Aside from the fact that I am nocturnal, growl at my friends and believe that I am part pirate, I'm just your regular teenager.
Got a question? Fire away! I'll answer almost anything you give me, unless I simply don't know what to do, or if I think you're just taking the mickey.
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I am in a long distance relationship, with this guy I really love, he is coming to see me soon, he wants to have sex, he is really big and I am a virgin :/ is it going to hurt alot? If so how do I prevent this? (link)
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Don't have sex until you are absolutely sure you are ready to. If he loves you as much as you do him, he will wait.
It is common for sex to hurt the first time, that is normal. You should both take things slowly to get used to the feeling. It might be useful to use a lubricant (waterbased, anything else can tear the condom). Also, don't expect penetration to be easy the first time. It can take a while to get it right.
Have fun and stay safe.
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F/15 . I'm pretty skinny. Weight :120. Height :5'6.
But I eat like crazy. I could eat 2 breakfast burritos for breakfast ,nachos for lunch ,chips during the day ,Mcdonalds after school ,and pizza for dinner . So theres obviously a problem . . . maybe even an eating disorder? Anyways I've recently become VERY worried about gaining weight.
So basicly I just need help with some kind of healthy foods. Does anyone know anythinq I could replace these foods with? Because I can't really think of any.
Please & Thank-you. (link)
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For breakfast, cereal which is high in fibre with yoghurt, fresh fruit and juice is a healthy start to the day.
For lunch and dinner, try to get a mix of all the food groups. Grilled chicken, steamed fish, fresh vegetables, e.g not out of a tin, pasta, rice. Just try to maintain a balanced diet with plenty of vegetables and fruits. The things you mentioned are acceptable for a treat every once in a while.
Once you get used a healthier lifestyle it will become easier to maintain a better diet.
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do women have cum because when I get turned on white stuff comes out my vagina (link)
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Yes that is normal, it is a sign of a healthy vagina.
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im very bad at gifts.. my boyfriend and i have ben going out for a year and a half and his 16th birthday is in a few days then valintines day. idk what to get him for either day? he likes guitars, drums, concerts, metal music, making music, cooking, that type of stuff any ideas? (link)
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Band shirts are always popular gifts. Otherwise, for one of the days you could invite him over and buy lots of ingredients and make a meal together that you can eat afterwards. Have fun! :)
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kso, i like a boy in my class, but he has a girlfriend who goes to a different school. they seem pretty close. i like him more and more each day, but since he has a girlfriend i dont know if i should just keep liking him, or move on.
sometimes he barely notices me also, like.. he always knows im there, but doesnt talk to me to much (link)
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I think you already know the answer to this question. You should never go after a guy who is already in a relationship, think how you would feel if someone went after your boyfriend. You need to respect the feelings of others and also respect yourself. You won't be able to switch off your feelings right away but in time your crush will fade away and who knows, you might meet someone nicer and who notices you.
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Female - 16
I'm a junior in high school right now and I've been looking at colleges recently. The problem is that I have no clue what to do. My mom says I should go for journalism, but here's the thing...I love to write (mostly fictional stories), but I don't want to be interviewing people or reporting news. I'm not sure if I want to be a writer because I want to do something that will make a lot of money. I also love music (I can't play an instrument but are there any jobs like a record producer?) and I love sports (I don't play, i'm just very interested in them) Can anyonegive me some ideas for majors/careers?
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I would suggest an essay based subject with optional modules in creative writing that you can choose. For example, you could take English or History of Art which are both heavily essay based. This leaves your options open for when you leave college and want to start your career but also lets you do something you like.
If you go into music or sport, this might decrease your options for when you graduate so I would keep them as hobbies. Almost all colleges have societies which you can join so I would look for music and sport clubs you can become a member of whilst doing your degree.
Do some research into areas and colleges you are interested in and see what courses they do.
Good luck!
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my life has been really hard lately just around father's day of last year my best friend died and then this Thursday my Granny died and now the guy that I was seeing broke up with me about 3 days after I found out my granny died I just don't know what to do anymore please help me. (link)
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The grieving period can be very difficult, but it is part of the recovery process. There's not a lot you can do to get rid of how you're feeling altogether but there are things you can do to make yourself start to feel better. Take long bubble baths to help you relax, see some friends, keep a journal of how you're feeling. In time things will become easier for you.
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How to tell if a funny/witty guy likes you?
16F (link)
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Talking to them is a good way to start.
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they say life is a gift.
they also say the world is cruel.
how is it a gift to be living in a cruel place?
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When people say the world is cruel, they usually don't mean all the time. Instead they mean that life can be cruel and can throw difficult situations your way. It is a gift to be alive because if you make it through the struggle you are usually a better person for it.
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ok so my bf is coming ove rtommorow and i didnt get him anything reay realy big or awsome i got him a card and a cute little fluuffy blue bear i am so scared that it is cheesy an dhe will just laugh i am so freaked out someone help me pleezzzz (link)
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That's not cheesy, that's cute!
Don't worry eh. x
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i know everyone is asking this question this time of the year, but i've been with my boyfriend for a month and a half. 2 months on christmas. he likes family guy and football and nickelback. any ideas on what i should get him for christmas? (link)
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A football shirt of his favourite team maybe?
Or a nickleback/family guy poster because they aren't too expensive.
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Wrong Catergory didnt know which one...
Ohk tomorrow after the party with my work we are going bowling. I have not benn bowling since the summer and i seriously suck at it no lie. im going with people that are oler then me and i seem to embarass myself more then the average person idk what to do.. im not sitting out and watching because i love bowling but suck at it.
Should i just embarrass myself or what?
