me and my friend have been friends for a very long time and sometimes she gets other friends or a bf..and she starts hanging out with me less and less..and then sometimes it seems like its competiton between me and her..i dont know what to do..should i keep being best friends with her or what..and also she like whenever she gets in a fight with her bf or her other friends she comes back to me! HELP!
I think that you should stay best friends with her because i mean she is gona have other friends but you are her best friends and she comes to you when she needs you because she knows that you will always be there for her. Try talking to her.
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alright, my boyfriend and i broke up just this past summer. we were entering a new school and thought our relationship wouldn't work out... and apparently i wasn't the kind of girl he was looking for. still, he said he'd always love me. but anyway. school's started and i haven't really met anyone i'm interested in. then my ex- it feels like he's been purposely ignoring me lately. in the hallways, i see him, but he doesn't look at me. it takes him like 5 minutes to answer a question whenever i talk to him online, so i don't even bother anymore. and he hasn't responded to any of my emails. he always would. awhile ago he told me he was gonna ask out this one girl, but according to all my friends, he never did. now my other friend told me he's already going out with someone i don't know. someone new. i still like him, and i wanna let him know that, but i don't know how. he said he'd always love me no matter what, even if he got another girlfriend. i've been trying to talk to him but he just doesn't seem to care. please help me- should i let him know how i feel? or should i get over it? thanks to anyone who's willing to help.
I think that the best thing to do is try and get over it, but first you need to figure out what is going on with him, does he still love you, or maybe he moved on. Try getting one of your friends to talk to him, and see what he says, im sure he still loves you, but maybe he thinks that you dont anymore, so tell one of your friends to tell him that you still love him. Then see what he says, if he doesnt seem to care, then maybe you should move on, im sure there is a guy for you out there. Good Luck!
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Okay, I'm curious as to what you all think about this.
My boyfriend tends to travel in the summer. The summer between 11th and 12th grade, he went to Vegas. The summer after that (this one), he went to Florida. Both times, I cried quite a bit (I also happened to be PMSing both times, I think, but I'm not sure if that actually has anything to do with it). On saturday, he left for Florida again, for college. This is the start of (essentially) a five-year separation. I know this, and it upsets me...but I didn't really cry. I mean, there were a couple of tears, which he adorably wiped away, but there weren't like..."storms of tears", as a friend would put it. I really don't understand why I'm not more upset about him being gone. I won't see him until mid-December, and I'm used to seeing him quite a bit. (We're a very clingy/touchy couple)
We're engaged, so I'm not worried about him going and finding some other girl. He was only home for about two weeks, one of which I was stuck at school for, so I only got to see him for...well, threeish days (I kidnapped him, kinda, and kept him in my dorm), and then about four hours on friday before he left.
Shouldn't I be more upset that we're separated?
I think part of the reason I'm not is because I told him to go. He's going to Full Sail, which I hear is an incredibly good tech-school-type-place, and I wanted him to go and get a jumpstart on his career. I don't do regret, so I don't regret telling him to go, but I miss him...
But at the same time, I'm not upset...like...at all.
What's going on in my head? (Not that you can actually answer that...but you can try, right?)
Please, no stupid answers or chatspeak. I'll only rate you down.
-Siren =)
I think that maybe you arent upset because you know for sure that he will always be yours, i mean you two are engaged, so everytime he leaves you know that he will come back to you. Im sure everything will be fine, he loves you and you love him, so keep it strong!
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