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Hi I�m Emma although I go by Emmie. My knowledge is large on loads of topics, I will to the best of my ability try to help with all if your problems, as I do love helping those in need or in confusion.
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**Sorry, I didn't know what what category to put this in.**

My hair is getting a lot of split ends and is frizzy.

I want my hair to be smooth, soft, shiny, and most importantly healthy.

How do I do that? Any good shampoos conditions, and other hair products that will help keep it healthy and shiny?

**Thanks very much in advance.** (link)
Really try aussie 3 minute miracle cream, You can buy it in a lot of places and its not expensive but it really does work!! Its a deeping conditioning conditioner it makes your hair soo smothe and silky and feels amazing. Also it smells great to.
Do you use heat a lot on your hair? Like hair straightners, dryers, tongs etc? Well if you always use a heat protector spray before hand you can buy one from most companies, the aussie one smells nice as does the tre semme one. You should really buy in a conditioning spray to just to make sure your hair is well moistuised and aussie has one.


okay i would prefer people who have or have had their tongue pierced to answer this...
i've heard it doesn't hurt as much as the clamp, is this true? and on a scale of 1 - 10 how easy is it to hide? alsoo does it swell up to where you can't hide it at all for the first few days? and about how long does it stay swollen? and has anyone had problems with like their teeth chipping because of it or anything like that?

thanks!!! (link)
Getting your toungue pierced isnt as such sore, its afterwards a lot of peole find it hard to eat etc. But the good thing is toungue piercings heal really quickly so if its to painful if you take it out it will be closed up in about an hour


I am a high school student who would later like to major in French. I was wondering about what jobs I could pursue. There doesn't seem to be a lot besides teaching and being a translator/interpreter. Does anyone have any ideas?

I appreciate all the advice you can give me. Thanks! =] (link)
You could get a job in france, or could be a french journalist work in the airport work in police force translating be part of the un nations really if you think about it french is a very useful thing to have!!


I've been straightening my hair almost everyday since school started (horrible, I know..) and since it's winter and extra dry, my hair's been dry too. I have always had long, thick hair and now I just noticed yesterday how THIN it's getting!! Last week I started noticing I was getting those little pieces of hair that stick out all over on the top of my head. When I brush my hair, pieces of hair fall off and break off my head and seriously my sink and floor have hair all over them. I use this --> http://shop.ryf.de/images/smooth-serum1.jpg

Paul Mitchell Super Skinny Serum. I am trying to only limit my hair straightening to one or two times a week. What should I do about the damage already!! I've always had long thick beautiful hair and parts are already looking gross and fried. UGH PLEASE HELP. (link)
I would advice you to use a deep conditioning treatment on your hair maybe once a week. The aussie 3minute miracle is literally a miracle!! I fyou cant afford a deep conditioning treatment I would just tell you to leve conditioner on your hair for maybee 30 mins to an hour. It will put the moisture back into your hair as straightening drys it. Every time you wash your hair maybe invest ina leave in conditioner, and seriously before you straighten your hair use a heat protecter which really does protect your hair!!
I love all aussie products as I feel that they really do work, last ages and are great value. I've given you the links to the aussie website and where you can buy it ff line or just see the prices etc
Hope I helped!!!
http://www.aussiehair.com/products.do

Leave in conditioner
http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=26983&catid=10329&aid=280302&aparam=df5628

Heat protecter
http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=162166&catid=10726&aid=280302&aparam=df5628

3min miracle
http://www.drugstore.com/products/prod.asp?pid=26979&catid=10329&aid=280302&aparam=df5628


are thongs uncomfortable? would it be better to wear boy shorts or thongs to not have the lining of your underwear show up when you are wearing pants? i dont understand how anyone would ever get used to having a string there. (link)
Thongs are fine, but just dont sleep with one on. They are okay but sometimes can ride up. Id advice you to get g strongs/t strings whatever you wanna call them because they are very comfortable!!


