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my sister is always making me babysit for nothing no money what so ever what should I do?
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just say no?
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may be you should not do it anymore i know i sure wouldnt you are working for nothing and that is not right and you should not do that any more i hope i helped you any
tiffany
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Your sister is your family;however you also have a life too. You need to let her know you love her and dont mind helpingher out but you also have a life and need to do things for you. Just let her know that sometimes it is toomuch and you will help when you can but you need time for yourd=self;and if she loves you like she should she will respect that you approached her and will not take you for granted-b/c thats what she is doing. My sister and I both have kids and we help each pther out when we need to and we dont rely on each other. She seems to rely on you too much and you feel obligated -it shouldnt be that way. Just talk to her and let her know how your feeling and you dont want her mad but she needs to respect your decision. Hope i could help.(and i know its easier said than done)
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just do it.* i know it sucks.* buttttt she is family. so she prolly thinks that she doesn`t need to pay someone in her family to watch her kid[s]..* it`s stupid. but yeah.*
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This question sounded a little bit selfish to me. She IS your sister after all.
But I guess if you really wanted the money, you could ask her politely if the next time she could give you a little something in return for babysitting.
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tell her about your problem, and explain that if you dont get paid, you simply wont babysit.
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Explain to her that you have to break plans to babysit and that you have homework and stuff. Tell her that if you want to get a job, that you cant because you have to babysit, so you are going to need some money if she wants you to babysit all the time.
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