heyyy pplz hows it goin well this is my advice column hope ya like it nd im not gonna say much bout myself cept i love all my wierdo frnds hehe ask me nething nd ill try my best to help im good at givin advice = )
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I posted a question several days ago about my bf the stubborn jerk who hadn't emailed me for 6 weeks since he moved to another state for a job. Well I took the advice to send him an email to wish him a merry xmas. I sent this email yesterday on xmas eve and was at my moms for the night. I just got back home and checked and was shocked to find that he never responded!! But then I found out that there was a delivery status failure or something so he never got it. I just emailed him another one. Well I guess my question is does that mean that he could have changed his email address and not have told me? I'm positive I sent his email to the right address. And what does that mean when it says delivery status failure?
I'm still steaming that the jerk never sent me anything, not even a bloody email.
Well I'll keep you posted if I hear anything back tonight, I guess there is still a chance that he didnt get my email, but maybe when he gets the second one he sent he'll hopefully respond. (link)
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Hi well if he hasn't emailed you why dont u call him I didnt see your question before so i dont know if you've already called him but why dont u call him tonight or something and then maybe ask why he hasnt emailed you.
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First i wanna say im only 16 but as you may think im moving to fast and i shouldnt be worried so much about guys i grew up really fast and i have been through a lot so im very mature and i know what i want. So please dont tell me to just walk away because of my age thanks. Well i have been with my boyfriend since january 16th of 2005 so almost 1 yr. He is my first love and i do want to stay with him. He is 18 when i got with him he had got out of a 2 1/2 yr relationship which the girl was bad to him and he had a son with her she was only 16 and there baby was 4 months when i first met him. I am very close with his son he even calls me mom. I dont tell him to say that though. My boyfriends family all loves me and my family likes him alot to. At first things were to good to be true but then one day his cousin who is 16 tried doing sexuall things with me when we were at his house and my boyfriend had left to the store. I told his cousin to stop and he did but after wards i didnt know if i shoudl hide it or tell? Well i let a day go by but then the next day it all came out but not from me it came from someone else in the house who was there and i told but i never thought they would tell. His cousin said nothing happened and i told the truth but my boyfriend just kept crying and was so hurt so we broke up and i felt so bad even though i didnt do anything. After that i tried to be really nice and show him i care and we continued to stay friend and we talked everyday and we still were sexually active but we werent together. Well we were both kinda mean to each other because i wanted to be together and he said he didnt. I didnt understand why. Well he then started to go out every weekend and he would call me in the middle of the night. He treated me like i didnt matter. He would say he didnt know me to his friends but then he would take me around his family i was so confused? Still his babys mother had no idea about me and she was always begging to be with him and she was really mean to him to but i couldnt say or do anything because i didnt want him to be away from his son and i wanted to see him to so i said it didnt matter that she didnt know but really it hurt me. Well a little after july we got back together and things got better thank god and we became more nice and close and he stopped going out so much. But still the babys mother didnt know and i hated it so i kept telling him and he got mad well someone told her and it all came out she was mad because i was around her son and because she probley wanted to still be with him but when all this happened i found out he was slepping with her back in may which hurt me bad. He admited it to me and he did it 2 times but she had no idea about me. She then talked to me and things got better we got along but then she would see how close her son was to me and she didnt like it so now she is keeping the baby away from us and his family. My boyfriend sometimes brings up what happened with his cousin to throw it in my face. He dosent know how to ask for things nice or to let things go. He always wants to make me feel bad and make me think i didnt everything but i know i didnt. I try to tell him i love him and i want to get along so where should i start i dont know what to do because sometimes i want to give up and leave him but i dont want to leave his son and family and i love my boyfriend so much. I see him alot but when i do we fight mostly so it dosent make it fun. Thank you i hope you can give me some advice! (link)
