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You could call me a crazy, outgoing, and funny person just because I am!! lol I love to tell jokes but I'm serious if thats the case. I love: dolphins, the color lime green, greenbay packers, football, basketball, running, working out, helping people, getting things done, and many more things!! I have a crush on this guy name Josh O and you might want to know what I look like huh? lol I'm 5' 1" I have long blonde hair & side bangs I also have hazel eyes but anyway thats enough about me what about you!!...
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Location: Oregon
Occupation: High School Student
Age: 14
MSN: blonde42391@hotmail.com
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hey guys. i really do not know what to do so i will explain my story.
last night was a fair thing and i went with this guy i liked named jim. He likes me and he knows i like him. Okay well my really good friend Becca was there and she used to like jim. However, she told everyone like 2 weeks ago that she didnt like him anymore so i thought .. hey if she doesnt than i can.. right?
so last night i was planning on hanging out with him and stuff, and she totally steals him away! the whole time they were away from the group, just the two of them! i was soooo pissed off especially after Becca saw me wave to her and she looked away! I cannot believe how bitchy it was! and now she will not stop leaving him myspace comments and it is getting me really really jealous and upset. I really like this guy jim so idk what to do! should i tell her? i just started being friends with her so im not sure what to do because i dont want it to be awkward between us... someone hellpppp =[
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You should talk to her about it tell her something like this;

you: Becca I need to talk to you about somethng...
you told me that you didn't like Jim anymore but yet your all over him once you get the chance
Becca:
you: If you liked Jim still then why did you tell me you didn't?
Becca:
You: it's not just that, when your with Jim and I try and talk to you, you act like I'm not there why are you acting like this? why didn't you just tell me the truth?

and see were it goes! Of course you can change the words to what you would say!


My ex and i havent been together now for a year.
Him and his gf of a year have broken up now for the 100th time. This is the longest break tho. He has never told me when theyve broken up in the past, except for this time.
We had been talking to each other way before they broke up this last time.
He said that he was surprised that i havent been into his place of employment yet. He always would come into mine with his gf.(never knew why tho)anyways, i did the next night with my gf.
He was joking around with me and saying to my friend, "hey rachel, call me sometime." Then hed give me this stupid grin.
Well, days went on and 1 night while talking to him online, he wanted to hang out with me, then asked me to call him. I did and we talked for 2 hrs. The next night he called me and told me to come into his work. I did and his other ex came in(cant seem to leave him alone) he got mad at her and they argued in front of me. He told her he was taking her back home(after she walked there). I gave him this look, and left. 1 and a half hrs later he called me up saying he didnt want to be with her. So he picked me up and we went to his house. We talked, wrestled, and i gave him a backrub(like i used to do) We cuddled, and he started making out with me. He asked me if he could put it inside me. I said no, and he asked me like 4 more times after that. I kept saying no. After he told me that he still loves me. 2 of his friends kept calling, and i told him to go out with them. He told 1 that he was just gonna go to bed. I told him to hang out with the other 1 and he said ok.
The next day he called and i took him out for lunch (i owed him as a favor a yr ago)an hr later he took me home.(that was saturday)
Sunday night we talked online, but i didnt bring up anything that happened friday night. We always used to talk about that after.
I knew he had a party to go to on saturday night, and i asked him how that went, and he said it was gay. He told me he left at like midnight and went to his "recent" exs to "talk", and then he fell asleep. He said he couldnt even keep his eyes open anymore. He said he woke up at 3am and then went home. I was really hurt inside, but didnt say anything.
I didnt hear from him for 4 days and thats when i called him to wish him a happy thanksgiving. He was invited over to "her" house. He was there again the next night because it was her bday. I called him the following night, and he called me back later saying that i made him realize how much he loves "her".
What a kick in the pants was that?
All i need is every1s opinion. See if it matches up with mine!!!
Thanks!(heartbroken again)
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OMG!!!!! Okay if that happened I would flip out!! I'm really suprised you handled that so well! If that happened to me I would be just as hurt as you are or were. I had a similar thing happen about two months ago and I'm still heart broken not that it's a bad thing but my advice to you is try to keep yourself as busy as you can and keep your mind off of it. It helps me :)




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