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I tend to not think before I do or say things and Im trying to work on that because I tend to think i do stupid things around guys that I really like or around people that I want to like me. Do You have any ways I can stop this?
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The best way to stop acting crazy is to know that you just have to put off the act and be your mature self. This is how you get comfortable around guys, by acting like you all of the time instead of being full of tension and thinking of what to do or say next.
This is very normal, you want to draw attention to yourself from the guys by showing off, it's perfectly normal. It doesn't mean you can't be loud, or happy, just be the girl you are. Just remember, if a guy ends up liking you because of the stupid things you do, he won't be fit for you later when you just go back to you. It isn't that you aren't interesting, the problem is that he likes the girl you're putting out there, put you and your true identity out there so that you'll know for sure that when a guy likes you, he really likes you.
-TheTeenGirl
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this is true with me too. just be yourself. if one of the guys asked you out and you had some fake i.d. and he likes the person that you act like you are, what would you do? he probably wouldn't like you if you lied, then told the truth. be yourself, but try your hardest to think. ~*~*ash*~*~
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you should just be yourself. i dont think that tyou would want to be friends with a person who thinks you are 'stupid' which are are NOT! if you get nervous tell yourself to calm down(maybe take a deep breath) and try to only talk when answering questions or asking questions. then when you get more comfortable aroudn them you can start having "better" and more comfortable converstaions. good luck!
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Well what you need to do is ask like your closet friends if your saying anything dumb around them or any body else. Tell them to be honest with you and after they tell you what you be sayin wrong, Then just be more careful of what you say around others and THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK!!!! I had to learn that to and now I'm better at not sayin stupid things around boys and friends. Well I hope it helps you Good-Bye
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