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The names Sammy. I'm 16. 5'0" & 96 pounds. Homeschooled & in the 11th grade. Live in the beautiful state of North Carolina. I loove Hollister & Pac Sun, they are like the best stores ever invented. Smoothies are my anti-drug, haha.


I enjoy helping people- so ask whatever you feel like, no matter what it may be & I'll try my best to help you :)


By the way, I've learned not to take things in life for granted. Always remember that. ♥


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I recently found white stuff in my vagina...gooey stuff..any ideas?????

It's called discharge & it's perfectly normal. It usually means that you're gonna get your period soon..

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does anyone know what kind of swimsuits are in for this seaon/upcoming season? thank you.

Stripes.
Polka Dots.
Bright Colors.
They have cute ones at american eagle, hollister, pac sun, aeropostale, & abercrombie. :)

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Hey, this may be an odd question, but healthwise, is Iced Tea bad/good for you? I really like it and I was hoping it was better than drinking soda because I got too used to drinking that. So, I know it's only like 70 calories, but can anyone give me an idea here??

Yeah it's def. a lot better than soda for you :) Thankfully!

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hey. i was wondering how it was like being homeschooled.. like dont you ever get bored and do you have any friends? no effence. and howd you meet your boyfriend? would you rather be in school? thanks

Yeah, I get bored all the time.. but regular school can get boring sometimes too. I was in public school up until my sophmore year in highschool, so yes I have friends.. I don't see them as much as I used too, but we still talk every now and then. I met my boyfriend through a friend of mine & then we talked on the internet/phone, etc. Sometimes I would like to be in school because I miss all the things that went on there.. but it wasn't really my choice to be homeschooled, some things happened & it's just something I had to do- no choice about it. It's a lot easier to do your work though because you don't have a certain amount of time to get it done, it's just whenever you want.. and it's not as much work as a regular school. I don't really know what to say about homeschooling- but if you personally are thinking about considering, I'd say.. stay in school unless you just hate it or something. :)

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should you blow dry your hair before you straighten it er let it dry naturally??

thanks!!

Personally, I think it looks better if you blow dry it then straighten it because the results turn out more straight & it's less frizzy. :)

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i heard somewhere that when you have your period you could lose weight..is that true?? cus that'd be pretty awesome haha =)

thanks!!

Nope, that's not true at all. Usually you gain weight during your period or just feel like it because your stomach can get bloated. You're also a lot hungrier during that time and are gonna eat more. I know.. it sucks.

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how do i delete my toolbar history?

Follow these steps:
-Go to Tools at the top of your internet explorer.
-Scroll down the menu & click on Internet Options.
-Near the bottom of the box that pops up, there should be a button that says "Clear History" click that.

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i have to get a physical for next year or else i cant go to school.. by the way im going into 10th grade. and the thing is, i wanted to know what the doctors do during a physical, thanks!

Basically they check your weight, blood pressure, your back/spine, heartbeat. They can also prick your finger to get some blood, to make sure everything is okay.. like to make sure you aren't anemic or something, but that only takes a second & doesn't hurt at all. Some places also make you pee in a cup to make sure you aren't pregnant & to test for like urine infections and so forth. Also, if you haven't had all the shots you're suppose to have.. you could also get those. It's nothing major to worry about though- it doesn't take long at all to get a physical & it's not scary. :)

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Okay so im 15/f and ive got stretch marks on my upper thighs and hips and also on my bum and i wanted to know if there is anything i can get to fade them? i no i cant make them dissappear forever but i just want to make them less visable

can any one help? also im from the UK ENGLAND

Coco Butter Cream is what I recommend because it's not that expensive and you can pretty much find it at any drug store. After a period of time, they should be less visable. :)

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I am overweight (13 yrs old, 5ft 4in, and 140 lbs) so I use a bathroom scale to check my weight 2 times a day, in the morning and in the evening. Why is my weight different at those 2 times of the day? How do I know which one is telling the truth? Are any of the scales telling the truth? Because one time I went to the doctor and I weighed more on that scale than on the one I own at home. Why are these weights all different? How much do I really weigh? Help me please! What should I do?

I've always heard that your correct weight is in the morning times. You weigh different in the evening because you've eaten things that day, etc. But, when you wake up in the morning.. all your food has been digested and you basically have an empty stomach. Doctors scales are more accurate because they are more expensive & so forth.

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My friend likes someone and I know who it is. I want to tell other people, but I'm afraid to tell other people who they like because they might get mad at me and we might not be friends anymore. So should I tell other people or should I keep it to myself?

No, don't tell anyone. The reason she even told you who she liked was because you are her friend and she trusts you.. if you tell people who she likes, then she might not be able to trust you with things ever again.

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how can you ask your boyfriend for money without him thinking you are a golddigger?

Well, just tell him what it is you need the money for and don't do it very often. I mean like, don't just ask him for money and then go spend it on clothes or something like that.. use his money for useful things, like something you really need. :)

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well im going on vacation very soon to a place very warm where we'll be swimming and such. around that time my period is due..i dont use tampons..what should i do?thanks

Well you're in a bad situation and that sucks. but, really the only option you have is to just wear a tampon because otherwise, you just won't be able to swim unless you want to have the chance of getting blood on your bathing suit and being embarassed.

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Hi, i was wondering if it it possible to miss a period? Ive been very active in sports this month and im a week late on my period. Thanks

Yeah, it's possible. If you're active in sports.. you're likely not to get your period or be late sometimes.

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do guys prefer for a girl to fake an orgasm if they don't get one during sex?

Noo, don't do that. Most women don't even have an orgasm during sex in the first place. And, the whole point to sex isn't all about making sure you have an orgasm. If he later found out you faked it, he would probably feel really bad & then begin to wonder weather ANY of the orgasms he "thought" you had were real..

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Is it uncommon for a 13-year-old girl to want love?

No, it's not. There's a lot of girls out there that want love that are your age as well as people younger and older than you. Don't try to find love though, it will come to you ♥

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Is it underweight for a 5"2 13-year-old girl to be 87 lbs?

It's a little underweight, but nothing too major or to be freaking out about. Just make sure that you're eating normal and everything should be fine. =)

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hey i just wanna know if iam not a virgin will my husband know on the wedding night??? is there a way for him not to know?

Nope. He would probably be able to tell that your hymen has been strecthed/broken but that can be from other things like fingering, tampons, sports, etc. so he wouldn't know exactly what caused that to happen. Plus, I'm sure he'd believe you if you're telling him you're a virgin since you are marrying him.

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what is this song?

let the rain fall,
i dont care,
im yours and suddenly youre mine,
its brighter than sunshine



please help :]

The song is called Brighter Than Sunshine & Aqualung sings it.

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When you buy an iPod, do you have to buy the earphones seperate or do they come with it?

Yep, they come with it. iPODS are awesome :)

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