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Navy Boy...Going to Iraq/Cruise
Hey all... i'm 17/f and usually i'm one to dish out advice but in this case i dont know what to do! I met this boy this summer, who lives on Coronado Naval Base in San Diego, and hes going on criuse for the next 9 months. We used to say up until like 3am every day talking to eachother telling each other how much we like each other, and text message all the time, and now that hes leaving i just dont know what to do. Should i forget about him or try and keep in touch with him, and see if we still feel for each other when he comes back? I would appreciate any help because holding myself together when i talk to him, is getting kind of hard because i know he is leaveing so soon. Any advice would be so helpful. thanks :)
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I think that you should keep in touch with him while he is away. Maybe just as friends b.c it will be hard to keep a relationship as a couple. If you dont get to see him that much it will hurt you so if you are just friends you can rely on that and know you guys will always be friends
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I understand how hard it is but this is not a solution to stop being with him and find someone else. You know why? Because you like him and you want him. If this thing you both feel is love it will last and become even stronger but if it is not you will stop suffering too. You have to do tow things. Firstly, do not tell him to broke up or sth but live every single moment you are with him as it is the last one. Secondly in one month or too 2 things can happen.#1 Stop liking him. If this one, tell him to break up and find someone new and#2 You will still like him. Congratulations. This was love. Continue sending him text messages and call him on the phone. Everything will be better when he will come back...
See it as a test for your relationship! Live it and follow your heart. Do what you want. This will be the right thing!
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alright..9 months is a really long time! i mean who knows what will happen in this time period. your a senior in high school im assuming? its your senior year! if you find someone new, go with the new person. i know its sad..but people move on and long distance is very hard to keep up with. keep in contact with him as friends,but i wouldnt turn down other dating opportunities ..if its meant to be you will end up together remeember that. im not saying it will never work..the future is uncertain. Who knows, when he comes back you two might end up together..keep an open mind.
-meliss
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