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I like my 'sister'
Okay heres the deal. I met this girl at school, and she is in 11th grade. I'm in 9th. Anyways Shes really nice and we talked and stuff, eventually she decided to call me her 'brother'. And well the other night I went to a concert with her.. and well I realized that I like her.. and i don't know what to do because If i ask her out or something she might think i'm weird because were 'siblings'. also, she will graduate after next year.. If we do get into a relationship will it even work? And i'm afraid that if we to end up going out and something happens between us. I might lose one of my best friends.
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I'd say, just be friends because you guys can always hook up later in life as long as you keep in touch constantly, I mean I'm sure she's gotten some vibes that you like her by now, but the age difference might be a little odd for her since it's like literally dating a little brother
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don't do it. just be friends. don't lose her. you're too young (in my opinion) hope i help! ~*~*Lynne*~*~
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Dear Bro,
I don't at all want to sound mean but a friend of mine broke up with a boy because she thought of him more like a brother instead of a boyfriend. So i would probably suggest to hold back on that one because first of all she's in 11th grade and your in 9th grade that's a big difference if you think about it and I think that you should try to find someone your own age who won't be leaving you in a year.
much love,
bubblesamin
p.s. if you need any more advice ask me at my column.
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You only live once, so i'm told. With that being said there are those of us that are willing to risk it all for just a small portion of true well being and those that rather stay in a comfortable place not to disrupt things. You need to evaluate the whole thing. Is it going to be worth it to you, if you make this declaration and it doens't work, or changes things. If you can deal with that yourself then I think you are ready to let her know. If you aren't sure, as you have so many questions with things in this post, I'd say let it be. Take what you can get from the relationship you have now. To some something is better than nothing at all.
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