Gender: Female
Location: decatur, IL
Occupation: high school student
Age: 14
Member Since: November 15, 2005
Answers: 10
Last Update: April 1, 2006
Visitors: 1478
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okay so I am 16/f and i have the hugest crush on a guy. Its one of those kinda crushes like a geek in school is inlove with the most popular guy she doesnt have a chance with ever kind of things.
Well i got the guts to tell him online that i really really liked him and i found out that he isnt really looking for a gf (he wants to do well this year in school) but he wants to hang out with me and be good friends and stuff!
what do i do? i know i want to hang out with him but how can i get over the fact i have a huge crush on him and be normal?
ps hes a junior/18 (link)
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You should hang out with him get to know him better and let him know you better. Just be yourself so that he can know you since you like him soooooo much and he's not looking for a gf at least you the next best thing a good friend and maybe if you still have a crush on him later in life and he likes you back then you'll know him better and can really be yourself and have a real relationship.
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What are some good ways to let me boyfriend down gently? I'm not into him as much as I used to be and we're just not working out. He never calls me and he never really talks to me. We've been one of those couples that looks so cute from the outside but there's nothing on the inside. I just need a way to break up with him without the old "we're better off as friends" excuse or something cheesy like that. He's a nice guy and he's really cool but he's not the dude for me. Thanks :) (link)
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Just tell him how you really feel if you don't feel the same way tell him that and also have a good explaination. If he's a nice guy as you say then he'll want the truth about the whole situation. If just saying I think we're better as friends might make him think you have another guy or something else is going on. Well hope I helped SEE YA! *kookiemonster96*
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Is it bad that im 16 and I am having protected sex with my boyfriend of five months like once every other week? (link)
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It's not bad that you are having protected sex but having it that often will increased the chance of becoming pregnant but the choice is yours: either don't have it as often or not all to reduce the chance of getting pregnant or keep it as it is where the chance is more likely. If it was me I would do it like every 5 months or not at all. Hope I helped *kookiemonster96*
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Ok i am a little upset right now, this is regards to my question before. The guy i like who i work with. well we spoke and laughed and i thought things were going reat. then we had a christmas party and i heard he was going so i went, but when i got there he glanced at me slightly and never spoke to me the whole night (mind you i never did either)I could feel him look at me sometimes when i danced but thats bout it, (hes such a proud guy never looks at when he passes by) then when we were dancing to a a rap song he came up and started grinding with a (ugly) girl near me, i am upset, are things getting worse between us, and what should i do? (link)
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I will say things are not getting worse between you guys. Lots of boys are proud and expect you to go to talk to them instead of them coming to you. If he keep glancing at you then it probably meant he wanted you to come to him but he might of been shy to come talk to you. The grinding... that was probably to get you to notice him since you were dancing with some other boy. The fact he was dancing with an ugly girl might also be a spark for attention for you to get your eyes in him. Next time just go up to him and say something then get a conversation started and whatever goes in from there. Trust me the same thing happened to me and the boy Josh(fake name) was my boyfriend and we were at a party and didn't say one word but now were okay and even buying each other christmas gifts. well hoped I helped GOOD LUCK *KookieMonster96*
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K I really need girl help. I changed schools a few weeks ago because I was doing really bad at my old on. THere was this girl there that I really liked. I went to the homecoming dance with her and we talked on AIM a lot. After I left I told her how much I loved her and she was all "aw that's the sweetest thing ever" and stuff like that. We've been TXTing a lot and she even called me on my birhtday last week. I was even suppost to see Harry Potter with her and some of her friends but then I got sick. I'm falling even more in love with her every day even though I don't get to see her because we go to different schools now. I really wanna ask her to go out with me but I have two problems.
1. I have no idea how to do it.
2. Is it weird to go out with a girl from a prep school when you're going to a public school.
I really need help! x.x
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You already told her how you feel so the hard part is over really (but if she says aw thats sweet she might now believe you all the way). First thing just make it clear how you feel and tell her you want her to be yours then say "do you want to go out with me" a very simple line that does the trick thats how my b/f asked me out. It's not weird that she goes to a prep school and you go to a public school it matters how you feel about her not what school she goes to hope I helped *KookieMonster96* P.S tell me how it goes GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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im about 5'1 and i weigh around 130 or more...
this isnt very proportional, but whats the best way to loose weight, fast, but without much time on your hands? (link)
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Losing weight is really not that hard if you can train yourself to eating healthy and exercising daily.
1. start a healthy diet. NO CANDY, POP, CHIPS, PIZZA AND ETC. eat more fruits, vegetables, salads, those types of food. Myself I love chocolate so not eating it is hard so I just limit myself. I made a chart to cut back if stopping at once is hard like it is for me. like pop only on friday and wednesday only one piece of candy. Make sure to keep on the diet getting side track for 1 piece of candy you think won't harm anything WILL MESS UP EVERYTHING trust me!also less fast food and follow the food pyramid it helps.
