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my brother (older by a year) says if I dont get bf IM a loser, his geeky friend on the bus even got one before I did and my little sis did before me too and my lil bro might get one before me too and I have never had my first kiss ither and I really want one too.and I need to know if I want to start a conversation with a guy and how to flirt keep on talking to him.
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dont go and find a guy just let the guy come to you its ok your still youn and trust me you dont want a bf right now.......well good luck
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Not having kissed a boyfriend and not having had a relationship with someone that doesn't mean that you arec a loser. NO WAY! Now i will give you some information i found in a site about flirting and how to start a conversation.
CONVERSATION STARTERS
1What do you think of (a teacher, a class)?
2Who's your favorite teacher at our school? What makes them your favorite?
3Have you always lived in (name of your town or city)? How do you like it here? (Or if they say no:)4 Where did you live before this? What was it like there? How does this place compare with that one? What kind of movies do you like? What is the worst movie you ever saw? Who is your favorite actor/actress? What do you like about them?
5What is your favorite TV show? What is your least favorite?
6Did you catch the Academy Awards, (or that new show, or the game, etc.) last night?
7What kind of music do you enjoy? Who is your favorite performer/group/band? Who do you think is the hottest this year? Do you think they will still be next year? Who do you think is the most over-hyped?
FLIRTING TIPS
1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal or non-verbal clues need to be given. Why? The first time he's going to look around and make sure it's really him that you are flirting with. The second, he knows it's him and he gets flushed and pleased. (At this point he'll probably walk by you and at least smile..he's checking you out a little more.) The third time you can express interest-by introducing yourself, or commenting on his tie, or waving from across the room. Now he knows you are open to meeting and it will be a cinch.
#2: Whisper...it always gets their attention. Ask them if you can tell them a secret...Then whisper in their ear: 'I just love your tie...can I buy it from you when you are done with it?'
#3: Don't sit with other women...men don't want you to reject them in front of an audience. If you do go out with a friend...separate every so often or take a breather from talking...men do not want to risk your disapproval by interrupting you. (You have already missed out on a lot of quality polite men who didn't want to interrupt.)
#4: Treat men gently...If someone you are not interested in approaches you and flirts ...be nice.... All the other men are watching to see what you do. If you laugh after he leaves or show visual disapproval, you are cutting your chances on anyone else approaching you. Try shaking his hand and saying something like: 'It was so nice of you to approach me...what's your name? Tom? Tom, I know how hard it is to meet people...I might have a girlfriend who would be interested in you.'
#5: IF he acts like a JERK! Be polite but firm. Hand him a copy of the men's version of 'Flirting with Greatness' and ask him to go practice on someone else. Firmly say that 'lines' with sexual overtones are not only not attractive to you but to most other women in the world.
#6: Use the Buddy system. Walk through a group of men and have someone watch to see who's checking you out.
#7: Become More Irresistible! Show a little leg....wear higher heels...the redder the lipstick the more available and noticeable you will be. Arch your back a little as you sit up tall and cross your legs high. Wear earrings that are interesting enough to make someone comment on them.
#8: Look over your shoulder...and smile at him. This asymmetrical position is always a signal you are interested.
#9: Give him a look all over from head to toe - nod with approval and then flash him your most winning smile.
#10: Remember that flirting is a way of connecting from the heart and acknowledging someone. Be generous! Have Fun!
I hope i helped. Remember to smile! Boys like it!:):):):)
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The question is are you attractive do you give hints to guys that your the dating type do you ever flirt do you ever care about anything besides your schoolwork here is my advice on flirting:
Smile a lot
Flicker your hair a lot
Rub on a guy kinda but not in the way you think i'm sayin maybe just like on the chest:
Truthfully just do this be yourself don't listen to your brother and end up like a ho tryin to suck up to a guy just for him to be your bf be yourself and trust me trust me trust me trust me trust me the right guy will notice you one day and think your pretty darn cool for yourself.
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Well, if there's a boy you like try flirting with him and like talking to him alot! Maybe he'll start to like you and then it will just happen!!!!
P.S. But if he doesn't flirt back then find a better man! Hope you get your kiss soon!
Love, DiAmOnDsRaGrLsBfF!
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sometimes you just have to be patient with boys. i know its dificult lol trust me but you have to do it if you want a bf. dont listen to your brother because your not a loser your just the type of girl who KNOWS she deserves more than some slob she finds in the hallway. ya know what im saying? first just friendly flirt with them, like take their pen and give a flirty smile and make them get it from you. then do stuff like giving them a playful push and then a hug to say your sorry lol. then you can start the real stuff like giving hugs naturally. then eventualy you will be able to ask someone out. just take it step by step. i wish you the BEST of luck hun!
♥ leah
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aww dont worry youre not a loser because youve never had a boyfriend. everyone gets theirs at different times. just because you havent had one yet doesnt mean youre a loser, it just means a good enough guy hasent come along yet. when your talking with a guy just be yourself! be fun, be flirty, smile a lot. make eye contact. seem very confident (even if youre not at the time, try to act like it) because guys can really tell when a girl is nervous. dont be shy. just have fun with it! i hope this helps you.
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okay well since you want a boyfriend try to go up to any guy you like and say hey keep the conversation going on for a while and be like ok well i have to go but if you want we can sit together at lunch or i'll see you after school maybe. hope i helped!!
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