Hi!!I am Emily and i decided to give advice because i like helping people and see them happy...Others tell me that i am understanding and sociable. The only thing i know for sure is that i am possitive thinking! I have one sister and i am a very good friend with her. My best friends are Ann and Geogre. I share with them almost everything. I have a lot of friends and we go out together all the time. My hobby is acting and that's why i want to become an actress or an advisor.Of course i like giving advice. The last one is the best!!!
I like Justin Timberlake and Nick Carter very much because apart from their talent they are very hondsome too. I also like Britney and Alyssa Milano. I watch Charmed and Smalville but i like California teens very much too.
I think that we should smile more often and that's why this is my nickname!I also believe that everyone should be more spontaneous. Everyone should be a little bit more his/herself! And somethin else! A general advice from me to all you: Be you and live every minute in your life like being the last one... Only by doing it you will be really happy! Kisses!!!
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okay well i guess ill have to tell the past first but this summer i met this really great guy like perfect n we started talking n everything but school started up so we kind of stopped cause we didnt get to see each other much since we dont go to the same school. but then oct we saw each other again n like he called n texted me later that nite sayin he misses me so we tried again n still didnt work n i just cant stop likeing him n we still like talk regulary now n all.. but i dont know theres this gurl that im really not sure if she likes him or is just a close friend but like says love uu on his myspace thing n i dont want to be noise n be like does she like you cause i mean we arent \"talkin\" right now but i just really want to know n dont know how to ask n we might be gettin back n feb we both get our license n all.. i mean i know i seem jealous but im not i just want to know cause its hard not bein able to be with the person who you really like you know? i dont wanna share.. but i hope you could help?
thanks (link)
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The best thing is to ask him. Don't show him that you care veeeeery much but just tell him that you would like to know...I don't think that you should let it because you care about the whole thing, don't you???And if he will say you that she likes him etc. ask if he feels the same. If not, ask what he feels... You will know. This will not bother him. He will understand that you are interested. As a friend or as something more...
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Theres this boy his REALLY CUTE but im not sure he likes me but i think he like me.
How can you tell????
Thank You,
Skylar (link)
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He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it
He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.
He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up or talks only to you.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.
He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.
He'll give you a little smile from across the room...
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
If you know him he will smile. He will tell things to you like" I would tell you but let it now" when you ask things like"what do you want?"
I hope i helped!Remember!SMILE!!!
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Hey well i have this one friend and it seems like she is always pressuring me to do stuff that im not ready 4 like she pressured me into Kissing my boyfriend that i had only been going with 4 a lil bit and yah i didnt really know him that much but she always gettin in my buisness but i don't know how to tell her to stop!!
Like this week end she wants me to go to the movies only so that my bf and i can make out and i don't know wat to do cause i want to do wateva when im ready..!! So can some 1 give a sista advice on how to get her "friend" of her back??
love lissa (link)
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Look, what you should do is to tell her what you think. Because i am sure that she does it because she cares about your relationship with this boy or because she just cares about you don't get mad. Just tell her that you do what you want, not what everyone else tells you. Tell her that you understand why she is doing it but tell her to let you make your own choses. That's the best. If she continues don't tell her anything and do whatever you want. Don't do what she tells you. Just ignore her. Got it? I hope i helped...:):):):)
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I'LL RATE A 5 AND SORRY IT'S A LITTLE LONG .well I'm not allowed to date i'm 14 and my parents found out that i was and for my family it's a big deal and my parents gave me the silent treatment.my sister who is 23 that acts like my mom gave me the silent treatment too.well let me get to the point I broke up with him because I made my mom,dad,and sister cry because I went out with him.I felt bad,my sister called him and talked to him.but the point is I hurt them and I didn't mean to.I really really love him.he's my support,what I need he's always been there for me.he's my best friend I can tell him anything and he would understand.and the worst thing about it is that my mom said I couldn't be his friend or talk to him.this just happened right before christmas brake.I broke up with him on the fon not because i didn't have the balls but because I couldn't live with my self anymore for 2 weeks till I went to school again.when I told him,he cryed and I told him not to be mad and he said y would I b mad I understand.what really hurt me was when he said "what do I do,do I move on".I told him that he should and he said this when he was crying."BUT I DON'T WANT 2, I WANT 2 BE WITH U,I DON'T WANT TO LOOSE U" I love him I cry everyday.did I make the right chose and if I did y does it hurt so much,y do I feel like sh*t. I'LL RATE A 5 JUST PLEASE HELP!SORRY IT'S LONG (link)
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I understand you so much!Don't cry and try to see the possitive thing. That shows that he really loves you, that he really wanted to be with you. Now, i think that you didn't made the right chose. Because noone has the right to make you feel unhappy. I think that your parents did it because they want to protect you(from getting hurted and disappointed)And of course because they think that in our age our relationships don't last and so you are finally unhappy. What i want to say is that they finally made you feel unhappy, not him. The first thing you should do is to let them see that you are unhappy. Do what you feel. And if you want cry in front of them do it... They have to respect what you feel. Afterwards tell them what you think and how he reacted when you told him to break up. If they will continue their "idiot" behaviour, tell them that it is not your fault making them unhappy.On the contray, it is fair, because what they do now is to make you feel unhappy. And tell them that they make you see them not as parents and friends. They make you stop trusting them...
