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boyfriend
I would really like a boyfriend,
just to love and be loved in return.
I'm just lonely, and everyone says,
you'll fall in love eventually.
Eventually .. huh? aghh, I'm just sick of being alone.
I mean does anyone actually get my point.. of how i wanta boyfriend, i want to be in love?
ahghh what can i do? is patience the best answer?
dont give me some mean/smartass answer please.
thanks.
<3
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Love can be the best thing in the world.....but it's rare. Especially these days and sometime you have to wait a long time for it. The problem with this is that more and more people are feeling the way you feel now because everyone wants to find that 'one' who will make them complete.
I don't know if maybe this is the case for you but a lot of people these days, especially women are under such pressure from the media, friends, relatives and so on to be part of a couple that they forget how to be alone and they forget the benefits of being single, footloose and fancy-free.
I tend to believe that if you want to make something happen, you have to go out there and make it happen. After all, this is the 2000's and we girls can't sit around all day waiting for our knight in shining armour to find us! Sometimes we have to go and beat the castle door down before we grow old and die of boredom!! So maybe you could try taking up a new hobby or class? Something you're interested in where it's a group activity and you have the chance of meeting other people. After all, every new person you meet will know at least 4 or 5 other people and you don't know if one of them might be Mr Right!
In the meantime, try not to get too hung up on this. Yes, relationships can be great if you're in a good one but they also bring a lot of sadness, anger and frustration at times and there's a lot you can achieve with your life and yourself when you don't have to worry about anyone else. So make the most of the freedom you have right now and look at the positives. Also, remember to brush up those pearly white and smile as much as you can! Nothing attracts the good men to a girl like a huge smile!
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I know exactly how you feel. Some girl's just have the need to feel loved, and you are one of those girl's. But you sound a little too much interested in getting a boyfriend than living life single and haing fun. Have fun being single while it last! And to anwser your question is patience the best anweser? Yes dont rush things because people who rush things are the ones who end up having nothing.
Hope i helped!
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if it means wanting a guy who will treat you right, be perfect in your eyes, and someone that you get along with easily, then yes, patience is the answer. I went through 2 guys before i met the guy i'm with now...first one was amazing but things just didn't work out and the 2nd was really creepy and had control problems so i ended it very quickly. But now the guy i'm with is incredible and i couldn't ask for anything more and i didn't find him till 5 months after i turned 16 and he was worth waiting for. just be patient...someone is out there, it's just takin him a little longer than expected to find you!
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i know exactly how you feel. just about a month ago i was at a point where i thought no one loved me and no guy would ever want me. i thought i was ugly but i knew i had to do something so i went on facebook. i dont know if u have one of those or not buti went on there and looked through all the guys that go to my skool. i picked out one and sent him a message. now we talk a little here and there but he likes me and i like him so i kinda found someone on my own. and the way you find out if they liek you or not is only you talk to him. dont talk your friends about this guy and dont tell your friends about him cuz then they will talk to him and tell him stuff about you. you will be so happy when you find out that there is someone in this world that likes you and that you could git on your own without your friends help. you should try this and let me know how it goes.
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I know what it's like to feel lonely, and to want to be loved.
What you should try to do is realize that there are a lot of people there for you, who do love you! I wanted a boyfriend for the longest time (I have one now) and it took me forever to realize that all I really need is my friends, who are there for me through everything, the good and the bad.
I understand that you'll still want a boyfriend, but let that thought tide you over until you meet the right man :)
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I think that you shouldn't rush love. People are right when they say it'll come when it's the right time. You just have to trust it. Try talking to boys you are interested in or ones that make you smile and happy-you know, the ones that you get along with. Ask them on a date or to go out with you and a group of friends. Maybe after a few dates, you guys could develop a relashinoship, and love may come your way if you play your cards right. If you try and force love, you'll end up regretting it in the near future, so take things slow and easy,and let them come as they go. I hope I helped,and I hope that you find the true love that you're looking for because it feels good to be loved.
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trust me i know EXACTLY how you feel. But trust me again, you really just have to wait. The best advice i can give, is do not act like you really want one. that just turns guys off. they like it when you play cool and seem like you don't care. i know it works a lot for my friends and now that im startin to do it, its beginin to work for me to!
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believe me i feel the same exact way. It seems like everoyne I know has a bf and im the only one that doesnt. I feel sort of left out. Like im always just a friend, never the girlfriend. But patience is the answer. We will just have to wait our turn. Some people just have the ability to attract boys better than others. People like you and me are opposite of them. Hope i helped! ♥dAnieLLe
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Ahh I know exactly how you feel. Especially how it's almost summer break and everyone is starting to hook up. Patience is the best answer, though. Have some fun with your friends, and be yourself. While you're hanging out with your best friends, who knows you may meet the perfect guy. But don't rush into love... let love come to you.
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Okay i've always found it easier to have a target, yah know like a goal that way I have something to work for. See if you go for one certain person three things will happen. One they will know your intrested. Two you will create a relationship much faster. Three they wont feel intimidated by other boys who are trying to get with you because they know you like them.Hope I helped peace cutie much luck&&love<3
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Yep, patience is the answer.
Trust me, speaking from experience it will be well worth the wait when it finally comes.
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I'm sure your sick of this answer but you just have to wait for the right person.. you could also experiment with boys that you think are cute that you might have had a crush on. like go out with them for awhile and see how everything is going and just have someone there for you like you want. if that dont work then just be patient. remember, you always have your friends. they are 100x better then any guy in this world! haha good luck dear <3
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i know exactly how you feel. bc im in the same situation. but all you really can do is wait. surrrrouunndd yourself with friends. it really helps. and, if you like anyone, TALK TO THEM!!!!
hope this helps <3
peace =)
*jaimee*
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