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My ex and i havent been together now for a year.
Him and his gf of a year have broken up now for the 100th time. This is the longest break tho. He has never told me when theyve broken up in the past, except for this time.
We had been talking to each other way before they broke up this last time.
He said that he was surprised that i havent been into his place of employment yet. He always would come into mine with his gf.(never knew why tho)anyways, i did the next night with my gf.
He was joking around with me and saying to my friend, "hey rachel, call me sometime." Then hed give me this stupid grin.
Well, days went on and 1 night while talking to him online, he wanted to hang out with me, then asked me to call him. I did and we talked for 2 hrs. The next night he called me and told me to come into his work. I did and his other ex came in(cant seem to leave him alone) he got mad at her and they argued in front of me. He told her he was taking her back home(after she walked there). I gave him this look, and left. 1 and a half hrs later he called me up saying he didnt want to be with her. So he picked me up and we went to his house. We talked, wrestled, and i gave him a backrub(like i used to do) We cuddled, and he started making out with me. He asked me if he could put it inside me. I said no, and he asked me like 4 more times after that. I kept saying no. After he told me that he still loves me. 2 of his friends kept calling, and i told him to go out with them. He told 1 that he was just gonna go to bed. I told him to hang out with the other 1 and he said ok.
The next day he called and i took him out for lunch (i owed him as a favor a yr ago)an hr later he took me home.(that was saturday)
Sunday night we talked online, but i didnt bring up anything that happened friday night. We always used to talk about that after.
I knew he had a party to go to on saturday night, and i asked him how that went, and he said it was gay. He told me he left at like midnight and went to his "recent" exs to "talk", and then he fell asleep. He said he couldnt even keep his eyes open anymore. He said he woke up at 3am and then went home. I was really hurt inside, but didnt say anything.
I didnt hear from him for 4 days and thats when i called him to wish him a happy thanksgiving. He was invited over to "her" house. He was there again the next night because it was her bday. I called him the following night, and he called me back later saying that i made him realize how much he loves "her".
What a kick in the pants was that?
All i need is every1s opinion. See if it matches up with mine!!!
Thanks!(heartbroken again)
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i had something simaliar happen to me , i was with my ex boyfriend for 11months , he broke it off a week after my birthday, then 3months later he texted me, wanting to meet up & get back together but all he really missed was the sex/ Tell him u never want to see him again , because he is a user& a creep/ move on, i know its hard but you can do it ( theres someone lovely out there waiting to meet you )
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well seems like this guy was playng both ends. he should have never messed with your mind like that. he was still messing with her and atempting to be with you and pulled you in his personal hurricane. thats just wrong i hope you will be ok cause i know thats gotta hurt hun . if he breaks up with her again just be sure to shut him out hes not worth it youll get hurt.
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wow. Guys sure have a knack to hurt girls. To me, it seemed like (while i was reading) that he was falling in love with YOU again, not HER. which is weird. But it kinda seems like maybe something happened at her house that changed his mind. Maybe she was playing "hard to get" with him, guys always like that. It makes them want something even more. And he could have been using you to get her back for the break up, since he DID ask you to have sex with him. It seems like he can't make up his mind, and he doesn't know what he wants. I don't know what his problem is, but I hope things work out the best for you.
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he used you. he knew he would get back with the girl, but just wanted to sleep with you before it happened. he asked if he could "put it inside" you, which is pretty lame. that shows that he just wanted to get some while he could. he obviously knew that he could get to you, and he thought that you would be easy. i'm glad that you didn't sleep with him, and i'd say stay away from him while he's single. he's just messing with your head because he knows he can.
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Oh my god! Okay, I'm just going to tell you what I think happened and not lie. I think he used you. I mean if he keeps breaking up with his ex then getting back together, it was obviously going to happen again. I think deep down you still had feelings for him and thats why you went to his house and all that, you made those feelings stronger then once he was done with you he went back to his ex and you got hurt in the long run. It sucks but that is what I think happened. He got bored with one girl, went to the next, then went back. I'm so surprized that you would handle it so well. I would be so sad/mad/every emotion lol. But ya, my advice, don't talk to him at all/or a LITTLE because this whole thing might happen again
Ashley♥
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OMG!!!!! Okay if that happened I would flip out!! I'm really suprised you handled that so well! If that happened to me I would be just as hurt as you are or were. I had a similar thing happen about two months ago and I'm still heart broken not that it's a bad thing but my advice to you is try to keep yourself as busy as you can and keep your mind off of it. It helps me :)
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