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Member Since: December 6, 2005
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Just yesterday I got my first period, and I'm unsure how to tell my mom, or if it's even neccessary. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. I just don't know how to tell her this because she's not one of the cool moms that are easy to talk to, and I'm the youngest of four, at 13, and I just want a way to tell my mom. (link)
Just go and tell mom that you started your period. She'll understand, and can probably help with any issues of problems you may have. A period is completely natural, there is nothing to be ashamed of.


my ex and i are best friends,he has girlfriend and me her dont like each other, but its like now im realizing i still love him but i couldn't ever imagine being more than just his friend, even though we you used to go out,my friends say i should tell him how i feel but i just dont kno has a girl that he loves dearly but i get this vibe that maybe its something he not telling me,so im trying to figure out if its love or friendship. so what should i do should i tell him how i feelor should i just let this friendship "be real"?i also want to have sex with him and i think he knows that but he doesnt want to hurt his girl and i told him what she dont know won't hurt her so what should i do? (link)
You should stop and think about whether you see any future of you two being together. If so, go ahead and give him little hints, and if you feel confident go ahead and tell him about how you feel. But if you see no future between you two, then don't do anything, just be patient and wait for your emotions to pass because then you'll just be going in circles. Being just friends with an ex can be difficult because then there'd be a lot of footsies going back and forth. You'll remember all the good times you had, get back together, then break up again. As for having sex with him, don't push it, just let him decide whether he wants to be with that other girl or not.




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