Next go to your ex and tell him what you did and if he would like to be together again without the others know it.Noone else apart from you 2 will know that you are together. NOONE.Not even your best friends.
Otherwise do what your parents tell you. But you have to understand that our life belongs to US. Not to our parents. And that we are teens not little children. They have shown us how to eat, how to read, how to walk, how to behave. They have shown us how to do what we do now. BUT, noone can shows us how to live. We live with our own way and life shows us. Not our sister or our parents. I hope i helped... Kisses.
P.S. S M I L E:):):):)
THIS IS SOMETHING IMPORTANT IN OUR LIFE...
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ok i really need help ok theres this guy that my friend talk to saying that i like him and she said that he said that he likes me two but than i see him flirting with my friend that talk to him and he flirts with other people and i even hinted that i like him and shit and dont get wrong he flirts with me two but i always feel like hes giving me mixed signals and i need help pleaze im lost (link)
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Oh!Boys are like that. They love doing what he is doing. They like to test you. He probably wants to make you feel jealous. That is what is going on. And if you are sure he told that he likes you go and tell him what you feel.If he will tell you to be with him tell him to stop being like that with the other girls because when you like a boy you feel jealous. He will like it because boys love this feeling of being important.A guy friend i have does this thing what your guy does. All the time. That's how they are...We cannot change them!!!
I hope i helped!:):):):):)
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I was just wondering what everyone thinks about love? I don't believe in love and was just wondering what everyone else thought about it. (link)
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I believe in love... These are the reasons:
Love is not only loving your boyfriend, love is to love your sister and your parents. Love is to love your friends and love is to love the others. Imagine our world without love. People who care only about money and their own good. Wars and little children who suffer. Without love our world would be destroyd. Why? Because love is the spirit that makes us help, and love is what makes us feel pitty for poor people.
But because i am sure you are talking about the love a couple feels i will explain what it is.Or what i think it is..."LOVE" is love, cherish, kind, caring, sharing, understanding, accept, concern, forgiveness, sacrifice, patient, compromise, honest, trust and respect.
If you love someone, you should accept each other as what he or she is !!
Love is Joy, Love is Happiness. Sometimes ... love hurts. Sometimes love makes you feel. But the many faces of love can be expressesed through these feeling ... that expresses the different.
So ... "Faces of Love" ... Love leaves a smile on your heart ...
Love is real, caring and concern.
Love makes as feel and love makes us want. Love is something deep and PERFECT. Love is everything around us because they are made with love...
Believe in love! Let your self love because only if you really love you learn and finally you are happy...
I haven't loved some guy but i know that i love my sister and i know that love is there for eveyone...
