Im in 9th grade. I love to cheer and play basketball. I believe that all the name brand clothes and stuff out there is stupid why does it matter what ppl ware as long as it looks descent and they have a nice personality!
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Gender: Female
Location: Wilson
Occupation: 9th grade student at Wilson high school
Age: 14
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Member Since: December 6, 2005
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I have this girlfriend, and I love her so muc, she doesn't understand!! I don't know what to get her for christmas either. It's driving me crazy. she likes jewlery, but I'm afraid she'd lose it. I'm on a tight budget like around $30, so i don't know what jewlery you cna get for that anyway, but i need ideas for simple things, things that would just say "I really care about you" not so much, "I spent mad dough on this woman!" please help.
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Well there are many things you can get a girl to show her you love her. You could always get a cute ring like they have nice rings for around 20 to 30 dollars. Just go on www.shavonne.com and they have nice rings. Or you can just get her a cute little teddy bear
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hey, uhmm.. i was wondering what to do.. cuz im TOTALLY comfusedd. anywayss..
ok, so i like this one kidd alot. and my other friend likes him, and she is alot prettier, and skinnier then me.. and well, shes like my sister. and i dont know what to do cuz i asked him out and he didnt answer mee. and i think he might answer mee tomorrow. [sat] and i dont know what to do if he says noo. and i mean, i dont want to give upp on him, and i know he likes me, he tells me, but he says he kinda likess her too, but doesnt show it as muchh. and i kiss him all the time, like when i see him.. bbut he didnt kiss her.. so tell me what to doo =[ (link)
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Well i had this problem once! I would talk w/ your friend about it just in case b.c if she is your best friend you wouldnt want to lose her. And as for him... Just follow your heart. If you know he likes you and you like him then you guys should be together. If he likes her then dont think there is much you could do... but.. you could like hang out with him a lot and he will see that he really likes you and loves to be around you. Well good luck!
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Hey all... i'm 17/f and usually i'm one to dish out advice but in this case i dont know what to do! I met this boy this summer, who lives on Coronado Naval Base in San Diego, and hes going on criuse for the next 9 months. We used to say up until like 3am every day talking to eachother telling each other how much we like each other, and text message all the time, and now that hes leaving i just dont know what to do. Should i forget about him or try and keep in touch with him, and see if we still feel for each other when he comes back? I would appreciate any help because holding myself together when i talk to him, is getting kind of hard because i know he is leaveing so soon. Any advice would be so helpful. thanks :) (link)
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I think that you should keep in touch with him while he is away. Maybe just as friends b.c it will be hard to keep a relationship as a couple. If you dont get to see him that much it will hurt you so if you are just friends you can rely on that and know you guys will always be friends
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I have had my heart set on adopting a child for years even though I plan to have my own. My spouse on the other hand... doesnt quite agree. I told him why I wanted to and then he gave in to the idea but he absolutely refused to adopt a boy because he "wants his boy to be his own." I told him over and over that I would like him to come with me to the adoption agency so we could fall in love with a child any young age, race, or sex and he said no. He does not want a boy or a child that is not a newborn. I dont want to comprimise my life long plans. (link)
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I think you should sit down and talk with him. Tell him that he needs to understand that your the one giving him his children... I think it is a wonderful thing to do to adopt a child. Hopefully he will come a long with you! Good luck.
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16/f. Well my boyfriend and I have gone out for about 7 months, and we were good friends before that, and we have a wonderful relationship. We started fooling around about a month ago, but we're not going to have sex, at least not for a long time because we're not ready. I discussed this with him and (separately) with my mom, because I told her I'd always tell her if I was becoming more intimate in a relationship, and she was fine with it. Well, the other night my boyfriend dropped me off at my house and we were both extremely tired and we fell asleep on my bed, we didn't do anything at all. And my parents came home and flipped out, called his parents, now he's not allowed to see me for a very long time, etc...
And my mom says she doesn't trust me and she thinks we've been having sex. She fully knows my views on this and both my boyfriend and I are very ambitious academically and would not do anything that might jeopardize our education or futures. But there is mutual trust and understanding in this relationship, and I thought there was between my mom and I, and I'm very confused. Does anyone have any advice?
Sorry this is so long. Thanks. (link)
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I think the best thing for you to do is to just talk to your mom about it. Tell her how you feal about school and your future. Hopefully she will understand that you are a mature person and would not jeopardize your future. Good luck with your boyfriend and parents!!
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I have been goin out with my boyfriend for justa few days now, but we have known each other for a couple of months now. Well, when I was talkin to him onthe internet today, I got a sudden urge to just be like "I love you". I'm the kind of person who, I have to know i really do love somebody before I say that, cause to me, it has alot of meaning. so, I didn't say it, but my question is,since I felt like I wantedto all the sudden, does that mean I am in love with him, or what?
I'll rate 5's for any helpful answers!!
thanks in advance!!
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i dont think you are quite in love with him yet give it a couple months and see how you feal then
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I'm starting to throw up my dinner each night. I know this isn't good, but i cant stop myself. What should i do? (link)
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you should go see a doctor b.c it is really serious. My brother had a problem sort of like that and he almost died from it. Unless your doing it on you own, that would mean you bolemic and you need to see a theropist in that case.
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omg...i dont know what to do at all...you see my problem isi knew this boy mike for the longest time(his family is a friend of my family). and back when i hated his guts and actually had a crush on his older brother greg....my brothers and sisters would tease me and make fun of me saying haha, you like mike, you like mike. And i really didnt.well the problem starts now...this time around im like in love with him...it didnt start till early october when he got a job at the carnival i worked at....once we were paired together and i was so happy.We were woking together in a huge basketball game caled longrange...he kept calling my name and going wiatch this and a whole bunch of shit like that before he did a shot like trying to impress me. i kept saying "am i suppoesed to be impressed?" and he was like hell yea each time...even if he missed..well everytime i get up the courage and the chance to ask him out or at least tell him how i feel about him and show him my book full of poems all about him(and the sad thing is i dontwrite poems, i suck at them, my friends said they are really good) he is going out with someone.....most of the time its wih one of my friends....on monday we were hanging out in the hallway with my friend raquele because we didnt want to goto class and he was messing with me and i was like micheal if you keep it up im gona murder you...and he told me then Ariele would murder me bcuz hes goin out with her....shes one of my good friendz...anyway i dont know what to do anymore...i cry myself to sleep and then dream of him...a wake up in the middle of the night and wipe the tears off my face after i dream about him then i have trouble going back top sleep...hes always messing with me and im always messing with him...i just dont know what to do....plz help me...i am so desperate....i rate 5's... (link)
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There isnt really any thing you can do. I had a problem like this with one of my friends also. I told her and she ended up breaking up with him shortly after and she didnt really mind me dating him. So i would tell her you have fealing just b.c if you dont you will lose her as a friend
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tomorrow i have my first winter track meet. we have uniforms that are really short!! i dont know if my coach said we could wear spandex pants underneath..i know we can not wear like clothes or anything over/under it. i thought one of the senior said we could. do you think we can? im trying to get in touch with the people on my team but i dont know where they are. please help me!! (link)
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Well, i run winter track also! I deffenetly would ware something under because you are probably allowed.
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a boy liked me. i'm scared of relationship. he loses feelings for me. not his fault. i run away from every guy. i start to like him. he doesnt know. i dont even really know what my question is......IM THAT CONFUSED!!! (link)
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You have to face up to your fear. Dont be affraid of relationship. If you dont give it a chance you wont get anywhere. Good luck with that
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