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yea but my rents were about to call the cops like my dad went completely basssurrrkkk and now im scared to just mention his namee...he's got so much on the line right now and if my parents knew i'd been lying all this time i'll be dead (link)
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True.... so maybe in your case.... it is best to keep it a secret for your own good and his.
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behind my parents backs...its been about 10 monthes now and my boyfriend and i are still together...he's turning 20 in 2 days and i just turned 16 so yea theres a 4 yr age difference. my parents flipped out when they found out over the summer. they hate the age difference and swore they'd get him kicked off FDNY....i can't afford to risk that for me but we're just so in love and i dont know what to do anymore. i hate sneaking around and lying to my parents. (link)
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Hey.. Just so happens, I am in a similar cituation.. I am 14 almost 15 and my boyfriend is 18 almost 19.. and At first, I thought it would be best if my parents did not know, and I kept it a secret for about 3 weeks.. and then hell broke loose. my mom found out. I got grounded.. and at first my parents were stuck on No I Could Not Be With Him, and after days of my mom seeing me upset, hurt, cry, she realized that she should get to know the guy and see what it is he wants in a younger girl and to my surpise after she got to know him and spend some time with him. She realized he is a great guy and now she lets us hang out all the time and she loves him, we have noe been together for 3 months... yeah its a little shorter than you and your guy. But same situation.
My advice.... Although you think things will turn out for the worst if you tell them, they might actually turn out good. And it would be better to tell them and have them find out then to not tell them and have them find out you have been lying to them.
Well If you have any Q.. Feel free to messege me.
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Me and my boyfriend are REALLY close. We've been going out for about 2 years. He calls me everyday after school. I go to his house/he comes to mine like 3 times a week. On the weekends, he calls me at 10:00 EXACTLY to tell me good morning. Don't get me wrong, I love him to death! But.. it's kind of getting old.. I've been talking to other guys, and I think I might want to take a break from this boy. Should I stay or take a break? (link)
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he seems like a really great guy. and i know what you are feeling... whenever i am with a guy for a long time and start talking to other guys, i always feel like i like them and should dump my bf... and then I do and then after a week everything goes downhill and i realized that i would never be with the other guys and that i really did love my boyfriend. so my advise... stay with your man unless your feelings for him are totally gone and you think you will be with this other guy for a while. so... i would stay with your guy.
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ohkay well i have a lot a discharge all day everyday. its gross. and its not because my peroid is coming soon. ive had this for over a year and a haf. its smells and i dont want to cover it up by wearing a pad. so what can i do to have less discharge?
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Hey, Well first of all, How old are you?
And I totally understand what you are going through, I have the same thing and I want to know what it is... But I do not want to tell my mom and go to the doctor. So yeah if you could write be back in my Inbox that would be great.
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I am 14, I recently had a horrible break up with my boyfriend who I had loved. Ever since then I have had chest pains, my will to play softball as deminished, I am severly depressed and have off and on eating dissorders meaning I wont quit eating sometime then I wont be hungry at all for long periods of time. When sleeping I will only dream of killing my parents for what they had done, or of my ex-boyfriend, but that is when I actually sleep, normally I lie awake staring at the things my ex-boyfriend had given me and crying. My alcohol drinking has increased and my ability to payattention has reduced to about nothing. And the only thing I actually care about now is making my days go by faster as a minor, and making them less memorable as possible...
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Take a reality check. Your are 14, you loved him. but ask yourself this... Were you in love with him? and honestly could you have seen yourself marrying him and have him be the father of your children? But then again, you are 14 and you dont really know what you will want later on when it realy comes time to settling down with the one you will spend the rest of your life with. And most of this stuff, its all in your head.
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15/f me and my boyfriend of went on a break as of yesterday because i keep breaking promises to him. I need some way to prove to him that im not going to do that anymore.. someway to get him back. please help im desperate (link)
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Breaking promises is no good. first mistake.. to change this... maybe dont make promises because you dont know for sure that you will be able to keep them. being desperate, second mistake. Just show him you are worth his time and that he can trust you, you cant really convinse him to trust you.. you can proove to him that he can but it's his choise to trust you and forgive you. Just hope and pray for the best.
