i hope i can help a lot of people with there problems cuz i have problems 2 and most of the time i understand the way other people feel. just about all of my friends turn to me for advice so i might as well help out other people also.
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i would go out with anyone who asked me right now cuz iv never had a bf.
I feel really desperate and i don't want to be. yeah, i want a bf but one i actually like. I obsess with guys but I am not gorgeous so no one likes me like that.
advice>? (link)
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i used to feel the same way. i thought i would never get a boyfriend i was shy and everything. bu then i stopped worryin about it and looked at the bright side. im sure u know that a lot of guys are players and u wouldnt want to fall in love with one of them and get your heart broken. think of it as a good thing. you will get a boyfriend soon. trust me. guys are all over me now and i have a boyfriend. your time is coming trust me.
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im a 13 year old female.
me and my best friend have been fighting alot lately and we have been getting on eachothers nerves alot, and when we are at church, we basically ignore eachother until i have to take her home and i really dont want to loose her, she is my bestie and i consider her my 2nd sister. and if we like werent friends anymore, then my real sister would be upset cuz my sister only likes my best friend, she hates all of my other friends and i just dont know what to do anymore, but this kinda happened to my sister and her best friend and they are still friend but the thing that they did was they too a break from eachother and didnt hang out for about a week and they didnt really talk or anything and now they are just fine but they know now to not hang out as much as they use to and im not sure if thats what me and my bestie should do. (link)
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since your 13 your probably in middle school or maybe your a freshman. in these years you lose lots of friends and you gain lots of friends too. the people who are true will stay and they wont git on your no matter how much you hangout with them. if shes gittin on your nerves talk to her about it. tell her some of the things she does annoys you. she'll understand if shes a true friend and she'll try not to git on your nerves. hopefully i helped.
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i am hanging out w/ my bf 2morrow
he always talks about how he loves sex and everthing leading up to it..
hes tried stuff with me before but i have always turned him down
we are hanging out tomorow and i know i am ready. can you give me a list of sexy things to do and say to get him horny and get him going
like what to do if we are on the couch together
also what are some things he can to do me so i am in the right mood
thanks
--laur (link)
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well if your on the couch together just look at him a lot and smile. he'll ask u wut your lookin at just say nothing. also you can kiss him a lot. guys like that. also put your hand on his leg right by his dick while your kissin him. that will git him hott. you can also touch it. they really like that. if you start strippin down. his pants are sure to come off lol. its true. ive done this before.
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My boyfriend and I went to breakfast today and he kissed the waitress on the lips and she had a nickname for her. He insists she is is like a sis to him. They have known each other before I even met him. Am I too jealous, how should I react? (link)
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your not too jealous. hes your boyfriend. he shouldnt be kissin other females on the lips even if they are like a sister. two of my friends were like brother and sister. one thing lead to another and now they have been dating for almost 6 months and they have had sex numerous times. dont let this happen to you. make it stop while u have the chance.
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okay so last month i had sex and i missed my period then this month i got my period but it was light pink and not as heavy as it normally is. could i be pregante? also i took a pregancy test after i missed my period last month but it came out negative.
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if this was a month ago and you took the pregnancy test then no your probably not pregnant but just to be sure wait a few days then take another.
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Ok we are always moving and we never Get ANY THING planed I just want to get my mom to understand how hard it is to get attatched to people and then move.
And How do I let myself go out with some one when Im scared a move is going to be around the corner?
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i know exactly how you feel. i moved to missouri about 4 years ago and we were there for a month then my parents started lookin for new jobs again. luckily we stay there for 4 years. now i live in kentucky and i just got into a serious relationship and im afraid hes gonna move or im gonna move or something. if you and your mom have a good relationship like where u talk. then sit down with her and explain how you feel. tell her you dont like moving. tell her that its affecting you relationships with other people. dont let her know its a boy just say other people. lol
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There is this guy that i like, and um... i want to tell my firends because i am not good at keeping secrets(i am kind of a big mouth), and um...well the problem is that...i like a guy that they used to like, but now hate because he wasnt interested in them. And i think hes rilly hot, but i am afraid to say anything, because they call him ass hole and watever, and i dunno, if i shud tell them. I mean when my friend found out my other friend liked him she got pissed off. And i dont want to get into a fight. Does someone have advice they can give me, so i dont screw up anything. Thanks! Love ya :) (link)
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if you like him and he likes you go for it. if they git mad oh well. they arent good friends anyway if they are willing to let a guy ruin your friendship. they might try to git yall to break up by telling you rumors about him or something. just dont listen and if your curious about something they tell you just ask him about it. more then likely he will tell you the truth.
