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hey help please =)
hi! I'd like your help on some questions I have about me and my boyfriend. I am 14 years old going to be 15 in April. He is 16 going to be 17 in February. (freshman/junior) He is a very trustworthy guy who I have been talking to for about 2 months. He is not a virgin and has had sex twice. He is not pressuring me into having sex, but sometimes I feel like I want to(protected of course). I know i'm only 14, but do you think I should just wait? So far we had dry sex with all clothes on and he fingered me. If i should wait for sex, what are ways to make everything more "pleasurable" for me? He seems to be getting a lot more out of it than I do. Sorry if I sound "hoeish" but i'm really not, he is the only guy I have ever even kissed. Please help me, thank you
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Look,You just have to be 1000% sure about it. Is he so souper that you want to have sex with him? Having sex is something really important especially in one girl's life so don't do something without being sure first.
If i were you i would wait. You are with him only 2 months. This is a really short time period to start having sex. Just kisses and things like that are ok for our age...I have to tell you that by having sex now your body changes. Hormones will not be like before because you will want having sex all the time. And your body will change too. It will not be as good as before. Evey thing has to happen at a certain time in our lives. Got it? We have to be really mature and READY. It is also good to LOVE someone. And love is much more than liking someone.
Now what you should do is to make your relationship a little bit more interesting than it is now...Have fun with your friends, don't be all the time alone. Go somewhere together, somewhere to have fun. And generally make your love life a little bit more interesting and change it. Doing new things and especially with the one you like will help you think more these things than sex.
If you are 100000000% sure that you want to have sex with him wait some months and let him ask it from you...Don't do something that you will regret later...I hope i helped...
P.S. Live things that 14-15 girls live. Sex will come in your life later and when you will be really ready you will not wonder if you will do the right thing...:):):)
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