I have been goin out with my boyfriend for justa few days now, but we have known each other for a couple of months now. Well, when I was talkin to him onthe internet today, I got a sudden urge to just be like "I love you". I'm the kind of person who, I have to know i really do love somebody before I say that, cause to me, it has alot of meaning. so, I didn't say it, but my question is,since I felt like I wantedto all the sudden, does that mean I am in love with him, or what?
I'll rate 5's for any helpful answers!!
thanks in advance!!
orphans answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 4:14 pm: I dont think so. Maybe you got over you head beacause you know you care for him & hes amazing. You may not love him quite yet(Love meaning REAL love, true LOVE) [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
sizzlinmandolin answered Monday December 5 2005, 11:44 pm: I had a huge problem with this too. There's such a taboo on saying "I love you" to someone. What I learned though was that all you can do is express how you feel at the time. If you feel love for him, you should let him know. Just because you say "I love you" doesn't mean he's the love of your life! There are so many different kinds of love and feelings can change over time. You don't stop yourself from telling someone that you're happy just because you may feel sad later on in the day, so why stop yourself from saying "I love you" if you feel that? I hope I helped and good luck. <3 [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
SoInToYoUx0x answered Monday December 5 2005, 10:23 pm: when you love someoen it is just sayin the word that makes it meaning full it is showing it. if you love this guy you will find yourself sprung over him and that you cant control it.
*~Stephanie~* [ SoInToYoUx0x's advice column | Ask SoInToYoUx0x A Question ]
brokenagain answered Monday December 5 2005, 9:47 pm: I dont think it really means you love him-you are happy with him and he makes you feel good but you dont love him...yet. there is alot about a person you dont know and to be honest you never really know a person even when you think you do...Love takes time and i think you will truley know when you love him but right now he makes you happy and feel good. Dont rush the love quote he may back down or push away hope i coul dhelp [ brokenagain's advice column | Ask brokenagain A Question ]
advicegoddess34 answered Monday December 5 2005, 9:38 pm: If you know you love him...you know you love him! I'd wait until you know he feels the same way about you! When the time comes say it ALL the time! I think you guys should talk about how you feel about each other! With Love, AdviceGoddess [ advicegoddess34's advice column | Ask advicegoddess34 A Question ]
babiigirl answered Monday December 5 2005, 9:33 pm: No one here really knows how you feel about this guy. If you feel that you love him then tell him if he doesnt tell you back maybe hes just not ready he'll get there. [ babiigirl's advice column | Ask babiigirl A Question ]
xopinkbarbie answered Monday December 5 2005, 9:29 pm: No one else can tell you if you're in love with him or not. That's a decision you have to figure out on your on. But, I will tell you this: if you feel the urge to say it & you feel like you truly do love him in your heart, etc. then you probably do :) [ xopinkbarbie's advice column | Ask xopinkbarbie A Question ]
icey0990 answered Monday December 5 2005, 8:35 pm: i dont beleive in people telling you if your in love or not. only you can know...
maybeee you never felt this way before so thats why you wwanted to type in "i love you." then again..maybe you are in love ..im sorry i couldnt help you ..but i truly beleive only you will know if your in love. keep this in mind..dont let anyone say "no, your not in love.." dont let anyone tell you that!
-melis [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
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