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Age: 37
Member Since: September 12, 2005
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I want to be something for halloween that NO one here can ever think of. I am 13/f and I want to kinda stand out from the rest of the cround. Like I want to dress up as someone for EX the Dukes of Hazzard. i am too fat to be Daisy. So What? I know its early but just wanted some ideas! Thanks!

You could take a large flat piece of cardboard and put some strong string/rope in the corners and tie around your neck so it's like a table in front of you....throw an old lace tablecloth over it, glue a fake crysatl ball and some tarot cards to it. Put a big scarf in your hair, throw on some huge hoops and be a fortune telling gypsy!!

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ok my birthday is coming up soon well not really but i like to know things before ok my birthday is in the spring and i was wondering what are some fun things to do like what games and where can i have it at like my house or like bowling rink or skating place. i dont know can you give me more ideas and things to do with about 13 people i go to private school and theres about 13 in my class.i rate high

My daughter's 12th bday is coming up and I am going to take her and her friends to a late night movie in their jammies, robes and slippers and then aftewards to one of those 24 hour diners for desert and cocoa......should be quite fun and silly for them to all be out in public in their pj's!!

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okay well my friend is kindof a eater i mean when were at lunch she eats alot plus everyone elses food i dont want to tell her she should stop eating cause shes fat but like how do i tell her cause shes my friend and i dont want her to regret it when she gets older for being a lil big and ya know i dont want to hurt her feelings

Trust me, if she is overweight she already knows this and does not need you to point it out for her....and no matter how you say it, if you say it, it will hurt her feelings. If SHE ever brings up the subject of losing weight, then you can suggest things and be helpful. But until then,just love her for who she is, not what she looks like!!

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ok so im 18 and still a virgin and havent done a lot of stuff....so i know this is gonna sound silly but how do you know when you are cumming

Well, I am assuming you are a girl since I am pretty sure if you were a guy you would know,lol! The best advice I can give you is to get to know your own body. There is nothing wrong with masturbation and it help you learn how you like to be touched and trust me, when it happens, you will know!
And no, your question wasn't a bit silly at all. Give yourself some time, you may not experience an orgasm for quite some time until you are more comfortable with your body, then again, the first time might be a charm!

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ok, my question is kind of stupid, but i could really use some help.
for the record, im 15/f (soon to be 16)
i honestly, dont want to be this way, and i am not at all looking for attention, but i honestly do believe i am suffering from a few mental-illnesses, depression, OCD, paranoia, and schizophrenia.
i have done a little bit of research on all of these problems, and i seem to fit it pretty well.
i want to tell my mom, so i can get help, but i am afraid she wont believe me, because she never believes me when i talk about things like this.
neither does my father, a few years ago i even said i was going to kill myself and they both responded with "yeah, ok, whatever"
and im just seeking advice in how to ask my parents, or if any of you know how to cure these problems on my own, thanks in advance. ill rate.

Well, to help you with your sleeping problem, first of all, get yourself on a regular schedule. Go to bed at the same time and wake up atr the same time, even on days off. Don't eat anything right before bed. Spray your sheets with water with a few drope of lavender essential oil mixed in. Use lavender in whatever form you can........lotions, body spray,etc. Make yourself a cup of either sleepytime tea from celestial seasonings or heat up some milk, add some honey and vanilla and a chamopmile tea bag.
Do NOT use Nyquil as a sleep aide....lots of alcohol and not good for you!!
For your other problems, I think mostteenagers experience the things you are feeling. I suggest you journal every night and try meditation. Theyare wonderful in helping you feel better about the things you are feeling.

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my cramps have been so bad all day its horrible i cant focus on my homework. what can i do/take. i dont rlly have ne special stuff like midol. but like advil nd tylonal type of stuff ;).

thank you. i rate. bye

If you have the time, you canmake a little reusable pillow for your cramps, this is what I did for my daughter. Make the little pillow out of a soft material and fill it up with rice. When you have cramps, thrown it in the microwave for a couple of minutes and lay it on your tummy. The rice stays heated up for quite a long time and always seems to help her.

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oKay , idk the name of this song and its really pissing me off, okay its like "come away with me , to another place, and we rely on each other uh huh" plzzzzzzzzzzzz i rate high

Actually, the original song is "Islands in the Stream" and it was done by Kenny Rogers and Dolly Parton way back in the day!!

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