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preference?
do guys prefer for a girl to fake an orgasm if they don't get one during sex?
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most guys feel like they are not a satisfying sexual partner if the girl doesn't get an orgasm, so faking one can help his feelings. but if he finds out that it was faked, then he could become more upset.
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im pretty sure they would want you to not fake it...it makes them try harder next time to give you one or if you fake it they wont ever be able to completely give you one if thats where they believe is how long it takes you and so on its best for you to not fake it
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sorry i wouldnt know bc im a lesbian. sorry for no advice but do u have a sister?
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If you have to fake you have to fake. I've done it- lots of people have. A lot of men find it intimidating or insulting if you can't get it and most women don't every time. So if you have to then do it. Just make sure you're good at fakign lol
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It depends on the guy. Some guys like the moaning and such and they don't mind if it's fake. It's like a favor you can do him. It can be very difficult for women to achieve orgasm and some women can't at all. If a guy is this type of guy he may ask you to do it for him while you're having sex. If you're uncomfortable with it just tell him no. If you are okay with it then go for it. It can't do any harm and he will really like it. Since he asked you to he'll know it's fake, which is important. If the guy is not this type of guy he'll probably get very upset if you fake, so never do it if you're not sure. I think what you should do is after sex have a little chat with him about it. If you're comfortable enough with him to have sex with him that means that you need to be comfortable enough with him to talk about it. Figure out what he likes and tell him how you feel about it and VICE VERSA. If you're going to be fake moaning for him you deserve something in return! Don't forget that sex comes with lots of responsibilities and sometimes consequences. It's very important to use protection and to think about the emotional effects that sex can have in you and in your relationship. I hope everything works out for you and good luck!
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No don't !
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Noo, don't do that. Most women don't even have an orgasm during sex in the first place. And, the whole point to sex isn't all about making sure you have an orgasm. If he later found out you faked it, he would probably feel really bad & then begin to wonder weather ANY of the orgasms he "thought" you had were real..
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I don't see problem with faking. Most of us think the girl moaning in porn movies is for real when its so obvious she's faking, so no harm no foul. Too many guys try and do the jackhammer action they see in the movies without really knowing how to make a girl moan.
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No it hurts their pride if they find out. But if you've done it already don't beat yourself up. Every girl has at some point.
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I would def. *NOT* fake an orgasm.. Well they can`t get better if you do that.. And you want it to be good for him just as well as yourself.. Try different positions different things.. You`ll find what you enjoy trust me.. Also my guy friend found watching porn helped him to please his partner..So if you feel comfortable doin that you can give that a try maybe watch it with that guy *you might learn new things too.. ♥ Dez
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No, they don't.
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well, let me put your question into different situations.
would you prefer someone to laugh at your joke instead of saying they don't get it, making you think that you're good and go on embarrassing yourself? would you like your friend to say she loves your outfit even though it's hideous, causeing you to go out in public and have others laugh at you? would you like it if you cooked a dinner for your family and put way too much salt in it, and they pretended it tased great so that your feeling don't get hurt?
seriously consider how these things would make you feel, and you'll know how the guy will feel.
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If you fake it they will never get better is my opinion.
Its kind of like rewarding them for something they didn't do.
The few I've asked said they would be really mad if they found the girl was faking. They would rather know what you like so you don't even think of faking it. :)
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