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Member Since: December 6, 2005
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Last Update: December 15, 2005
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umm ok. i ALWAYS like someone. and i feel slutty..
so lately ive been trying not to like anyone. but lately ive been starting to like someone that i dont really talk to. but like ive known him for a while. hes soo cute and popular so i dont really think i have a chance. im trying not to like him cause i feel kinda slutty cause i like someone all the time. im not like NOT popular cause idk anyone that hates me and people think im pretty and funny and all that but i just dont think i have a chance with this guy. but latley ive been getting these looks from him in the hall. like if he see's me, he stares for like 5 seconds then we keep walking past each other. what do i do? stop likeing him cause i dont want people to think im a slut? like him and let him no? secretly like him and not tell anyone?
WHAT DO I DO>??!?!

signed,
soo confussed
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aww.
yah i think you should keep it a secret and keep kinda flirting w/ him like wen you walk in the hall if he looks at you for five sec.s than your looking at him too. so he nos you look at him for that long so keep doing that and then like flash a cute smile. dont like scare him but like after a few times you see him in the hallway do it then later mayb say hi and if hes in any of your classes try to like go over where he is and kinda get to no him but just dnt be like hi how r you yah so wht sport do you like! ect. hah. but just take it slow dnt jump right out and smile and ask him stuff. dont call yourself a slut babe. i like someone all the time to haha i think every1 does.

love yuu


ok one of my very very very very good friends is gonig out with some1 i like! and only one prson nos and that prosn doesnt think they(my friend and the guy) should be gonig out and i really like him and i dnt know what to do casue i went out with some1 she use to liked but ya should i jstu wiat till they brake up or should i jsut give up or wahtt


hellpp mee

signed iam in love with some1 iam not suppost to like

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hey.
Yeah i think you should just wait till they break up. if ppl think they shoodnt be together it wont last long.

love you

morgie--


i think u no who this is but..
im really different around school but im so ME at home. i dont know how to show people the real me. two people told me im too quiet at school and so like hyper online but i dont no how to change that..
like im not shy around people, i just dont wanna get annoying. i feel lost at school cuz im friends with popular people but im just not..i just really wanna show people who i REALLY am..

signed,
lost (link)
okay. yeah i no hoo this is :-). and i no we have talked about this to eachother, but i no how you feel. casue thats kinda w/ me too. i dont wanna say something wierd or be annoying like you said, but on AIM i can erase somthing b4 i send it if its stupid lol. so yah i no its hard but just try to be yourself and don't be afriad to be yourself. i mean we are hoo we are. so just try to be yourself and try not to be shy.

i no im working on that now too. hah



i have naturally tanned skin and i'm doing my first show.I will be performing dances from disney movies.
my dance teacher said we have to wear lip stick and eyeshadow above the eyelid.any ideas for colour schemes coz without them lipstick sounds pretty granny-like.
p.s. i'm 13 so don't go overbooard on anything and any other make up suggestions to look a bit different would be appreciated!!!
i rate 5's (link)
well it depends on the color of your eyes BROWN- probly like more peach and tan and bron and nutral colors BLUE ( like me)- like pink and purple and bright colors that will make your eyes stand out more (


well ok here it goes well i really like this guy right and so i found out hes going out w/ one of my best friends... she doesnt know that i like him... but i want 2 tell her..but i dont know what to do

plzplzplz help!

signed
i like my best friends boyfriend
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okayy.. well i have been in this situation before and i no it sucks balls. haha. ok well i no it\\\'ll be hard but you\\\'ll just have to wait a while. untill they break up. if they aren't a good couple then it might happen soon but if they are a good couple then u might have to wait a while. but sooner or later they will break up. Haha i know that kinda sucks to be like yah now when are they gonna break up? lol. but then after a little while after they break up ( not to short of a time wait like 1 week or so) and start flirting with him and beeing nice. then maybe he will start to like you. and one day ask you out. :-)



Hiii guys (link)
yes it is true. they havent decided for a divorce yet, but i think for now they are taking a break. so yeas they are over but not yet divorced



My boyfriend and I have been dating for one and a half years. He still has his exgirlfriend's engagement ring in his drawer. When I ask him what he is going to do with it he just tells me he don't know. He says, "what should I do with it?" I am sick of looking at it. She has caused so many problems for us. I just want the ring to be gone. He says he doesn't want to just give it away because it cost too much money. At this point I am ready to throw the piece of metal in the dump. What would you suggest to do with it. (link)
sell it to a jewlry shop or pond shop. so he can get his money bak and be happy and so can you by having it gone :-)!




morgan-- idk what to do...... i think all my friends think i am reallyyy weird and they dont like my n e more.. soo idk what to act like?!?
how should i change! they are all sooo pretty!
and i am not........i dont no what to do!! HELP PLEASE!! love u!!

--not like them--

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okayy.. well if your friends think you r wierd than they really arent your friends.. i mean friends love you for hoo u r. and well if you arent pretty (which i bet you r


So my bestfriend is turning 17 Dec. 17th and I was planning on throwing him a suprise party. I already have everything all planned out and I already invited everyone! So everything is basically ready.


Well, last night his mom called me and told me that she didn't want me to throw him a party because she didn't want to pay for it. His parents are buying him a new car for his birthday since he had to get his older brothers car when he had first got his license. Since they were gettign the car, they don't want to speand any more money.


I told her that it wasn't a problem because I was going to pay for everything and she didn't have to worry about it. I was never even planning on asking then to pay for it.


Food isn't a problem because my mom already agreed to buy the food for us. Neither is alcohol becuase everyone always chips in to pay for that. And we already have decorations and stuff left over from past parites. And itisn't liek we have to pay for music.


I told her all of this and she still said she didn't want me to throw one becuase she'd fell like she was supposed to pay for it. How can I convince her that she doesn't and to let me throw him a party?? (link)
tell her you will pay for everything and that she doesnt have to do anythin. then mayb she will get convinced that you cann do it and it wont cost her anything< and tell her that to. tell her you just want to be a good friend and thro a party for your friends b-day!



okay i have cut myself in the past and kinda still do...i am anorexic and get upset easily...when my mom found out i was cutting she said "Dont be a stupid f***"...and i asked to see a therapist and she said i dont need to..she jus doesnt understand...i dont know what to do...i am so anorexic ive lost my period and i am starting to cut again ((along with suicide poems)) and i obviously cant ask her...school counselours dont work..i've tried..please help! (link)
Okay well you just need to think about the good things in life. I don't mean to sound like ur mom, but like don't be so negitive and try not to think about cutting yourself. Try to eat more and stay healthy and see a doctor for anerexia.





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