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so you know the three words that can change a relationship forever right. I love you is so big it can change a relationship forever. Well my ex-boyfriend told me he loved me for the first time and i told him i loved him too. But then the next day he broke up with me, He said he had to many things going on in his life. what should i do should i believe that he loves me or not. please help. thanx. (link)
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sayin i love you isnt really a big thing. everyone says it. wether its to one of their friends or to someone they really love. he could have ment he loves you as a friend or maybe he ment he has love for you but hes not in love with you. ask him wut he meant. dont be afraid. you want to know so ask him. its the only way you will know wut he really ment.
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There is this guy, at my church and I also work with him,that I really like, and I think he likes me too. I don't know why I think this, but It's just a girls hunch. He and I skated together for like an hour one night at a church lock in. That isn't really a sign, but I wished it was. My friend bein retarted one day asked him if he would ever go out with me. I'm not sure how to take all this, but I'm gonna go crazy. Any one have any advice on what you think, or what you think I should do to find out. (link)
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startin flirtin with him one day then ask him if he likes you. i know u might be a little nervous about doin this but if u want to know then you have to ask.
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well, i lke someone ALOT and they used to like me but they got a girlfriend and we got into a fight over that and then we were gonna talk about it but that never ended up happening and so im really frustrated that we never got to talk about him haveing a girlfriend but what i just found out that made my frustration worse is that i found out that he broke up with his girlfriend and now is trying to get with one of my close friends.. i dont know what to do... someone help (link)
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you cant really do anything. he is a free boy. he can do what he wants. if he dont want to be with you then theres nothing you can do. just let him be. its time to move on. if he passes up the opportunity to git with you thats his loss not yours. i know you probably didnt want to hear that but its the truth hunnie.
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well before basketball practice everyday i go like a hour and a half early, well my crush stays after for the weight room. & we contantly like play fight, and stuff. Well he had hit me to i went to run away and he chased me, then he cornered me in a doorway. & put his nose to mine then kissed me and we had started making out. Then i kept being a tease and either not kissing back or grabbing his hand leading him away, slipping a little tounge and pulling away again. Then hes like can i use your cell phone to call my mom, I was like no and i smiled & then we started to kiss somemore. Then we walked out of the hallway we were in and a bunch were down at the other end then his friend jake was like are you to dating and I was like ask him & then I went to practice. Do you think I was to easy, he knows I like him alot & do you think were dating ? (link)
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i dont think your dating. right now i think you two are friends with benefits but you will start dating soon. if you still a little confused on whether or not your dating just ask him. he'll tell you. i went a month thinkin i was datin this guy and just found out yesterday we arent dating cuz he told my friend that we arent and he dont know why im tellin people we are. so just ask him. thats the best thing to do.
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well okay on thursday night my mom picked my sister and i up from my gradmas house at 1am, even though so was supposed to pick us up around 8:30. she was so drunk, and i was scared to get in the car. my sisters 7 and was asleep so i carried her outside with me. i get in the car and my mom goes crazy for NO REASON! she's being so mean, and i asked her why are you doing this to yourself? and she called me names. we got out of the car when we were home and i was on the phone with my gram and she hit me in the face and tried to get my cell phone, but i ran down street until she got inside, then i went in and ran up in my dads room (the attick.) he has a lock in the inside that i locked it. and sooo, she comes upstairs and trys to open in and calls me EVERYTHING in the world. a cunt, she hopes i was never born, ALL FOR NOTHING! as i was on the phone with my gram she heres everything. my dad comes home from work bout 1:45 and my moms passed out in her room and my sister is forced to sleep with her. she hurt me sooo badly, and i got no sorry. i wanna move out more then anything in the world. since then we haven't even talked. even before this TERRIBLE DRUNK DISASTER she was always so rude and treated me so much different then my sister. i don't like her, and i need help. sorry this is longg. (link)
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i think you should talk to your counselor at skool that way they can git her some help and maybe you can move out until she's better. thsi is definately a problem. thats child abuse!! you shouldnt have to go through that. i had to go through that and believe me its not fun. i had to deal with it by myself though. when my mom hit me i hit her back. i threatened her and everything. now shes afraid of me and we always argue. thats not the aproach u need to take though but if all else fails go for it.