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ok im 13/f and theres this guy that i really like we'll call him bob. i think he knows that i like him but im not sure. i love hugging ppl and when i hug most guys to me it seems like im hugging an older brother. but when i hug bob he naturally puts his arms around my waist. he compliments me about stupid stuff sometimes but..i dont know!!please help! thanks in advance!! (link)
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I can't be sure if he likes you... I don't know him... How is his behaviour around other girls? Is he behaving somehow specially to you?If his behaviour changes when you are around etc. that means he likes you...This about the compliments and his arms mean somethig. If you think he likes you, you know something more.
But to be honest i didn't really understood what you were asking.I hope i answered to the right thing!!!GOOD LUCK!
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i like a kid at my school he's really awesome..we're best friends so we hang out all the time...i love being friends with him but i would realy like to be more..all my friends are telling me he likes me..even people who aren't my friends..teachers at our school and even random people think we are going out..but the problem is..he has a girlfriend...i am pretty sure he likes me and he told his friends he likes me but he won't break up with his girlfriend for me...i'm not exactly sure what i'm asking...i guess i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not...i know he won't break up with is girlfriend..but he told his friend that if they do break up he's going to ask me out...i like him a lot.and his girlfriend is getting mad at him because me and him hang out so much..him and his girlfriend have also been on and off a lot so i don't think they'll last very long..sorry this is really long..i don't want to tell him and then ruin are friendship but i'm afraid if i don't tell him then if he breaks up with his girlfriend he won't ask me out...i'm so confused...please help (link)
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We all have some priorities in our lives, right? His priority is his gf... That's the truth. But i think that he likes you. I mean if you believe this thing and so many people believe the same, you are right. But, the point is that he maybe wants to break up her but don't know how. He maybe doesn't want to tell "WE BREAK UP" but he wants to make her tell this... That is one posibility.
Now, what you should do is to ask him what is going on. If he likes you and what you should do now. Don't tell that you like him before listen that he likes you. If he tells that he likes you mention his girlfriend, if not(impossible but i say IF) tell him that you asked because everyone believes this and because you really want to do something to stop this thing.
I hope i helped you honey...:):):):):):)
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I have this science teacher okay and he is so darn mean I'm black and he's white everyday he tells me to take off my coat in his classroom because it's a policy but he's sitting there talkin to a white girl who had an a big fluffy azz coat zipped up and all but didn't say anything to her but this isn't about coats he also treats the black kids way worser than the white kids the way he treats the white kids on a scale of 1-2-10 I would say a 9.The way he treats the black kids on a scale of 1-2-10 is a
-1111111111111222222222222222222222222 if you know what I mean what should I do besides telling an adult becuz i've already tried but it doesn't work.
I only rate 5's so if you give me great advice that can be used everyday of my junior high school life then I'll rate u 5's. (link)
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Look, i know that there are some idiots in this world but don't give up fighting for your rights and for your beliefs.
Now, you can do 2 things in my opinion.Firstly, you could talk to the headmaster. Tell him what is going on and all these things you find unfair...
The second and the best thing(as i see it) you SHOULD do is to talk to your teacher. He is not good at all but in my opinion everyone can have a second chance. Tell him what you believe. Don't tell that you think he does it because you are black and don't mention the other girl. This will not help. You could tell him this:" Sir, i would like to talk to you... I think that something is not ok here. I see that you are not behaving to me in the right way. I have a problem with that. I know, maybe i am wrong but tell it to me if i am. I see you getting angry if i will do something you don't like. I am a kid and i am learning from my mistakes so i don't find making mistakes that terrible. Do you understand me? Forgive me if i am rude or if you think that i shouldn't talk like that but i thought that the most correct and fair thing was to talk to you. Tell me! Is there any problem with me?" Let him answer. Then i am sure that his behaviour will change. If not tell it to the headmaster. Not before.
I hope i helped...:):):)
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my brother (older by a year) says if I dont get bf IM a loser, his geeky friend on the bus even got one before I did and my little sis did before me too and my lil bro might get one before me too and I have never had my first kiss ither and I really want one too.and I need to know if I want to start a conversation with a guy and how to flirt keep on talking to him. (link)
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Not having kissed a boyfriend and not having had a relationship with someone that doesn't mean that you arec a loser. NO WAY! Now i will give you some information i found in a site about flirting and how to start a conversation.
CONVERSATION STARTERS
1What do you think of (a teacher, a class)?