ok i want to kno if getting ur belly button peirced hurts, and if so how much???
is it relle hard to take care of and too much of a hastle? thanx (link)
I got my belly button pierced about 2 years ago. To be honest I was expecting it to hurt a lot, but in all honesty it wasnt too bad, the clap feels a bit tight, but when the needle goes through its like a stingy pain not awful but not to pleasent but bearable. When the bar goes through it feels a we bit strange but its over so quickly if you blink your likely to miss it. The next day is probley the sorest as it hurts to bend like you bend and you get an weird pain but I went to dance clsss the day after I got mine, and it wasnt to bad.
Seriously caring for it is the mst important, boil water and add sea salt and put it in a cup or class, egg cup whatever and put it on the are for about 15-20 mins each day and it will heal loads, or go to the sea or something, just make sure you clean it every day for Id say this first month and then maybe narrow it down when heals a lot more. It takes a long time to heal but the pain is nothing and Id advice you to go get it done!!!!


Im dating this boy whom I really like a lot.
But he is always really mean to me, and we fight all the time. He is always trying to make me have phone sex with him and he considers it "making up" he tells me all the time "lets fight so we can make up" and when I say no, he gets mad and starts saying I dont care about him and im selfish and I dont care about nobody but myself. He always has a way to turn things around and make me look like the bad person and feel really bad for something.

he calls me fat all the time and I only weigh 105 lbs and im 5'5. He calls me ugly all the time and then he says he is just playing. But sometimes he can be the sweetest guy in the world.

He is 16 and a preacher, so maybe he takes out his stress on me, or maybe its because he is black and im white?

Today him and I got into a fight and he told me
"If you were hangin off a cliff with lions and snakes under you, I wouldn't pull you up I would stomp you down"

I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
seriously any guy that insults you is not worth it, at all!!!
Do not be forced into things in which you dont feel comfortable with, this boy sounds like a bully! Id advise you to get out of the relationship
xx


When ever I am PMSing I get very moody and fight with everybody, and i crave food like alot of food and it is hard not to eat all day. I also start crying for no reasons at all and am very emotional. Then when I am on my period I am also still really moody, i bloat really bad, and I have no energy, like yesterday I came home and went to take a nap at like 4:30 and didnt get up until the next morning, and I can hardly get through the day. I also cramp extremly bad! Is there anything I can do so that this is not affecting my life as much? Everyone I talk to seems to not know what to do and I dont know anyone to who gets all these symptoms this bad. I really cant afford to go to my doctor right know because I do not have health insurance. But any advise on how to help control these things would be greatly appriciated! Sorry so long! (link)
evening primose oil!!! seriously best thing ever it gets rid of cramps and everything and stops you pmsing


What's the best razor for girls? I really hate having stubble...

I've tried Venus (teal, pink), Venus Vibrance, Venus Breeze, and Daisy. I would prefer shaving to other hair removal methods. (link)
Dont use BIC razors because the blades are too sharp and cut everyone. I say the venus divine because it has these moisture things on top of the blade and it works just perfectly


15/f

i'm jewish, go to a jewish private school with a dress code that's not strictly enforced.

so my boyfriend and i just broke up and i'm on the market again. before i had a boyfriend, i used to dress...well, not slutty, but let's just say i wore revealing clothes. unconsiously, when i had a boyfriend, i wore more modest clothes. now i'm single again, i just bought new stuff last week from h&m and urban outfitters, and i'm not sure what to do. should i continue to dress modestly or is it ok for me to dress...well, slutty? i didn't dress exactly like a slut...just bared some cleavage and wore short skirts. i have big boobs and small legs and i want to play them up to my advantage.

i know my teachers (and my mom) would like it better if i continued dressing modestly, but i know that guys...well, appreciate me being a little revealing. and i am looking, not for a relationship, but to have some fun. so should i be modest or be "slutty"? (link)
Hiya were whatever you want, just heres the golden rule of short skirts and cleavage tops never wear them both together, like if you were a short top dont wear a really low cut top. Also if your wearing a low cut top dont wear a short skirt maybe just jeans etc. As if you wear both at the same time, thats when guys take advantage of the situation and start to persome your easy. Just wear whatever your comfortable in!!
x


ok im 15 a female from Scotland,UK

Im bi-sexual and proud of it but i like girls a bit more than guys.

