mah friend used to like this kid named billy, she liked him forever but he never liked her back. Now she has a boyfriend and I like billy. She doesnt know, and she still likes billy also. I think that she cant have her cake and eat it too.. since she has a boy friend she should get over billy. what should i do? billy said that he likes me and might wanna go out with me, should i go out with him and for get about mah friend or what?
TinkerbellsHelp answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 9:20 pm: Well.. if your friend has a boyfriend, then she really can't date Billy without breaking up with her bf or being a jerk. If Billy likes you, and you like Billy go for it. But I must remind you that the rule is "dont date your friends ex" so if you do go out with Billy, your friend might not like you anymore. But what you really need to think about is whats more important to you: a guy who could last a few weeks or a friend which could last for a few years? Me personally would go with the friend.
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xOx_BabiGrl_xOx answered Tuesday December 6 2005, 7:11 pm: I think you should talk to your friend about it ask her what she would think if you and billy got together and tell her you really like billy but if itd bother her that you wont go with him but if you say that most likely shed be like oh its cool if she was a real friend that is dont worry itll all work out in the end it usually does with things like this! (( especially since she has a bf))
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hershikissescanhelp answered Monday December 5 2005, 10:09 pm: to start off with, you have to tell your friend about the feelings you have for billy. if your friend has a b.f. and still has feelings 4 this other guy why is she even going out with him? DON'T 4 GET ABOUT YOUR FRIEND! you should go out with him. ***hershey wishes hugs and kisses***
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xOViLLYxO answered Monday December 5 2005, 7:30 pm: woah well okay dont hide anything thats the worse you can do .. and you CANT help your feelings for someone so just talk to your friend and tell her how you feel and if she is a true friend she sould understand ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
icey0990 answered Monday December 5 2005, 7:22 pm: "she cant have her cake and eat it too"
^ i definately agree with you...man i know how you feel...girls thinking they can take up 2 parking spots!
well anyway, i think you should go for him because she does have a boyfriend! it would be a little different if she didnt have a bf..if she was single i would talk to her about it first..being that shes with a guy, i would go out with him. [ icey0990's advice column | Ask icey0990 A Question ]
thecarsdownthehill answered Monday December 5 2005, 7:00 pm: remember that friends will most likly last longer then boyfriends, and you never know she may be perfectly fine with the idea since shes wrapped up in her own relationship, if you just talk to her first. tell her that you like him and that he likes you, and ask her how she would feal if you guys went out.
helpachick answered Monday December 5 2005, 6:58 pm: hey! well i think that if your friend has a b/f that she is happy with then she would have no problem w/ you going out with billy. but just to make sure ask her and talk things over w/ her. good luck!
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karenR answered Monday December 5 2005, 5:53 pm: She may like Billy but he evidently doesn't feel the same about her.
If you two like each other then you go for it. She gave that up when she started dating someone else.
I don't think she will be to vocal about it unless she wants her current boyfriend to dump her anyway.
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