okay so I am 16/f and i have the hugest crush on a guy. Its one of those kinda crushes like a geek in school is inlove with the most popular guy she doesnt have a chance with ever kind of things.
Well i got the guts to tell him online that i really really liked him and i found out that he isnt really looking for a gf (he wants to do well this year in school) but he wants to hang out with me and be good friends and stuff!
what do i do? i know i want to hang out with him but how can i get over the fact i have a huge crush on him and be normal?
KookieMonster96 answered Saturday April 1 2006, 3:45 pm: You should hang out with him get to know him better and let him know you better. Just be yourself so that he can know you since you like him soooooo much and he's not looking for a gf at least you the next best thing a good friend and maybe if you still have a crush on him later in life and he likes you back then you'll know him better and can really be yourself and have a real relationship. [ KookieMonster96's advice column | Ask KookieMonster96 A Question ]
xEVYx answered Saturday April 1 2006, 2:34 pm: just be yourself around him, be friendly and happy & smile alot. guys seem to like that.. maybe even try flirting with him, he might grow to like it. the more open with him you get the more comfortable he'll be around you and that might change a few things!
jealousyxo answered Saturday April 1 2006, 12:48 pm: I knwo what you mean,its kinda hard to do.You just have to stay calm take deep breaths and just act normal.Its soo great that hes the type of guy who wouldnt just ignore you and not even try to hang out with you or be your friend.Hang out with him and just talk to him and try not to think of how gorgeous he is lol.Maybe after hanging out with you more he'll eventually see you as more then a friend.Its really tough to be friends with a guy when you have a major crush on him,but as long as you dont be a clutz and remember not to talk very fast,and dont show that your nervous youll do fine hun ; ] Good luck!
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