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I think you should tell him, if hes treating you badly a lot and you guys fight mostly but you dont want to break up or just move on because you know it'll be hard tell him exactly how you feel and everything you just told me and if you already tried that, it might be better for you to little by little get over him and not fall for him even more so if you realize you do need to break up it wont hurt as much
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Wat do I do?! My boyfriend just left for Dallas and I'm never gonna see him again. But i've thought it over and over again. I didn't really like him. It's all confusing. (link)
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Well he just moved and you dont really like him and you didnt like him so i say just break it off with him but keep in touch if you still want to be friends
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wats up amela i really need your help. you see i been doing more and more drugs latly. iv done them so much that i need them so i can get through the day. i try and try to quit but i cant. iv lost most of my friends and the rest r worried that im gonna kill myself. i want to quit but its so hard plz help me....dan (link)
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Hey well I know how much you've been trying to quit and you cant so maybe you should like go see the counsler and they could help you...I know that probably doesnt sound like much but its all i got so i hope i helped
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OK so im really good friends with this guy, Michael. I have been for 10 years. whenever i talk to him online, hes nice and sweet and hes really funny. But when i see him in person, like at church or w/e, its like he doesnt even know I'm there. My gramma died a month ago, and he asked his priest to pray for me, and his priest gave him a prayer card to give to me. Tonight at church Michael gave it to me and i was like "Awww thanks!" and he was like "It's not from me, its from my priest." idk .. he was being weird. what do yu think this means? why is he acting like this? (link)
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It sort of sounds like michael is shy since you two have been friends for so long and he might be worried about what youd say if he told you how he feels because people who are friends for 10 years (( just friends and not have any other feelings )) wouldnt have problems giving you a card or things like that
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mah friend used to like this kid named billy, she liked him forever but he never liked her back. Now she has a boyfriend and I like billy. She doesnt know, and she still likes billy also. I think that she cant have her cake and eat it too.. since she has a boy friend she should get over billy. what should i do? billy said that he likes me and might wanna go out with me, should i go out with him and for get about mah friend or what?
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I think you should talk to your friend about it ask her what she would think if you and billy got together and tell her you really like billy but if itd bother her that you wont go with him but if you say that most likely shed be like oh its cool if she was a real friend that is dont worry itll all work out in the end it usually does with things like this! (( especially since she has a bf))
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okay i know this might sound like a stupid question, but im not quite sure what it means what does it mean when a guy says he wants to fuck you really badly? is it fingering you or to have sex?
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Its that he wants to have sex with you not finger you
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I took one of my friends to play tennis and he wasnt very good. But the thing that really got to me was that he kept critizing me and telling me what a bad player I WAS!!
I told him that I was just learning to play and was taking lessons. Then he said "what kind of lessons are you taking" and that I was "holding the racket all wrong".
He also said my stamina wasnt very good. What a jerk!! I was nice enough to drive him up to the court and be patient with him even though he was terrible. I may not be a pro but I was certainly better then him.
Well I havent asked him to play since then but he has been asking me if I want to play again.. Should I tell him the truth that I just don't want to play because of how he made me feel?
He also insulted me by saying he bought his wife a tennis racket and that she is "at my level". And I know that is an insult because she isn't athletic at all.