2Who's your favorite teacher at our school? What makes them your favorite?
3Have you always lived in (name of your town or city)? How do you like it here? (Or if they say no:)4 Where did you live before this? What was it like there? How does this place compare with that one? What kind of movies do you like? What is the worst movie you ever saw? Who is your favorite actor/actress? What do you like about them?
5What is your favorite TV show? What is your least favorite?
6Did you catch the Academy Awards, (or that new show, or the game, etc.) last night?
7What kind of music do you enjoy? Who is your favorite performer/group/band? Who do you think is the hottest this year? Do you think they will still be next year? Who do you think is the most over-hyped?
FLIRTING TIPS
1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.
#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'
#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)
#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'
#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world.
#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.
#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
I hope i helped. Remember to smile! Boys like it!:):):):)
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i really like this kid in 11th (im in 9th) and he always wants to hangout with me adn i do to but imscared so i always say i cant sometimes i really cant but sometimes im just making it up and im scared and he hasnt asked me in a couple weeks im scared i messed up and idk if he likes me back im so confused.. (link)
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Why are you scared? He is a boy not a monster!!!!Come on! Don't be scared. What you should do now, is to go and tell him to go out and tell him that you like him too. That's what you should do. I am 99,9999% sure that he still likes you. But it is the normal thing what he does now. What would you do if someone was telling you all the time no? It is normal. It would be a pitty not to tell him go out. DON'T LOSE THE CHANCE.YOU WILL REGRET IT IF YOU WILL NOT DO IT... i hope i helped:):):):)
P.S. No nead to fear! Relax and follow your heart!
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ok i have a huge crush on a guy whois older than me but he said he felt the same way the only problem is he has a gf of 19 months what do i do i really like him alot and he is always fliring with me!i cant live without him i get sad wen i dont talk to him after 1 day plzz help i dont know wat to do (link)
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Look, i can understand you. It is a pitty liking someone and this one likes you too but you can't have something. My advice is to tell him that you want him to break up with his girlfriend. They are together for so long but if he really likes you he will stop being with her. Otherwise, you can't trust him. He maybe lies or he maybe can do the same thing to you after a relationship. So, tell him to broke up her.
If he will not do that find an other one because he will not deserve your love and YOU. If yes that means that the guy likes you very much and that he prefers you than the others. Be with him and have fun.
I hope i helped!:):):):):)
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Alright I'm going to make this as simple as I can:
There's this white girl at my school and I really like her a lot but I don't get the feelin sometimes that she likes me but I've been leavin hints here and there letting her know how I feel about her but I think she still hasn't caught on we're both 13 I really like her and I'm black we get along but she's more of the I'm too busy into my work type and the silent type like I don't want to get in trouble in school type you know just the complicated type can u give me advice on how I can get this girl to know my true feelings besides askin her out on a date I only rate 5's so if your advice is bad you get nothin if it helped you get a 5
Thx
Signed, The Ebony Prince (link)
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Well, you have 2 options...#1 Send her a letter writing your feelings. Tell her that you like her and that she is very pretty and generally what you want to tell her. It will be easier than asking her out face to face...
#2 Tell a friend of you that talks with her too to tell her what you would like to tell her...
But, i am a girl too and i have to tell you that we like boys who tell us what they want to tell us face to face.Or we prefer it. We don't reject someone who doesn't do this but we just don't prefer doing it than telling it face to face..
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hi! I'd like your help on some questions I have about me and my boyfriend. I am 14 years old going to be 15 in April. He is 16 going to be 17 in February. (freshman/junior) He is a very trustworthy guy who I have been talking to for about 2 months. He is not a virgin and has had sex twice. He is not pressuring me into having sex, but sometimes I feel like I want to(protected of course). I know i'm only 14, but do you think I should just wait? So far we had dry sex with all clothes on and he fingered me. If i should wait for sex, what are ways to make everything more "pleasurable" for me? He seems to be getting a lot more out of it than I do. Sorry if I sound "hoeish" but i'm really not, he is the only guy I have ever even kissed. Please help me, thank you (link)
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Look,You just have to be 1000% sure about it. Is he so souper that you want to have sex with him? Having sex is something really important especially in one girl's life so don't do something without being sure first.