I like useing my fingers to masterbate but the only thing is im getting really really bored with it and not enjoying it anymore. Everytime im in the shower i use the showerhead and masterbate with running powerfull water which feels so good ! but again i want to explore new ideas. I can not buy a vibrator as im to young (unless you know another way) and i can not use any noisey objects as my brother is in the next room. I have not had sex so my cherry has not been pop'd leaving it sore to put large objects in me. I need help badly as im getting mega bored. Thanks xx

Also
Does anyone know a way that i could find someone around my area (female) to have some fun for a couple of hours (not all night) any chat rooms/ websites etc ... if you have any of the two answers i would love to hear them thank you so much x

with love xxx (link)
im not sure for the first part. But about chat rooms there is faceparty.com which has like a bi room and a lesbein room etc, which you could use and its perdominatly people from the uk
xo


ok so I'm getting my ears double peirced in a few days, i want to know how bad it hurts. I couldn't tell how bad my first piercing felt because i was only 6 months old! So does it hurt? (link)
I thoght the second hole hurt more than te first, and I have a high threshold. But it will be over soon afterwards so whats a tiny second of pain>


I have a red dress for prom, but i have no idea what kind of eye shawdow, I have brown eyes. And i tryed red and i just look sick. So any suggestions, would be apprecited.
Thank you! (link)
go with like a grey and brown colour like teh grey going in to the brown, as black will clash with your eyes, or were brown liquid eyeliner


can you please name the shampoo and conditioner that you use (or that you know of) and makes your hair shiny and silky and strong??

currently i use fructis sleek and shine... it works ok for me but I was planning on switching to something else.

i've heard that Pantine Pro-V, Herbal Essences, Bed head, and Tres'emme work good

any helpful ideas? thanks bunches (link)
I love herbal essences fruit fussions conditioner as it smells so nice and works amazingly. I just use a tar shampoo as ive got a really itchy scalp. Also sunslik is good,try that and pentene pro v is good too.
Tresemme isnt that good


i straighten my hair almost everyday and i have a lot of split/dead ends.. what could i put in my hair before i straighten it so the heat dosnt distroy it even more?

thankss =] (link)
a heat protective spray will work, just dont strighten your hair when its wet as it will frazzle lol
xxx


i heard that if you wash your hair in cold water in the shower it makes it straight, is this true? (link)
no unfortuntly it doesnt make it straighter, however it will make your hair nice and shiny and probley will give you a head cold lol
xx


ok so my whole body isnt totally freckely but my nose and cheeks are. i have pretty fair norweigian skin and have trouble covering them up with plain coverup. on top of me not kowing how to do my makeup. so my ? is: hpw can i cover up my faacial freckles more? (link)
just dab some pressed powder on and then if you want some foudation. But the oressed powder wrks and its natural looking still
xx


hey

my skin just all of a sudden got really dry
and its like peeling
its gross like crusty looking
ive used moisturizer and it works for about 20 minutes and then i have to re apply it.
does any one have any ideas on how to hydrate my skin or should i just go to the doctor?

thanksss :) (link)
Ive had really fdry sckin due to stress, and i puut o st lves exfoiliter and scrubed and put moisturiser on and it was super soft, maybe you just have a build up of dry skin.
You should exfoiliate at least once a week!!!!


Sorry, another math question!

Which is NOT equivalent to 4.75 meters?

A. 0.0475 km
B. 47.5 dm
C. 475 cm
D. 4,750 mm

THANK YOU!! (link)
I belive its A however you should really check it, its def not c or d


so i have this friend. and she criticizes EVERYTHING, especially music. so i found this new band mcfly, and i like them and they're pretty good, they're a british punk band. and she HATES them. shes always saying they're whiny and nasty and a boy band, and she hasnt listened to them. so i said cute is what we aim for is whiny and nasty. but, ive actually listened to them and i think they are like that. then she got mad and started flipping out saying cute is what we aim for is not whiny and that i didnt know what i was talking about and stuff. this is just getting really annoying and if she listened to them and then said they were whiny, id be fine with it. because she at least have something to base her opinion off of. but she refuses to listen to them. so how can i get her to either listen to them or just stop talking about them?

thanks (link)
Good job yoyr a mcfly fan! I know them well lol.
Seriously its human nature that your gonna have different music tastes play her a mcfly song and tell her to liisten to it, and youll listen to cute is what we aim for. Do a trade lol




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