What should I do? And do I have a right to be upset? (link)
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if it was me id be upset thats very mean and you did drive him just tell him you don't feel like playing with him anymore because he critizes too much and if he trys to say anything back or if he does say anything mean back just tell him straight up that he is worse than you are i know it sounds mean but a good friend woudlnt be so critizizing.. hope i helped! (( or suggust that you play with his wife or if you can play teams that way he can't be just mean to you try that and tell me how it goes))
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omg...i dont know what to do at all...you see my problem isi knew this boy mike for the longest time(his family is a friend of my family). and back when i hated his guts and actually had a crush on his older brother greg....my brothers and sisters would tease me and make fun of me saying haha, you like mike, you like mike. And i really didnt.well the problem starts now...this time around im like in love with him...it didnt start till early october when he got a job at the carnival i worked at....once we were paired together and i was so happy.We were woking together in a huge basketball game caled longrange...he kept calling my name and going wiatch this and a whole bunch of shit like that before he did a shot like trying to impress me. i kept saying "am i suppoesed to be impressed?" and he was like hell yea each time...even if he missed..well everytime i get up the courage and the chance to ask him out or at least tell him how i feel about him and show him my book full of poems all about him(and the sad thing is i dontwrite poems, i suck at them, my friends said they are really good) he is going out with someone.....most of the time its wih one of my friends....on monday we were hanging out in the hallway with my friend raquele because we didnt want to goto class and he was messing with me and i was like micheal if you keep it up im gona murder you...and he told me then Ariele would murder me bcuz hes goin out with her....shes one of my good friendz...anyway i dont know what to do anymore...i cry myself to sleep and then dream of him...a wake up in the middle of the night and wipe the tears off my face after i dream about him then i have trouble going back top sleep...hes always messing with me and im always messing with him...i just dont know what to do....plz help me...i am so desperate....i rate 5's... (link)
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ok well as bad as this sounds dont do nething while he has a gf! especially if shes one of your friends i mean all this sort of stuff would start and things like that..plus he would probably be like how can you tell me this now when you know when im with one of your friends? and i doubt that many of your friends would understand how you've been feeling theyd just say that you're not being a true friend.... my advice would be tell him when he gets single and see if he feels the same way back... i dont suggest that you purposely break them up even though you sound like you've realy fallen for the guy hope i helped!!
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Okay, im only 14 and i wanna have a baby SO bad. My parents dont really love me((ive been told)) so i think this would help me alot. i've babysat for YEARS and LOVE children. I wanna feel loved when i come home and a baby would do that, and i think teen moms are closer to their kids. I plan on gettin pregnant in 10th or 11th grade.Am i making a mistake by wanting to do this. (link)
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Ok you have to think about what youd be doing to that kid and what youd be doing to yourself here...youre kind of wanting a kid for the wrong reasons if you get what i mean, babys are adorable but if you have one in 10th or 11th grade.. do you think ur parents will take care of it? what about the guy who got you pregnant? these are al things you have to think about i think you should stick with babysitting and maybe get a pet ya kno like a little dog that you could keep in your house that way wen u get home you have someone who can make you feel loved! i have a doggy nd i always feel better when i come home nd just see him al happy.. i hope i helped
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ok, well i have a REALLY BIG crush on this guy, lets call him dan. well i wanted to know if you guys think he has a crush on me. ok, well, everytime i look at him he is looking back (sometimes i see it out of the corned of my eye) and then today in PA (sewing) my tetcher said my name wrong because she has trounle pernouncing it and i wen to correct her but dan corrected her for me (i sit at the table behind him) and when my table was talking about birthdays and i said mine, he looked back and it looked like he was memorizing the date.
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ANK
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hey welll it sounds like he does like you or is interested so maybe you should start talking to dan some more see if he really does nd give him some like hints that you really like him nd wanna get together he'll prolly get it nd ask so good luck! hope i helped
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heyy i need help!!!
i really really like my boyfriend a lot i would do nething for him but i dont think he feels the same way about me. i think he still has feelings for his ex and is only going out w/ me to get over her. everytime i try talking to him about this he changes the subject to something else. i was thinking about breaking up w/ him but its sooo hard b/c i like him too much but i dont wanna get hurt at the same time. i feel like i wasting my time on him.
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hey well i think pretty much any girl whoz been in a reletionships felt that way but if uve already tried talking nd he keeps changin the subject just be like its important nd i dont want you to start talkin about somethin else now do you feel the same way for me or not? i get its gonna be hard but it\'ll be worse if you fall for the guy and he doesnt even care so he starts lying that he does..well i hope i helped if that doesnt work ask again nd ill try to be more helpful or if you have neother questions im here for ya
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