2. Get at least 1 hour of physical activity in a day it doesn't have to be all at once but 1 hour a day is good for your health. Or make your own workout (which is what I did) to fit your scheduele make sure to have a warm up, your workout then the cool down to relax after the workout. make sure to check the nutrition facts on foods to eat less fatty foods. Also drink more water and don't over eat.
3. BE DEVOTED. Don't get off track make it a habit if you do you look and feel great!
trust me this type of stuff works hope This helps *KookieMonster96*
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For Christmas I was thinking about doing this 'Christmas Break Survival Box' for my boyfriend [ALONG WITH OTHER PRESENTS] and I was needing some help on what to put in it. I already have:
1. [Hersey's] Kisses and Hugs- for whenever we're not together you can still receive them.
2. A CD- for whenever you're on the road and not with me.
I know it's not a lot so far, but I wanted to think really hard and make this really cute. I needed ideas like the hersey's kisses one where it's like a play on words and the kisses mean real kisses. You get it? I need more ideas like that. Have any? (link)
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This is the cutest idea i've ever heard first of all. Next, you should get him a teddy bears that hold each other like your holding each other. Then maybe a picture in a locket or heart shape type thing like your in his heart or some thing like that I hope I helped *kookiemonster96*
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im 16.. im in love with a guy that is 15. we went out for 4 months. but ive known him for almost 3 years now. i lost my virginity to him. one day we did it and everything was normal. the next day he calls me and says, "lets take a break, then when i think we are ready to make this a serious thing ill ask you back out." i was just like um okay? well then a couple days later i hear hes going out with some chick from his school. so hes "taking a break with me" to go out with some other chick. that really hurt me. because im in love with him. well i saw him and he didnt say anything to me. he kept like 10 feet away from me. and i was pissed off about the whole situation. then the next day i call him to talk about everything going on and he called me a b**** and i was like why are you calling me that? and he was like i heard what you said to people last night about me. i was like what did you hear? hes like you just trash-talked about me the whole night to my friends and family. and he hung up on me. so i call him back and left him a message, because he didnt answer, and i was crying and i said "the only thing i said to anyone was that i was in love with you". and that is the first time i told him how i felt about him. ive never told him i was in love with him before. and i havent heard from him since. what should i do about this whole situation and the next time i see him? and i see him quite often because my mom works for his dad. i dont know what to do PLEASE help. this may turn into suicide. he was the only thing i had. (link)
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If you have a b/f thats taking a break with you and going with another girl don't get mad first of all. Thats the point of a break to see other people so I think you should do the same. If you told him you love him and he doesn't talk to you don't take it personal. I think boys just need time to adjust to what they have found out or he's deciding if he feels the same or not. If he loves you back he could be thinking of how to make it up to you or deciding how to tell you. If he doesn't then maybe he doesn't want to tell you that he doesn't feel the same. The point I'm getting at is that you should give him some time to respond like the saying goes if you love something let it go if comes back then thats how you know its for real, or something like that. Then just move on this isn't the only time you'll fall in love there will be many times.
I hope this helps GOOD LUCK! *KookieMonster96*
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I tend to not think before I do or say things and Im trying to work on that because I tend to think i do stupid things around guys that I really like or around people that I want to like me. Do You have any ways I can stop this? (link)
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Well what you need to do is ask like your closet friends if your saying anything dumb around them or any body else. Tell them to be honest with you and after they tell you what you be sayin wrong, Then just be more careful of what you say around others and THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK!!!! I had to learn that to and now I'm better at not sayin stupid things around boys and friends. Well I hope it helps you Good-Bye
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I broke up with my boyfriend of almost two years a few weeks ago for my own reasons that I'm not getting into - just know it was for both of us, not just me, that I did it.
It was a bit of a conversation, but one thing I did ask was that he not forget about me and consider me a friend. Since then, he's attempted contact (via AIM) a couple times, and each time it's ended with me in tears and him saying he doesn't think he can handle talking to me just yet.
The thing is, I don't miss him. I'm happy single right now. This is what I need and I'm glad I did it. I feel bad because I know I hurt him, yet he agreed with my reasoning and seemed to think I was right.
Was it wrong of me asking him to keep our friendship? If I don't miss him, why do I always end up crying?
Please, hold off on the chatspeak. You'll get rated down and nobody wants that. (link)
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You weren't wrong to ask for his friendship you just still like to keep in touch to check up on him like a friend would do for another. I think why you always end in tears is not that you miss him but you still care and it just gets to you. You have realized you hurt him and now it's just kind of hurts you to kno you caused it, but don't worry you'll be just fine.
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