it you did the right thing it's good to get out of that kind of relationship. A relationship without trust and honesty isn't a real relationship. Your only 16 you have plenty of othor people who would be lucky to go out with you so don't fret. Like I always say 'guys are like bustops if you miss one another one comes around every 15 minutes'.
much love and good luck,
bubblesamin
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Well, he didn't try to make an attempt to get you back, so I think you did the right thing. He is too possessive. You can find better, and you don't really love him if you dumped him over a little fight.
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