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i am very shy sometimes and i dont ever get hit on! but all my friends do when they are around me! now over xmas vacation i plan on changing my image! not because i want to get hit on or anything like that but because changing your image also gives you self confidence and that is something i definatly lack so should i go through with it? keep in mind im changing my image not my personality! (link)
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K well my opiniotn honestly is... How you look has nothing to do with self confidence. yeah you can feel like people dislike you because you look differently. but you yourself to make it so you are more self conciouse is not care what others think about you and that will increase your self confidence and you will not look at yourself so poorly. And i know you said you do not want a makeover to make it so you get hit on... but think about it, from the sounds of it, thats exactly why you want to look differently. and honestly, if any one is worth your time, they will like you because of you, not your looks.
hope i helped
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well her is wats happening this i am a freshmen and i am going out wit a guy in a lower grade level than me....i kno it seems kinda stupid but o well.....anyways some guy that is in a upperclass asked me out today n i think that im kinda starting to get a lil bit of feelings for him and loose feelings for my boyfriend wat should i do? (link)
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listen to your feeling... but make sure you are not breaking up with your boyfriend because you know someone else likes you and you now think you can do better. make sure you are going to break up with him because you do not like him.
But if you know your feelings for him are not as a boyfriend make sure you end it before its far in the relationship.
follow your heart.. if your gut tells you to break up with him then do it.. but if i says no, then listen.
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k . so i really like this boy named DeJohn , & he likes me to ` he asked me out yesterday but i told him lets " talk " for a while .... im just scared that the SAME thing is gonna happen as it did last time ` which was gettin called a nigger lover & treated as if i was a fuckin peice of dirt i mean i SERIOUSLY dont kno What the hell is wrong with datin a black boy i mean ok different color skin i mean BIG WHOOP ? .. help me ` should i just go out with him or WHAT ??
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There is nothing wrong with dating different color.. they are human as well. And honestly if you are that worried about what people think of you, you need to gain some confidence in yourself.
go with your heart!
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I like this guy and im not sure if he likes me back. We have one class together and lunch, and when we have our study hall instead of the class he always sits next to me and wants me to tell him who i like. He always wants me to go to his matches and he has a girlfriend. I don't know if he likes me please help! Im a 14/f (link)
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From the sounds of it.. he has a little somthin for ya.
But the fact he has a girlfriend might get in the way and be a problem. But this guy might just want to be friends and that is his way of shoing friendship. I say, ask him about it, be like "why do you always want to know who i like? and why do you always want me to go to your matches" or maybe test him and next time he asks who you like say his name and see what his reaction is.
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which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
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First= Their ability to communicate with others and have fun and make otheres laugh!
Second= hair
Third= Eyes
Fourth= way they dress
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how do you ask girls out because iam
asking this question is iam have been home schooled and im 15 and iam trying to ask
out a girl out for school dance and dont how (link)
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well you could be boring and origional and say would you go out with me? or would you be my date to the dance?
or you could be unique and be like.. "what are you doing for the next couple months?"
She anwsers
and you say "want to spend it with me?"
or
what are you doing (night of the dance)?
want to spend it dancing with me?
like seriously, it will be more meaningfull if it came from your heart and your mouth, not someone elses.
hope it all goes well!
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O.k. sooo, my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a week now. We've kissed, but havn't made out. I've never made out before. Everyone thinks I've made out before, even my boyfriend. His friends keep telling me for my birthday he's going to finally make out with me as one of my presents. He's had A LOT of expeirience with girls and makeing out, and as I said I have NEVER made out. My questions are:
1) Will it be TOTALLY obvious I've never made out before?!
2) Will I be a horrible kisser??
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3) How do you make out?!
I'm so worried right now. I'm NOT going to tell him I've never made out before so don't tell me to do that. I'm just scared he's going to notice and think I'm the grossest kisser ever. He always tells me girls tell him he's a really good kisser, and I'm scared cause I havn't made out before! I have no idea what to do while making out. Where do your hands go? What does your tongue do? How are people able to make out for long periods of time without getting bored? HELP! Please please please. I need answers quick! (link)
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Wow! i do not know how many girls have asked questions like this. Fisrt of all, you have nothing to worry about, i highley doubt the thought that you are a bad kisser when you 2 are kissing is that you are a bad kisser.
1. It may be obviouse that you have never made out before, but i doubt your boyfriend will care. the first time i made out my boyfriend had had expirience and i was nervouse but when he found out i had never made out beofre he was glad that he was the first guy and he was more that willing to "teach" me! yeah it may sound weird but its very true.
2.I do not think you will be horrible but you will not be great and the only want to get better is too have practice.
3. How do you make out? well honestly everyone makes out differently. youll just have to learn how he makes out.
where do your hands go.... around there neck, you could play with his hair while making out, some guys like that. again it all depends on yours and his preferences.