If i were you i would wait. You are with him only 2 months. This is a really short time period to start having sex. Just kisses and things like that are ok for our age...I have to tell you that by having sex now your body changes. Hormones will not be like before because you will want having sex all the time. And your body will change too. It will not be as good as before. Evey thing has to happen at a certain time in our lives. Got it? We have to be really mature and READY. It is also good to LOVE someone. And love is much more than liking someone.
Now what you should do is to make your relationship a little bit more interesting than it is now...Have fun with your friends, don't be all the time alone. Go somewhere together, somewhere to have fun. And generally make your love life a little bit more interesting and change it. Doing new things and especially with the one you like will help you think more these things than sex.
If you are 100000000% sure that you want to have sex with him wait some months and let him ask it from you...Don't do something that you will regret later...I hope i helped...
P.S. Live things that 14-15 girls live. Sex will come in your life later and when you will be really ready you will not wonder if you will do the right thing...:):):)
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Okay Christmas 8 days away
i have this boyfriend his name is Jeremy and the thing is i havent got him anything for christmas yet im spending christmas with him and his family please help me nothing to expensive but nothing to cheap please help i rate 5's for good answers (american eagle, abercrombie and fitch, no problem)
if this helps we've been datin 5 months the 26th of December (link)
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Buy him the authentic cd album of the group he likes or of the singer he is crazy for. Or you could also buy him a pillow with the shape of heart that has something sweet on it and when you press on it you hear "i love you" or something else sweet.
And something else! If you 2 have had sex you could arrange a dinner at your house or at his, where you could be alone. A great atmosphere with candles and the sexiest clothes and the sexiest you underneath these clothes! What a better present for you both if you have already have sex???
I hope i helped... :):):):)
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oh k well..i never kissed a guy before and im in 9th(i know) and like this kid it 11th and he always wants me to go over and i wanna go im just a little nervous cause i dont wanna mess up with him tho.. ya know?
~confuesd (link)
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Dear confused...
You don't need to get stressed. The first kiss is a wonderful experience if you give it to the boy you like.You want to kiss him so do it. Do not give him a French kiss or something like that. Keep a little bit. Kiss his lips like kissing his cheek, for about two seconds...Don't worry at all...
And remember that if he really likes you he will not judje you from the way you kiss,will he?
I hope i helped...:)
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alright im really confused so anyone who can help me ill rate 5..here goes...kinda long
Okay i have really really liked this boy for like 4 months and over time i have gotten to know him more and when i see him we hang out..(i see him at church) ...but than theres this other girl who likes him also and he flirts with us about the same....but he grabbed her but which made me kind of mad.. but anyways he knowss i like him so he knows i get mad when he says oh "shes so hot" so he does that kind of stuff of purpose like joking around , but than i asked him for his necklace (it was a chain thinging you know?) and he gave it to me...not to have i dont think?..haha..alright well one time i was telling everyone a story and he was there and in the story cause i got in a fight with a girl and he said "oh your sticking up for me" and i siad no but i was and he said oh well i would have kissed you if you were...i dont know if he likes me, doesnt, or is just leading me on...and what do i do??!!? ..HELP. (link)
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Look, i think that he likes you. But we can't be sure. Watch his behaviour. Is he talking to you before you do it? The best thing you should do is to stop behaving the same as you used to. Start talking a lot with the others and not with him so much. Then act like not being jealous when he does something with an other girl. You should also stop flirting so much him and start flirting with an other boy just on purpose(a lttle bit. Don't overdo it!). BUT, talk with him. I don't mean stop chatting! Just not that much. Don't make him feel that he is the centre of your attention. Got it? And show him that you are interested but not that much.
And remember smiling!That helps. Boys like it...
Generally, do what he does now. Confuse him!He will understand what you believe now...
