Question Posted Saturday December 17 2005, 9:09 pm
ok i have a huge crush on a guy whois older than me but he said he felt the same way the only problem is he has a gf of 19 months what do i do i really like him alot and he is always fliring with me!i cant live without him i get sad wen i dont talk to him after 1 day plzz help i dont know wat to do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? smile answered Sunday December 18 2005, 5:49 am: Look, i can understand you. It is a pitty liking someone and this one likes you too but you can't have something. My advice is to tell him that you want him to break up with his girlfriend. They are together for so long but if he really likes you he will stop being with her. Otherwise, you can't trust him. He maybe lies or he maybe can do the same thing to you after a relationship. So, tell him to broke up her.
If he will not do that find an other one because he will not deserve your love and YOU. If yes that means that the guy likes you very much and that he prefers you than the others. Be with him and have fun.
I hope i helped!:):):):):) [ smile's advice column | Ask smile A Question ]
Docholliday answered Saturday December 17 2005, 11:37 pm: Don't be offended by what I am about to say. DOn't ever say you can't live with out a boy, thats nuts, And believe me I like guys,a lot, but I will never say I can't live with out one, because it might end up completely not true, however you can say that you really like him. It's just that I don't think people should rely on one person to bring them happiness, happiness is your own decision, and it shouldn't be up to anyone else. I would suggest you talk to him about it. if he wants to be with you he should break up with his girlfriend. Don't let yourself become the other woman, if you know what I mean, unless of course you want to be the other woman, if so then by all means do what ya want. Warning though, if he cheats with you on his girlfriend, who is to say he won't evercheat on you, just keep that in mind. Sorry i wrote so much, but good luck and I hope I helped. [ Docholliday's advice column | Ask Docholliday A Question ]
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