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Every morning, I wake up and my lips hurt really badly. I put on chapstick (carmex) and keep on doing it until the day is over. By the end of the night I've got very nice and soft 'luscious' lips. Then I go to sleep, and wake up and in the morning they are all chapped again.
What can I do to make this stop? (link)
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while your in the shower wipe your lips off with your wash cloth. make sure you get all the dead skin off. then before you go to bed drink some water and put on some more chapstick. i have the same problem. my lips are always chapped and they are really dried out in the morning if i dont put chapstick on at night.
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I would really like a boyfriend,
just to love and be loved in return.
I'm just lonely, and everyone says,
you'll fall in love eventually.
Eventually .. huh? aghh, I'm just sick of being alone.
I mean does anyone actually get my point.. of how i wanta boyfriend, i want to be in love?
ahghh what can i do? is patience the best answer?
dont give me some mean/smartass answer please.
thanks.
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i know exactly how you feel. just about a month ago i was at a point where i thought no one loved me and no guy would ever want me. i thought i was ugly but i knew i had to do something so i went on facebook. i dont know if u have one of those or not buti went on there and looked through all the guys that go to my skool. i picked out one and sent him a message. now we talk a little here and there but he likes me and i like him so i kinda found someone on my own. and the way you find out if they liek you or not is only you talk to him. dont talk your friends about this guy and dont tell your friends about him cuz then they will talk to him and tell him stuff about you. you will be so happy when you find out that there is someone in this world that likes you and that you could git on your own without your friends help. you should try this and let me know how it goes.
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hey every one well my dad always hits me for no reasona sif imh is step daughter he always makes me cry and if i tell him not to he will hit i dont know what to do he makes me feel as if im not part of the family :( (link)
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this is child abuse. i know exactly how you feel. i been through this too. next time he hits you just speak your mind say what you have to say and if he lays another hand on you just pick up your fone and call 9-1-1. he has no right to be hittin you like that. does you mother know he does this? if she doesnt then talk to her about it before you call the cops. let her know that you dont like when he does this. she can probably talk to him and help him stop. let me know how it goes.
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what are some good suggestions for losing weight? mainly in the stomach and leg area ? (link)
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you can jog daily, do sit ups, leg lifts, just exercise daily and you should see sum results.
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Okay so i really like this friend of mine...I mean I have fallen hard...but the problem is...I am completely unsure as to if he likes me...I mean he acts like he does...but then again he is kinda flirting well..not exactly flirting...but messing with other girls while i'm right there...I just act like i dont care and laugh with him...but anyways...back to the issue...i really like him..and i want to know if he likes me..but i dont want to ask him straight up...is there anything he might do that would let me know he's into me? or is there any way i can get him to confess he likes me without being to obvious? I dont want to ask him straight up because i dont want to hurt our friendship...any ideas?? Thanks sooooo much in advance to any answers! (link)
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a way you can tell is if her touches you a lot r you can have one of your good friends ask him if he likes you when your not around him. but make sure hes friends with this person also. hope i helped.
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For no reason at all, I keep blacking out. It happens very often and I don't know why. What should I do? My mom told me its because I need to excersize more...is she right? Please Help. (link)
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i black out all the time. sumtime i fall down too. my mother says the same thing yours does. maybe you should ask your skool nurse about it or sumthin cuz i dont think its excersize cuz im very active and i still do this. let me know wut they say.
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There is this guy i like and almost everytime he talks to me, he makes sarcastic remarks and jokes around with me telling me im doing things wrong. (He usually smiles when telling me this). What does this mean? (link)
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hes just being a guy. guys are always kinda mean to the gurls they like. i have this friend and he always hits me and crap and everyone thinks he likes me but he doesnt cuz we consider each other brother and sister. so like im tryin to say he might like you but then again he might not. i mean hes a guy and they send mixed signals all the time. it gits kinda annoying. hope i helped.
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Ok I have a great bf and love him but my ex bf who is also my best friend got a new gf and idk why but it hurts..i mean it shouldnt but it does cause i keep imaging she's so much prettier and better IDK WHY!! is this normal? thanks (link)
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it perfectly normal. me and my ex are best friends too and i sumtimes git jealous when he goes out with other gurls or tells me he likes other gurls. its just sumthin inside you tellin you that he was once yours and now hes just a friend and since u know that he was once yours you dont want him to go out with other people. i know exactly how you feel.
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