P.S. I think he likes you and that he is interested...Just do it to be sure.!I hope i helped...:):):):):)
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ok i have been thinking about running away for awhile. and well i ave tried to before but the girl that wa going with me decided she wanted to go back(she was chickening out) and so well i walked her back and we were almost already to a different town when she decided to go back and well i got caught and my parents didnt realize that i was trying to run away until i told my grandma when i stayed at her house for the weekend. and i asked my mom if i could live with my grandma and my mom was gonna let me cause i told her that it would make me happier and my grandma totally understood and comforted me all the way.well my mom was actually gonna let me live with my grandma she just said well i will have to transfor u to the other scholl. but my stupid ass dad had to say no and that i was their responsibility not my grandparents. well now my grandparents dont hae much money. so i have been thinking about living with my dad's best friend chan. i know this is long and im sorry i am almost done:-( well anyway my parents tottaly trust chan cuz he is like my dad i call him dad all the time. anyway my question is i dont know where to go and all that stuff nd i am wanting to leave in january sometime. i just dont know where to go and ho to get there. any advice? i rate high please help me i really need it. :-( (link)
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Honey,
i understand so much that there is a problem here. But what is the problem to stay at home? Why?It is said that when you are at home you feel comfortable and wanted and good and "in your place". Why do you want to leave?If you want answer me and let me know...How old are you?
If you are sure you want to go, go where you feel better. If you want at your grandma's go there... Try to persuade them. If it is your choice they have to respect it. But if it is the same for you to go to your dad's friend go there...Where you feel the best. But talk with your parents before going somewhere else... This is a really important decission about your life...
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Regards,
First of all, let me clear a thing... I'm fairly in the air... I had passed a hard day and for now, I'm exteremly confused, like i have never been before... I just need some help, adivse or anything that could be any of help...
My story begins from two months ago. when I actually decided to start a new PLP type relationship with a girl in my university for the first time in my life... we both are studying electronics engineering. I just have two term to finish the
lessons, while she has 4 terms to go... I dont know if these informations do any help, but in any way, I'm trying to be precise here...
Before this, I had absolutely no idea in dating with girls. I had never speaked with someone because of my FEELINGs. so when I came to this situation, I started to read some books. I learned a lot of things, but the most interesting, yet frightening part of them was the sentence " Hunters, Move FAST !!"... it becames the QUEEN of my mind...
I started some basics like intense gaze, making eye contact, giving a nod, doing body language, and sometimes, a very short smile... I was unexperienced, but I think that I was doing fine... she usually returned my gaze with a one second look and when I turned back and looked around, she did the same... after following this routine for a month or so, I decided to make the first conversation. I had nothing special to say, but I just wanted to let her know that I'm interested in her. I was still frightened from that sentence, you know... and that caused a lot of trouble.
One day, all of a sudden, I walked beside her in the corridor ( she was walking with one of her friends ) and asked her to listen to my words for a minute. she stoped walking and looked into my eyes. I become blind. i lost my words and started to say bunkum. I told her that I want to say something, but I can't. because it's a little bit hard for me for the first time... she looked again into my eyes and when she was leaving, she said that "it's not necessary to say anything"... i become fed up.
I had her phone number from before. so I wrote an sms and told her how much I love her... I told that this was all the things that I wanted to tell her in the first approach. but there was no reply.
after a week or so, I wrote another sms. romantic and warm. I wrote that I want to give it another try and I asked for her approval. this time, my sms didn't remained unanswered. she replied, but what a reply. she said that i must stop acting like this... she said that she is not interested AT ALL, and my previous SMS has no value for her. she also asked me to stop sending another sms... well, as I know myself, I don't give up easily. but this time, i felt that it's better to finish the game with one last try. i wrote another sms and I said that i feel sorry for acting unseasoned. i also wrote that if she give no answer, I assume the game finished. easy to guess. NO REPLY.
I did what i said. I started to forget all the things we left behind. but I couldn't resolve one thing... if she was not interested AT ALL, why she returned my gazes ? why she flipped for me, when standing a few meters away ? why she was always in my sight, wherever i was ? why she was doing womanish body language all the time ? in class, in yard, in everywhere ?
