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Secrets
This "tell your secrets" thing is going around my school and well just read this--
SECRETS…YEAH SECRETS:
Ok you guys!! To participate in this you must be a SENIOR at******** High School and you have to be involved in one or more of the following school activities: Drill Team, Football, Basketball, Cheerleading, Baseball, Wrestling, Volleyball, and Golf! If none of that applies to you then tell the person that sent it to you and DO NOTHING ELSE!!
*Once you get this—pick a number and type one of your secrets that you don’t think anyone knows.
*When you are done, send it to ONE other person. ONLY ONE!! NO MORE THAN ONE!! That means that only one person should be doing this at a time. Otherwise, it won’t work out right.
These are a few that I read that really suprised me about relationships:
3. i want to ask out one of my best friends, but it wood be weird, even though we always talk about how good a couple we'd make, but nonetheless i don’t know if he/she feels the same way and i don’t know what to do so I just ignore it
18 i cheated on him but broke up with him when I found out he cheated on me—he still doesn’t know about my cheating
25. I don't like my boyfriend at all. We constantly argue and we can't stand each other. But everyone thinks we 'belong' to each other; including our paretns. Just becasue we come from the same side of the tracks and have the same backgrounds we have to be togeher. We just can't seem to end it. I WANT OUT
29 i've had sexx with 13 guys--my boyfriend thinks he's the only one. i do love him though...
42 My Girlfriend Makes Me Want to Kill Myself. I Dont Know Why We Are Together
54 even though she fucks with my mind breaks my heart and shows no signs of caring for me i stick by her loyally and she has no idea how much i care for her. but at the same time i feel im kicking myself in the teeth and crushing my own heart because i know ill never have her
130 The pain in my life prohibits my ability to love, so she'll never know just how much I really do care.
149 I am still in love with my ex-boyfriend. Even though I tell my current boyfriend I love him, who I'm cheating on with someone else. But no one will ever replace him so why try.
I couldn't believe what I was reading for most of these. Why can't we just be honest with ourselves and with our partners? I know I'm not completely honest myself but why is it so hard?
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People are weird like this. They can be the most cruel yet the most caring all at the same time. Most people just think that by staying with the person it'll make it easier on the person adn make that person happier. Nobody thinks of how miserable it'll make them in the long run. Not alot of people think ahead, and thats a bad quality cause really what they thinks helping someone, could be making it ten times worse for someone in the end. People were just born this way and sadly will probably always be this way. Love is just a very kooky, strange, messed up thing. Some people tend to think with their emotions, while others think with their heads. The ones that think with they're emotions can just get hurt over and over but they don't care because they just care for someone so incredibly much and never want to leave them. But the people that think with their head usually wind up alone because they think ahead of every relationship and decide it's not going to last and end it. And there's those other people who want to be able to do things with other people ( like have sex and things ) and in the end know they'll come back to a person that truley cares for them and loves them. Like I said.. love's weird. Some people also just feel the need to be loved, even if they don't love that person back. Some people out there in the world just want to know that they are loved no matter what and always will be loved. Nobody can truly be honest with themselves because basically.. the truth and reality of everything sucks and nobody wants to face it and deal with it. And also even if they have to make it so hard.. they think it's b etter than actually dealing with it head on.
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I think its becasue people cant always get what they want they cant make a cake and eat it too. So in order to get what they was they have to lie, cheat, steal, and all that other stuff just to make themself happy. Sometimes people cant be honest with themself because they are scared, scared of what will happen when they are.
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What I learned from life is no one is perfect. When I was younger, I had a hard time staying in a relationship because I would always find something wrong with that person and pick at it or found someone who I thought would be better. The truth is we're all human beings and we are tempted to make mistakes all the time. Breaking up with my ex and the course of events following was a boot to my face and I went into this huge phase where I just reflected on everything. It's made me realize that when he got jealous it just meant he loved me and when he was late picking me up he was coaching a little league team. I got angry at all the little things and I didn't know how much I was hurting him. I was so broken down by the time I realized all this and by then it was too late and that was the day Mark left. It takes time for us to be honest with ourselves. For example, my relationship with my mother had always been tumultuous. So I reflected on my relationship with her. I didn't want to be the first to call her up and just confess everything, but my curiosity of her past got the best of me. What I've found out is she's had a rocky relationship with my late grandmother who had anger problems (because of which she stayed in a psychiatric hospital for almost a year) and there was much abuse in her past. I learned as much from her as she did from me. Since then, she is my best friend. :)
Many of us has had horrible relationships but no matter what the case, it can be healed by understanding and to understand you have to be completely selfless and be able to admit your mistakes. I'm still working on the man that helped me realize all of this.
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I don't know why it's so hard. I guess it's because we want everything to be perfect so we pretend it is. We don't want to bring anything up that will ruin our, what seems like to every one else, perfect lives so we keep it to ourselves.
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