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omg...i dont know what to do at all...you see my problem isi knew this boy mike for the longest time(his family is a friend of my family). and back when i hated his guts and actually had a crush on his older brother greg....my brothers and sisters would tease me and make fun of me saying haha, you like mike, you like mike. And i really didnt.well the problem starts now...this time around im like in love with him...it didnt start till early october when he got a job at the carnival i worked at....once we were paired together and i was so happy.We were woking together in a huge basketball game caled longrange...he kept calling my name and going wiatch this and a whole bunch of shit like that before he did a shot like trying to impress me. i kept saying "am i suppoesed to be impressed?" and he was like hell yea each time...even if he missed..well everytime i get up the courage and the chance to ask him out or at least tell him how i feel about him and show him my book full of poems all about him(and the sad thing is i dontwrite poems, i suck at them, my friends said they are really good) he is going out with someone.....most of the time its wih one of my friends....on monday we were hanging out in the hallway with my friend raquele because we didnt want to goto class and he was messing with me and i was like micheal if you keep it up im gona murder you...and he told me then Ariele would murder me bcuz hes goin out with her....shes one of my good friendz...anyway i dont know what to do anymore...i cry myself to sleep and then dream of him...a wake up in the middle of the night and wipe the tears off my face after i dream about him then i have trouble going back top sleep...hes always messing with me and im always messing with him...i just dont know what to do....plz help me...i am so desperate....i rate 5's...
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There isnt really any thing you can do. I had a problem like this with one of my friends also. I told her and she ended up breaking up with him shortly after and she didnt really mind me dating him. So i would tell her you have fealing just b.c if you dont you will lose her as a friend
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ok well as bad as this sounds dont do nething while he has a gf! especially if shes one of your friends i mean all this sort of stuff would start and things like that..plus he would probably be like how can you tell me this now when you know when im with one of your friends? and i doubt that many of your friends would understand how you've been feeling theyd just say that you're not being a true friend.... my advice would be tell him when he gets single and see if he feels the same way back... i dont suggest that you purposely break them up even though you sound like you've realy fallen for the guy hope i helped!!
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You can't do anything until he is single. The next time you know he isn't dating anyone, you need to get it off of your chest. If it is bothering you as much as it seems, getting it off your chest would be much better then crying yourself to sleep over it.
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If you really like him you should tell him but not straight out try to hint it towards him. If he already has a girlfriend then maybe you shouldn't get involved. Maybe you will get your chance eventually. Try not to think about it so much. No boy is worth that many tears...especially when your not together. All I can really say is pray.
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