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my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ?
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It depends on a few different things..1, do you like him? 2, how close you and your friend are? and 3, who does he like more? ..If you like him and he likes you, talk to your friend because that isn't fair for her. Tell her about your feelings for him, and his feelings for you. If you and your friend are REALLY close, then maybe you should let go of the boy..no boy is worth losing a friend over. And if he likes you more, then he shouldn't be with his girlfriend because she will end up hurt. I think you should talk to both of them about the whole situation. Tell the boy that it's not right what he's doing to her. And tell your friend that he likes you.
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If you value the friendship, hands off the guy. Really, it will only bite you in the butt to get involved with him. Now I saw you already previously had 16 responses, so I won't drawl on here. Just thought I'd reiterate what you've already seen just for emphasis.
good luck now && be careful
(btw, you might want to tell her what he told you about liking you and reassure her your not going out with him. Atleast this way she can break up with him and back out of it if need be.)
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you definately tell your best friend!! shes your best friend..yuo dont want to see her hurt..so if he likes you..you need to tell her so she can deal wiith that. i bet if your bf liked her, you would want to know.
good luck
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just ignore him and if he tries something tell him to back off. dont let your friend know unless its absolutely nessacary.
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Nothing, it's your BEST FRIEND. Don't flirt with him back, and if I were you, I would tell my friend.
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jus tell him ur not interested, if he still like you after a while, then you should prolly go an tell your freind. she might not like what shes hearing but it will help her out in the long run. hope that helped an i hope evrything works out ok!! 8)
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Well there isnt nothing that you can do you cant help you feelings for someone so he must like you alot and you cant really do anything just talk to your best friend and tell her that he likes you and see what happens
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Make sure you are absoloutely 100% POSITIVE that he likes you. You can find out by simply asking him. If you get strong feelings after he said he didnt like you, he's lieing and you're positive.
Anyway, is you are POSITIVE privately talk to him. Tell him that you feel he likes you and you're not ready. Also tell him it's not right for him to like you while going out with someone.
I suggest you dont tell your friend because it should be between you and him. If you do tell her she MIGHT take it the wrong way and think you're trying to steal him. I know this might sound untruthful but honestly i wouldn't tell her if i were you.
Hope i helped.
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First off, you should find out if it is true that he likes you. If it is, you need to talk to him about it. You should tell him that he isnt being fair to your friend. He is dating her and he shouldnt be going around telling people that he likes other girls. Thats kinda low of him.
Also, If you're positive thathe likes you, you may want to tell your friend. She deserves to know.
I hope I helped
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Dear Liked,
I think you should tell your friend about it. if she's that good of a friend she will understand. Then let him know right off the bat that your not available and that you could never do that to such a good friend. But one thing to keep in mind is that people can be really sensitive when it comes to relationships so let him down easy and tell him that he already has a girlfriend and that he shouldn't be scopping out any girls. And if there is the slightest chance you like him and want to be with him then tell him that your wouldn't go out with him until your friend and him were broken up.
much love and good luck i really hoped i helped because relationships can be kinda confusing!
bubblesamin
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Same as you always have done.
After all, you'd never hurt your friend would you?
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Hmm,tricky,definitly make sure that this guy likes you,and see if you like him too,If you do like him, just be close friends (for now)but no benefits,if you don't like him just try to be friends with him,talk to him, but don't hang all the time,you don't want your friend thinking that you like him too,the worst thing is to let a guy intrfer with a friendship,guys come and go but friends last forever,and over time his mind may wander and he'll end up liking some 1 else. hope this helps!!
Jasmine,
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if you care about your friend as much as perhaps a best friend should do you will just ignore him, my best freind went off with my b/f and i was so upset for weeks! it hurt so much and the pain doesnt go away. you should think about her feelings aswel as your own. but my suggestions are either ignore it or tell him that your not interested. hope this helped x
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If youre POSITIVE, this is true, you should let him know privately your not interested at the moment. Say its not about you rejecting him - but your best friend and her feelings mean a lot to you. If he agrees and fully understands all of the reasons why you dont want to be with him (which you shouldnt), then hopefully he will get the point! If you really feel like he likes you SO much that he is betraying your best friend and not being loyal, then you should TELL your best friend.
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Shoot him.
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How are you sure? Anyway, if you are sure, you should tell your friend. He already has a girlfriend, he 'shouldnt' be liking someone else... Your friend ought to know, seeing that she's going out with him. You should just tell your friend and wait and see what happens. First make sure that you're sure that he likes you.
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well how do you know he likes you, did he tell you stright up i like you? or do u just think he likes you if so i wouldnt jump to conclusions and ruin your friends relationship. however if he did tell you i like you its important that you tell your friend.
hope i could help
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