I couldn't figure that out. so after a month, I sent her another sms. I didn't act like before. I didn't give out my power. I wrote that I must speak with her. I told that the way how we do this is not important. I just want to say some untold and nothing more or less. 3 days after sending this unanswered sms, we participated in an common class. when the class has been finished, there were 6 person remaining in the class. me and 2 friends of mine, and she, and 2 friends of her... the situation was not suitable. so I left the class. but she remained. I stayed beside the class for almost 30 minute. but she didn't came out. so I assumed this as a passport and entered the class...She was sitting alone !! I started up with some ordinary words,but I felt that she's not interested at all. so i did a trick. I asked her that what I should do for now ? I asked this with smile. I tried to be funny and cooky. fortunately she looked at me and said "what ?" she apparently couldn't hide her smile... and we started a long talk... in the middle of conversation, she said that she doesn't want to become friend with a boy. I replied asap, "but I didn't asked you that". she smiled. I continued " what if I ask you to help me on a project?" and she replied with smile " I never ever participate on a project with a boy"... after a minute or two, I asked her if this is a type of one-way love and she said that "There is no DOUBT"... I gazed at her and asked the same thing again. she looked down and said nothing... in the end, she said that I better forget all the things. I asked her for a logical reason, but she had nothing to say. she just called it "something Personal". and we ends up like this... I said goodbye and left the class...
Now, I don't understand. what all this means ? is she still examining me ? Do I did something wrong ? do I have to forget all the things ? should I continue the same things again and again and again ? I'm pretty confused...
Please excuse my bad english. I'm just looking for an advise. I have never wrote a novel like this...
Thanks for all your generosity and attention in advance. (link)
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What a story! Ok, i am a girl and i understand her. I think she really doesn't know what to do. Maybe she doesn't want something with someone this period. But when we avoid someone we are always with others! We don't stay in class... And something else. Smiling and looking at you are good things! But, she said you that she doesn't want neither a friend nor a boyfriend. That means what she says. Well, she might likes you ok. But she doesn't want a relationship right now.
What you should do is to let her. Don't send sms and don't talk to her. Let her a little bit because some girls are like that:When you show them that you don't like them they want you because you make the difference(beautiful girls).
And i think that she needs time, space... Let her and see what she does. Coming where you are?Looking at you? Smiling at you? Then tell her sth. If not, let her and find an other one.Come on! There are a lot of girls out there!I hope i helped...
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Ok, skip the whole. "oh my god, you are so stupid for breaking his heart" stuff. I just need help, I know what I did was wrong.
Ok, first off. I'm trying to get my ex back. I dumped him for another guy, who turned out to be an ass, and i realized what i did was wrong. i miss him a lot and i would do anything to have him back. I have talked to him about this before and he said it was not going to work out. since then we have been good friends, but now im starting to like him again, and he knows. he told me to call him on december 23rd when he gets new minutes on his phone so we can talk about it and i can tell him why i want him back so badly. he is afraid to get back together because he doesn't want me to break his heart again, and i swore on my life i wouldnt. because i won't. i just really miss him and like i dont know if he wants me back or not. im not afraid to call him, just afraid that its going to be a blunt "NO" answer. but why would he make me wait that long for a simple "NO"?
If anyone can help, it would be greatly appreciated. thank you! i give 5s if anyone helps me. (link)
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I think that you are in a difficult position but you deserve congratulations.Why? Because it is a great thing to understand that you was wrong and trying to make things good again.
What you have to do now is to persuade him. It is not easy because i bet that he doesn't trust you that much. But because you are friends now i think that everything will be fine.
Just call him. Tell him that:"I was not the most mature person, i know. I mean not at all mature but i really understood it.I was wrong... It is said that you understand what someone deserves when you lose him. And they are right because honey, when i lost you understood how important you are in my life.And not only that. I understood that you are the only boy that makes me feel perfect. I don't know why i did this stupid thing before. It was like it was not me. I am really sorry. I like you so much. But not only this. I love you very much too. I don't know if you understand me but i swear i will not hurt you again.Why? Because i love you now and when we love someone we don't hurt him. do we? And something else.I think that everyone can have a second chance. Everyone. Will you give a second chance to me sweetie???"
I think that it will be ok. And i think that making you wait is good! I wish i helped! Kisses!
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