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i like this kid that has a girlfriend
i like a kid at my school he's really awesome..we're best friends so we hang out all the time...i love being friends with him but i would realy like to be more..all my friends are telling me he likes me..even people who aren't my friends..teachers at our school and even random people think we are going out..but the problem is..he has a girlfriend...i am pretty sure he likes me and he told his friends he likes me but he won't break up with his girlfriend for me...i'm not exactly sure what i'm asking...i guess i'm not sure if i should tell him i like him or not...i know he won't break up with is girlfriend..but he told his friend that if they do break up he's going to ask me out...i like him a lot.and his girlfriend is getting mad at him because me and him hang out so much..him and his girlfriend have also been on and off a lot so i don't think they'll last very long..sorry this is really long..i don't want to tell him and then ruin are friendship but i'm afraid if i don't tell him then if he breaks up with his girlfriend he won't ask me out...i'm so confused...please help
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well ah this is kinda hard but you dont want to mess up him and his gf because that would be a little mean so just wait til him and her are done they sooner or later will be then go for it ♥
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For now, don't tell him. Just be friends with him. If he does break up with his girlfriend, then i would tell him how you feel. If his girlfriend is getting mad at him for hanging out with you, then he does like you and she knows it. But, like i said, for now just be friends with him and have fun.
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For now, just keep the guy at a friend level. When others talk about him having an interest in you, drop some hints about how you feel about him, but don't drop too many. Say things like, "If he ever asked me out, I would go out with him."; or "I could see he and I dating someday." Don't make it seem as though you are after him. That would cause some major friendship problems.
Be careful getting your hopes set on dating this guy. Remember, the more people you tell you have an interest in him, the more hurt you'll feel if you both don't go out.
When you see a guy you like, you can let him know you are interested in him without saying a word. When you see the guy, look at him, smile, then through your heart, say "I really like you", or "You are so awesome". I can guarantee that you will have a better chance of getting a guy that you are interested in by doing that, than by telling a friend. It's called "chemical attraction" - your body releases a fragrant chemical that attracts guys to women, which works best if you talk through your heart. I don't know what research has been done on that. I just remember learning about that in Biology in college.
Good luck to you. Sorry that I drifted off on a side subject of attraction. I feel like at your age, you could benefit from it more.
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We all have some priorities in our lives, right? His priority is his gf... That's the truth. But i think that he likes you. I mean if you believe this thing and so many people believe the same, you are right. But, the point is that he maybe wants to break up her but don't know how. He maybe doesn't want to tell "WE BREAK UP" but he wants to make her tell this... That is one posibility.
Now, what you should do is to ask him what is going on. If he likes you and what you should do now. Don't tell that you like him before listen that he likes you. If he tells that he likes you mention his girlfriend, if not(impossible but i say IF) tell him that you asked because everyone believes this and because you really want to do something to stop this thing.
I hope i helped you honey...:):):):):):)
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