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did I make the right chose?
I'LL RATE A 5 AND SORRY IT'S A LITTLE LONG .well I'm not allowed to date i'm 14 and my parents found out that i was and for my family it's a big deal and my parents gave me the silent treatment.my sister who is 23 that acts like my mom gave me the silent treatment too.well let me get to the point I broke up with him because I made my mom,dad,and sister cry because I went out with him.I felt bad,my sister called him and talked to him.but the point is I hurt them and I didn't mean to.I really really love him.he's my support,what I need he's always been there for me.he's my best friend I can tell him anything and he would understand.and the worst thing about it is that my mom said I couldn't be his friend or talk to him.this just happened right before christmas brake.I broke up with him on the fon not because i didn't have the balls but because I couldn't live with my self anymore for 2 weeks till I went to school again.when I told him,he cryed and I told him not to be mad and he said y would I b mad I understand.what really hurt me was when he said "what do I do,do I move on".I told him that he should and he said this when he was crying."BUT I DON'T WANT 2, I WANT 2 BE WITH U,I DON'T WANT TO LOOSE U" I love him I cry everyday.did I make the right chose and if I did y does it hurt so much,y do I feel like sh*t. I'LL RATE A 5 JUST PLEASE HELP!SORRY IT'S LONG
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you sound like you really love him if it is making you very sad. i would just go out with him at school and tell him that i cant call you b/c of your parents. if he loves you as much as he says so he will understand hope i helped
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Your family doesn't sound very understanding, and it's all really shitty, but just try to keep in mind that they are your family and they'll always be around, whereas, no matter how much you love this guy, it's never a given that a boy you meet will always be there. Regardless, I know in your situation I probably would have snuck around and dated him anyway if I cared about him so much and I knew he cared about me a lot, and he seems to be really into the relationship. I'm not saying to do that. It's respectable to do what your parents want, but yeah... I just know what's what I'd do.
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in the end even though your family doesnt agree you have to do this for YOU not them for you na dif you liek him so much then you know it will be very hard to move on so you shouldnt just let them tell you what to do i unerstand i realy do but soemtimes you have to do things you knwo that pp dont agree with hoep i helped good luck
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I understand you so much!Don't cry and try to see the possitive thing. That shows that he really loves you, that he really wanted to be with you. Now, i think that you didn't made the right chose. Because noone has the right to make you feel unhappy. I think that your parents did it because they want to protect you(from getting hurted and disappointed)And of course because they think that in our age our relationships don't last and so you are finally unhappy. What i want to say is that they finally made you feel unhappy, not him. The first thing you should do is to let them see that you are unhappy. Do what you feel. And if you want cry in front of them do it... They have to respect what you feel. Afterwards tell them what you think and how he reacted when you told him to break up. If they will continue their "idiot" behaviour, tell them that it is not your fault making them unhappy.On the contray, it is fair, because what they do now is to make you feel unhappy. And tell them that they make you see them not as parents and friends. They make you stop trusting them...
Next go to your ex and tell him what you did and if he would like to be together again without the others know it.Noone else apart from you 2 will know that you are together. NOONE.Not even your best friends.
Otherwise do what your parents tell you. But you have to understand that our life belongs to US. Not to our parents. And that we are teens not little children. They have shown us how to eat, how to read, how to walk, how to behave. They have shown us how to do what we do now. BUT, noone can shows us how to live. We live with our own way and life shows us. Not our sister or our parents. I hope i helped... Kisses.
P.S. S M I L E:):):):)
THIS IS SOMETHING IMPORTANT IN OUR LIFE...
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