Please dont give me any website links on how to bowl because changes are i wont get it.
thx.. and tonight and tomorrow before 4:30pm would be great (link)
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The only people who take bowling seriously are really really old men with pot bellies.
Just have fun!! On my birthday I went bowling with my friends and I cant bowl at all. It was fun though because we made up lots of different ways of how to bowl. Like lying on the floor and then shoving the ball out with our arms for example.
You'll be fine.
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Yea ok so heres the story .. very tragic.. something happened that id never imagine.. my sisters brotger was at his friends and there was some sort of gas leak and the house like exploded... her brother is only 12 and she is only 10 shes so upset and everyone is so worried were not sure if hes gunna make it hes got so much wrong w/ him.. he has head trama collapsed lungs, punctured spleen and a punctured liver and 50% burns that are VERY severe.. the thing is i barely know this kid since he lives w/ my step sisters mom but when i found out i cried and cried and i just cant stop i dont really understand it since i only met him like 3 times but still i mean hes juts a kid n hes been through so much i dont even know why thiswould happen to someone like him expecially a kid!!! i dont knowwhat to think about it everyones praying and stuff n its like ive never prayed and had ne results so i dont knwo what to do or how to feel.. some advice or stories or ANYthing would be helpful at this point and time .. thatnk you for any help! ... (link)
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There is no particular set of actions that you need to follow through.
The emotions will just come and you can decide what you want to do or how you feel then.
All I can say is, be honest with yourself. If there's a day you just want to cry, then let it all out. If there's a day you want to just have a normal day and do what you normally do, do that and don't feel guilty for not thinking about him.
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okay, so i was "going out" with this guy last year (we were 13 in 7th grade). he had been my best (guy) friend for the last three years. we had gotten really close and one day i just started liking him. i knew he liked me because he had told my friends before. i had one of my friends tell him i liked him. after like a month, he told one of his friends, who also was one of my friends that he loved me over aim. the guy he told it to copied and pasted the whole conversation to me on aim. i didn't feel the same way. the guy who told me that my bf loved me told me not to tell my bf. i did because i couldn't keep a secret from him. he told me that it was true and asked if i loved him. i didn't so i said that i wasn't ready for that yet. because of this we broke up about a month later. i know he has liked me off and on since the break up. now he likes this girl who is a year younger than us. they went out for 2 days last week then broke up and now they are going out again. i am releived that he finally got another girlfriend to get his mind off me, but some of my friends say he is just doing this to make me jealous. it doesn't but i don't want him to think that it does. i have told him many times how happy i am for him, but he keeps asking one of my friends if it bothers me. what should i do? i hope he has finally moved on after our breakup, but i don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him that because we are still good friends. i need some advice! i'll rate 5's! thanks! (link)
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I think you need to talk to the guy face to face to get the facts.
It seems to me that everyone is putting themselves in the situation when really, its just about you and him, right?
So, ignore all this copied and pasted malarkey. Stop taking all his friends and your friends words for it and go ask him yourself.
And just tell him that you're ok with being good friends, but you dont want anything more.
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I have seen things like hearts and stars falling down on peoples profiles on myspace, how can i get falling hearts and/or daggers? (link)
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Search for a myspace generator site and they should have instructions on how to do that on there.
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I've got my 100 things I love about my boyfriend finished, but I need a cute way to assemble it. I have about a million notes he's written me in the past couple of months and I wanted a cute way to incorporate the notes into my kind of 'scrapbook' that I'm making this into. I put the 100 reasons on pictures of us.
Any Ideas? (link)
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Just put in pictures and quotes haphazardly to show your artistic side. Draw little hearts with coloured pens and pencils around the sides, or little doodles of what you remember about the time the photos were taken.
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Every time i get close to getting a boyf or meeting (french kissing)someone my old boyf buts in in some way even if he doesn't realise it. His friends still ask me to go out with him. he was my second boyf and we broke up 2 years ago but he still talks about me to his new friends who are really annoying.We didnt end on bad terms .i dont no what terms we ended on we just both sort of decided we wer broken up after a while.All i know is i hate him so how do i try and blok him out of my life and why do you think he still talks abouta me? (link)
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Isnt it quite obvious? He's probably still into you, and since you just sort of decided you had broken up, maybe he's confused about where he stands.
Just give him time to get over you, and to realise that the relationship is over and there is no way you're taking him back.
In the meantime, just try to ignore him and tell his friends that you just aren't interested. Also, anything that might suggest that you still like him is a big no-no because people can overanalyse in situations like this and he might think that you still like him.
Try not to have your old boyfriend around when you're with a new guy. Thats just plain wierd anyway.
Good luck with this.
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So i have been thinking i really want to get a mac g5....but i doubt that i could get it for xmas and i have been trying to save up but i also really really love horses and have been wanting 1 sense i was like 10. so how do i get the comp and the horse i mean i know that my parents wil buy the horse when we get out of debt. but see the comp is hard because i really want the it wat should i do....should i ask for money for xmas is that rude? any advice is helpful. __THNX__ (link)
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You're in debt and thinking about what big luxurious things you're going to buy?
I'd rethink my priorities first. Maybe help to rake some money in to get you our of your current problem?
Just be patient and realise that the best things aren't always massive material gifts.
xx
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my best friends boyfriend likes me what should i do ? (link)
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Same as you always have done.
After all, you'd never hurt your friend would you?
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my sister is always making me babysit for nothing no money what so ever what should I do? (link)
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This question sounded a little bit selfish to me. She IS your sister after all.
But I guess if you really wanted the money, you could ask her politely if the next time she could give you a little something in return for babysitting.
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