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15/f. i've recently found out that i get crushes on people waaay too easily and quickly. like today we had a field trip and on of the guys that was new this year who is friends with a lot of girls i talked to the first time. he is really nice and funny and we stayed together the whole time on the field trip and sat next to each other for two of the presentations and at lunch. it is so weird because i just basically met him but i've started to like him. i know that he doesn't suspect anything because he is friends with like a lot of girls because he is easy to talk to. and we got each others numbers and screen names, but that doesn't really mean anything to him. what can i do to stop getting crushes on guys so easily.
also i started out being friends with this "punkish" guy that is bi. he is so nice and even though i'm kinda girly, i've kinda started to like him. i know that i have no chance with him because 1) he likes older people, and 2)people would probably make fun of us. what can i do to stop liking him. i'd much rather just be friends with him.
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Well first of all.. about the bi guy, do you honestly care if people would make fun of you, if your happy thats all that matters, who cares what other people think. And i know exactly how you feel about the you get crushes on people way too fast, i am the same way. But think about the future and if you could see yourself being there girlfriend. Ask yourself if you actualy like them in a romantic way or if you are just like Awww hes nice and sweet.
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Well, I just got out of a 11 month relationship with my ex but were just friends now...but I'm attracted to this guy named johnny... we flirt a lot and everything.... I want to call him but I don't know what to say... I don't want to date him or anything....(yet)but I would like to get to know him better... but how do I get him to notice me, should I call him, what do I say...... (link)
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Yea go ahead and call.. and dont stress over it, if you seem nervouse he will know. just stay calm and make it like every otehr phone conversation. ask how his day was what his plans are for the day what he likes and stuff like that.
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i have a confusing situation, so this might be long. first of all, i have a boyfriend of almost two years and i love him a lot. things are great, and i could see myself with him forever. but i have a problem.. i've known this other guy for six years, and he was basically my first love. things happened, and we lost touch and grew apart. a few months ago, he came back into my life and we still love each other. now this might seem like every other love triangle, but the twist is that the other guy (not my boyfriend) knows me from the internet, and we've never met. so i need advice on who i should choose? should i stay with my boyfriend and leave it at that, or leave him and be with the other guy? don't say that the last idea is crazy just because i haven't met the guy, we've talked on the phone and we've had YEARS of history together. what do you guys think? (link)
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I say.. follow your heart. If you honestly think you could see yourself with a guy you have never met and just talk to on the phone, then go right ahead. But you said you could see yourself with your boyfriend forever and i wouldnt risk that for someone you have never met in person.
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Ok well i had just been dumped by my boyfriend of about 5 1/2 months.. and well i think i already like someone... is that bad... cause at the ending of our relationship... things weren't really ne thing... and this kid is really nice to me.. and he seems like he is flirting with me.. but he is a year older than me.. but is it bad that i like someone already?? ahh i'm so confused! what should i do?? (link)
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No it is not a bad thing. 5 1/2 months is a long time and i highly doubt your ex's thinks you are going to stay single the rest of your life and wait for him to come back, you need to move on so you can be happy. If he makes you happy, go for it!
good luck
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why do you like your boyfriend?(weird question i know) (link)
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I like my boyfriend because he is nice to me, kind, caring. and we both want the same thing in a relationship. He makes me feel good about myself and that is something no one else has ever been able to do. I love how he always asks how my day was, he's so warm and comforting and lets me know how he's feeling. He's very honest and I can trust him with anything at all without a worry. And when i told him i wanted to tke things slow he didnt ask why he just accepted what i wanted and said ok, and he doesnt try to push me into doing things i do not want to do. hes just an amazing guy =)
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I'm 15 in 10th grade and My girlfriend says that she doesn't wanna go out right we should wait a while, she wants to be single, she's not ready for a boy friend, ect. does ths mean she doesnt like me or what i just want kwon because i love her i wanna be with her and i just dont understand could some one pleas help me. (link)
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It depends, for some girls it means she is over you, and for some it may mean she needs to spend some time thinking about her life and school. If it still seems like she likes you then maybe she does, but if she totally avoids you and doesnt call or anwser your calls, chances are she wants to forget about you.
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im male
16 years old
ok well me and my girlfriend have been together for like a few weeks now and we started out going really fast like making out in my bed and stuff and like all of a sudden she wont let me kiss her goodbye or ne thing ans she sais she wants to slow down is this like a sign she wants to break up with me or sumthin yea i know im a guy and this is prob a stupid question but yea (link)
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Well, from what the information you told, my guess is she likes you just at first she was so caught up in her feelings for you she was not thinking and just made out with you but now that it has been a while she realizes that it was too fast and she just wants to slow down on the pysical part of the relationship not the emotional. My advise, let her choose what she wants and dont asume she wants it to be over and end it yourself before she gets to it, because chances are thats not what she wants.
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