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confuzelled
Recently i met this guy called craig... and we went out . but then he had a nervous breakdown and got really depressed and started cutting himself and he dumped me after we had only been going out for two weeks! and he was going on about how he didnt know if he loved me and all thats stuff. Then after his depressive stage he came back to me saying how sorry he was and that he had chnaged and that some how he wuld show me that he cared etc. As stupid as i am .. i agreed and this was only on Tuesday, and everything was fine and he usually goes on msn for me all the time or texts me. But since Thursday i havent had one text even though i have text him and he hasnt been online... im scared that ive got my self into something i shouldnt again, and he doesnt actually like me
im so confused!!! please help iz he for real or is he messing around with me????
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I really don't know because I don't know this guy. But I suggest calling him. Ask him whats up, seem casual. Don't look desperate. But maybe casually ask him why he didn't text you back. And if he keeps it up, dump him. He's not worth your time.
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you have to help him out too since he seems to be going through this strage just help him out maybe he has sports and stuff like that and doesnt have time so just CALL him and talk to him about how you feel, but dont be to hard on him cus he prob still might be a little depressed so just take it easy and dont worry ♥
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You're fine darling it's this guy who is confused. Don't hold it against him too much, he clearly isn't at a place right now in life where you can take anything he says too seriously.
I mean, really, after two weeks he was spazzing about love? Then cutting? Dumping you and then insisting he'd changed so quickly? This is not someone who is trying to mess you around and he isn't for real either, he just isn't in touch with reality.
Stop worrying about how he feels for you and take a look at how you feel for him. You are going to have to ride his emotional roller coaster if you keep seeing him and always be at the mercy of his moods. Is he really worth that?
You can't save him either, no matter what he feels for you. So consider your own wellbeing first.
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How about....if you're texting him, instead of typing to him.......actually call him. Could work. Might just do the trick, actually.
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Well try talking to him and if he doesnt want to talk then just leave him i mean who would want to go out with someone who doesnt want anything to do with you? well
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Sweetie, I'm sorry that you haven't already realized this on your own, but you need to get rid of him. He isn't for real. He's probably into a stage where he doesn't know what he wants. Find someone who is theirself and doesn't feel the need to take out their depression on you.
There are better ones out there I promise
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