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I want my ex back :(
Ok, skip the whole. "oh my god, you are so stupid for breaking his heart" stuff. I just need help, I know what I did was wrong.
Ok, first off. I'm trying to get my ex back. I dumped him for another guy, who turned out to be an ass, and i realized what i did was wrong. i miss him a lot and i would do anything to have him back. I have talked to him about this before and he said it was not going to work out. since then we have been good friends, but now im starting to like him again, and he knows. he told me to call him on december 23rd when he gets new minutes on his phone so we can talk about it and i can tell him why i want him back so badly. he is afraid to get back together because he doesn't want me to break his heart again, and i swore on my life i wouldnt. because i won't. i just really miss him and like i dont know if he wants me back or not. im not afraid to call him, just afraid that its going to be a blunt "NO" answer. but why would he make me wait that long for a simple "NO"?
If anyone can help, it would be greatly appreciated. thank you! i give 5s if anyone helps me.
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ive ve been dumped by my g/f 4 another guy and when she realized what she had done she wanted me back. all i can say is you need to treat him nice if you 2 do start going out again. i would probubly teel him,"im sorry i broke your heat and i have realized what i have done wrong. all i want is to have you back again because without you im am not whole. i love you alot and i want to know if you will go out with me." that should work. send me a reply if you decide to use it and let me know how it turns out.
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well, if he wants you to call him and talk to him about it then he obviously is not going to give you a blunt no answer. he probably does still like you and even though your scared to call him you have to because if you don't then he will think you didn't mean it and will make things even worse with him. When you do call him, make you sure you tell him how much you like him and why. Also, be sure to tell him that you made a huge mistake in leaving him and that you wish you never had. well, i hope this helps you.
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I love your question, partly because it deals with the topic of hope(which is exactly what we need at this cold and bleak time of year)and partly because I am at the exact point of my re-watching of Sex and the City where Carrie and Aiden get back together. Thus, fresh from SATC, I can tell you that no, he wouldn't make you wait that long for a simple "no".(I know, I know, it's only television, but sometimes life does follow art).
My only concern would be for your future, when and if you do get back together. Are you perhaps the sort of person who only wants what you can't really have? If so, beware, for remember what happens later on in SATC, when Carrie and Aiden are reunited. She can't commit, which is why she can't free herself of the equally commitment-phobic Mr. Big. The tone of your letter suggests(forgive me if I err)that you get quite a high from the ups and downs and the uncertainty of it all. You perhaps crave the drama that was lacking with your ex first time round, which is why you cheated. If this scenario I painted rings any bells, don't worry. I understand it, because I'm like that myself. My only advice would be to remember these feelings that you have now(perhaps even save this question)and take it out and look at it next time you feel bored with your ex(we hope soon to be reunited)boyfriend. Of course, it could well be that the jolt caused by this split will be quite enough to ensure your seeing your boyfriend in a new light. Noone wants a puppy dog who is always at their beck and call:good on your ex for holding you off! That said, I really hope it works out.
Good Luck!
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Would you take yourself back if you were in his position? What you did, was dump him for someone who you thought was better, then when that didn't work out you came crying back to the guy you burned. I think you should leave him alone and just be friends. He doesn't need someone like you in his life.
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I can understand why you're afraid he's going to make you wait that long, if the answer is no. Maybe he still has feelings for you- but he just doesn't want to be hurt again. The easy way to go is to tell him that if he gives you another chance- you can then PROVE to him that you won't break his heart. If he still says no or says he's still afraid or whatever- you need to just talk and become even BETTER friends so he can earn your trust back.
Hope I helped!
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ok, on the 23rd call him and tell him what you did was wrong and that your were stupid, and basicly all the things you said in your question. if he still likes you, we will say yes, but he might have been really hurt by what you did, so it will be a hard choice on his part. just talk to him. if he loves you, he will get back together with you.
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Hi,
You need to tell him flat out that You were wrong to break - up with him and You still have feelings 4 him. Tell him that you know that what u did was wrong & That you realized that not every guy can be as nice as him . And if he does not accept it then mabye he is not who you were ment to be with A! Believe me! The same thing has happened to me!
Hope I helped!
Livy!
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I think that you are in a difficult position but you deserve congratulations.Why? Because it is a great thing to understand that you was wrong and trying to make things good again.
What you have to do now is to persuade him. It is not easy because i bet that he doesn't trust you that much. But because you are friends now i think that everything will be fine.
Just call him. Tell him that:"I was not the most mature person, i know. I mean not at all mature but i really understood it.I was wrong... It is said that you understand what someone deserves when you lose him. And they are right because honey, when i lost you understood how important you are in my life.And not only that. I understood that you are the only boy that makes me feel perfect. I don't know why i did this stupid thing before. It was like it was not me. I am really sorry. I like you so much. But not only this. I love you very much too. I don't know if you understand me but i swear i will not hurt you again.Why? Because i love you now and when we love someone we don't hurt him. do we? And something else.I think that everyone can have a second chance. Everyone. Will you give a second chance to me sweetie???"
I think that it will be ok. And i think that making you wait is good! I wish i helped! Kisses!
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Dear Ex,
I think that admitting you made a mistake is the first step which is exactly what you did and that's a good thing. I think that he made you wait so long to just let it keep poking at you like you did to him when you broke up with him. Tell him when you call him that again "you made a mistake and that everyone does so can we please get back together" i am sure that if he sill rometly still likes you he would give you a chance.
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