Gender: Male
Location: Troy, Michigan
Occupation: Student
Age: 20
Member Since: December 6, 2005
Answers: 3
Last Update: December 16, 2005
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Siren_Cytherea
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apperently i have a major problem with leading guys on? but thats not the worst part...the worst part is not being able to just be straight up with a person telling them "i dont like them like that" even saying it nicely "your a great guy,we should deffinitly hang out sometime but a friendship is all i can offer you" is just way to hard to say sometimes. so ever since i broke up with one of my exes we have been tight, and i love being friends with him...problem he asked me to chill this weekend and i said i couldnt b/c of exams next week, so he was like what about over winter break, we should go to the movies sometime" n now we are close friends so i was like yeah sure and he goes "alright so its a date" um i kinda like froze n iwas like "yeah um i have to go" how the heck do i get out of this one... i mean i love this kid to death...as a bestfriend! help! (link)
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I think you should be more blunt in telling him what you want. Tell him "I just want to be friends, I don't want anything more." It shouldn't be hard for him to understand, if you say it like that.
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I am having friends for dinner this weekend, and one women is not allowed ANY dairy in her diet. (She is a new mom and is breastfeeding-and for some reason can't have dairy). I can not figure out what kind of dessert to serve. It can't contain butter, chocolate, or milk. Any ideas? (link)
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How many people are attending? If there are several, it doesn't make sense to customize the meal for just 1 person. Make whatever you want, if it has dairy in it, just tell her that she shouldn't have any. Because honestly, deserts without butter, chocolate, or milk just plain suck. :)
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Ok, skip the whole. "oh my god, you are so stupid for breaking his heart" stuff. I just need help, I know what I did was wrong.
Ok, first off. I'm trying to get my ex back. I dumped him for another guy, who turned out to be an ass, and i realized what i did was wrong. i miss him a lot and i would do anything to have him back. I have talked to him about this before and he said it was not going to work out. since then we have been good friends, but now im starting to like him again, and he knows. he told me to call him on december 23rd when he gets new minutes on his phone so we can talk about it and i can tell him why i want him back so badly. he is afraid to get back together because he doesn't want me to break his heart again, and i swore on my life i wouldnt. because i won't. i just really miss him and like i dont know if he wants me back or not. im not afraid to call him, just afraid that its going to be a blunt "NO" answer. but why would he make me wait that long for a simple "NO"?
If anyone can help, it would be greatly appreciated. thank you! i give 5s if anyone helps me. (link)
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Would you take yourself back if you were in his position? What you did, was dump him for someone who you thought was better, then when that didn't work out you came crying back to the guy you burned. I think you should leave him alone and just be friends. He doesn't need someone like you in his life.
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