alright, my boyfriend and i broke up just this past summer. we were entering a new school and thought our relationship wouldn't work out... and apparently i wasn't the kind of girl he was looking for. still, he said he'd always love me. but anyway. school's started and i haven't really met anyone i'm interested in. then my ex- it feels like he's been purposely ignoring me lately. in the hallways, i see him, but he doesn't look at me. it takes him like 5 minutes to answer a question whenever i talk to him online, so i don't even bother anymore. and he hasn't responded to any of my emails. he always would. awhile ago he told me he was gonna ask out this one girl, but according to all my friends, he never did. now my other friend told me he's already going out with someone i don't know. someone new. i still like him, and i wanna let him know that, but i don't know how. he said he'd always love me no matter what, even if he got another girlfriend. i've been trying to talk to him but he just doesn't seem to care. please help me- should i let him know how i feel? or should i get over it? thanks to anyone who's willing to help.
xIna89x answered Monday September 12 2005, 5:16 pm: I think that the best thing to do is try and get over it, but first you need to figure out what is going on with him, does he still love you, or maybe he moved on. Try getting one of your friends to talk to him, and see what he says, im sure he still loves you, but maybe he thinks that you dont anymore, so tell one of your friends to tell him that you still love him. Then see what he says, if he doesnt seem to care, then maybe you should move on, im sure there is a guy for you out there. Good Luck! [ xIna89x's advice column | Ask xIna89x A Question ]
Dumbblond1chick answered Sunday September 11 2005, 10:54 pm: OH MY GOD I CAN SO RELATE!! FORTUNATLY I GOT THROUGH IT AND NOW I CAN TELL YOU HOW!Alright first off tell your ex that you still love him and ask if he still loves you and would want to try things agin? <ONLINE (if he has a girlfriend that doesnt matter love is all about acting foolish and to get what you want you must be direct) if not go find someone else and talk to your ex alot online and have casual convos like act friendly as though he isnt your ex. Once you and your ex are friends things r easier so just act as if you are friends even if your not...wen your in the hallway and walk past him say hi and just be friendly. VERY IMPORTANT MAKE SURE HE KNOWS YOU HAVE A NEW BF tell ppl walk through the hallway iwth your bf and just make it known. Meanwhile with your new bf just hang out with him alot and if you still love your ex brake up with you bf say taht you really liked him but that you still like you ex and that you dont think its fair to continue with him, Hopefully your ex will notcie that you nd your bf rnt togetehr in the hallways and shit and he will be curious and ask you about it, You tell him that you still like him and thot it wanst fair for you newest ex. since you and him had been talking more he will most likely feel the same iwth you. THROUGHTOUT THE WHOLE THING REMIND HIM OF THE MEMORIES YOU GUYS SHARE THIS WILL MAKE HIM REMBER THE GOOD TIMES. [ Dumbblond1chick's advice column | Ask Dumbblond1chick A Question ]
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