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walker the stalker!
yea hey everyone! ok there is this guy named walker, real sweetheart. he does nething for me and he helps me all the time but...here comes the weirdo part...he wont leave me alone. he calls me 24/7 texts me 24/7 and i cant take it anymore. the guy i like (nikk, you might want to read my other question about him) likes me alot and he is starting to get a little unencouraged on wanting to date me! and it will be all walkers fault and i feel so bad cuz he just wants to make me happy but were just not supposed to be together. how to i tell him to back off without using that phrase? someone help me get rid of walker the stalker! much love<3kate
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hey hun. i have actualy been in a similar situation just recently. you just have to tell him how you feel, maybe tell him you think hes a great person and that your glad your friends that way when you tell him to "back off" he wont take it as something as harsh. yeah it will still hurt his feeleings. but make sure you really make an effort after it to show him you want to be freinds. as for nikk, just maybe tell him of the situation that way he knows that your just trying not to hurt walker. anyways good luck and hope i helped. : )
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Well really there is no way to not hurt him, your gonna hurt him. But there's ways to hurt him less. First of all, do it to his face. Show him that you at least respect him enough to tell him to his face. And just explain to him how you really appreciate everything he does for you and how nice he is and how great of a friend he is.. but that's all you want to keep it at. Is just great friends. Then he might back off on all the calling. If he doesn't, you'll also have to explain that to him too. Just tell him you need some private time every now and then and you can't always have that with him calling all the time. The truth sucks sometimes, I know, but you gotta be honest. =/ I hope I helped.
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Hey there! The best thing to do is to tell him how you feel. Go up to him and tell him straight-forwardly that you appreciate his kindness, but all you want to be is just friends. Rememeber to be honest, and don't hold back on how you feel. I was in the same situtation before, and my friend understood how I felt. I wish you the best of luck. Take care always...
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you might want to be be straightfoward to walker about what youre thinking. maybe tell him you appreciate his friendship, but youre just not interested in taking it to another level. it sounds like he really has a thing for you, so there is a possibility it could hurt his feelings. dont let that detere you, its better he knows what youre really thinking than for him to have the idea that all his helpfulness is actually scoring him points, thus giving him a false hope.
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