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my ex and i are best friends,he has girlfriend and me her dont like each other, but its like now im realizing i still love him but i couldn't ever imagine being more than just his friend, even though we you used to go out,my friends say i should tell him how i feel but i just dont kno has a girl that he loves dearly but i get this vibe that maybe its something he not telling me,so im trying to figure out if its love or friendship. so what should i do should i tell him how i feelor should i just let this friendship "be real"?i also want to have sex with him and i think he knows that but he doesnt want to hurt his girl and i told him what she dont know won't hurt her so what should i do?
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You should stop and think about whether you see any future of you two being together. If so, go ahead and give him little hints, and if you feel confident go ahead and tell him about how you feel. But if you see no future between you two, then don't do anything, just be patient and wait for your emotions to pass because then you'll just be going in circles. Being just friends with an ex can be difficult because then there'd be a lot of footsies going back and forth. You'll remember all the good times you had, get back together, then break up again. As for having sex with him, don't push it, just let him decide whether he wants to be with that other girl or not.
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It is cool that you ares till friends with your ex but there is a line you cannot cross. He does have a girlfriend and you know he loves her so dont step over that line-im sure you will always have feelings for him and maybe you should back off alittle bit and let him have his relationship with his girlfriend--you know he loves her but yet your trying to manipulate him to have sex with you--i think he would respect you more if you didnt let him know that-and who knows if you lay low he may realize he doesnt want his girlfriend and re knidle them feelings for you also
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Go and tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same way..but he will just hate to tell you. Never hurt the girl you hate or like it'll just make things worse!! With Love, AdviceGoddess
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I really think you that you shouldn't do anything just be his friends he needs a friend. Plus if it is love he will break up with his gf and go with you. And don't have sex with your best friend and especially if he has a gf.Tell me how it goes.
~Liza~
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ok..i would back off because hes with somoene now. dont go getting inbetween this guy and his new gf. i think you should just be friends..dont try anything with him. down the road when they break up, then yes i encourage you to express your feelings..but not now.
-melissa-
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