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I'm not exactly sure what I'm looking for; what kind of advice I need. I don't even know if I need advice.
I'm 13/f, btw.
Last year (2005), during the summer, I met with a guy I knew over the internet. He'd told me that he was 14, and lived about 30 miles from my house. I met up with him, and well, it turned out he wasn't exactly what I expected. Things happened, that, well, weren't exactly supposed to happen. I personally just don't like the term "rape" but sure, lets use it. Since, no matter how much I hate the word, it's what happened.
I've done a pretty good job at hiding it from everyone. Luckily, I have heavy periods, and so I was on the pill at the time to make my bleeding lighter, so I didn't get pregnant. I was 12 at the time. Should I be hiding it from everyone? I've told three people so far. One of them, it was on accident, but she ignored it as if I had never said it. I've also told a good guy friend of mine, let's call him Anthony, but I don't think I can really trust him with the information. And I've also told my boyfriend, let's call him Andrew. He thinks I should tell someone, the poliece, or something. But I refuse to. It's just a weird feeling. I don't really want people to know, I don't really want people to do anything about it. But I don't know, should I tell more people? Like my mom, or the poliece? The guy, well, he told me that if I ever told anyone about it he'd track me down and kill me. And I know some people would think it stupid to listen to a threat like that, but I don't know. I really just don't know what to do. It's like it keeps coming back to haunt me. I was doing a good job at ignoring it, forgeting about it, but lately, it just hasnt been working.
Sorry it's so long. (link)
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really I would tell someone like.. My mom.. I would be scared to tell my mom and I would so be scared of the guy.. I mean he raped you and he could be in prison right now.. If you dont wont this to happen again then I would deffently tell my mom.. and who knows you could be helping out other 13 year girls who.. are talking to this man on the internet!! Or you could be saveing yourself.. aperently he has some way of tracking you down.. he said he would.. and he could do it at anytime and come back toi do it again!! PLEASE tell your mom!! Rape is SERIOUS!!
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Hey! I am 14 and my sister is 11. So i have this problem with the relation ship with my dad he seems to play favorites with me and my sister, who is younger than i am. i think that the reason for this is because she is more of a "kiss up" and i just tend to be more stubborn(like he is). For example, i did 7 hrs of work at $5 and hr. and my sister did 2 hrs at $5 at hr. and she earned more than me. Any ideas of how to get my father to treat us like eqauls.
Also are there and jobs avalible for someone 14 (besides babysitting) (link)
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there are jobs for people who are 14 my sister has a job in the summer and she is 14..
Man that must really hurt you when your dad does that!! And I know it has to be hard to talk to him about it but.. Does your mom live with you?.. If she does then tell her how you fell about it and she can maybe make you fell a little better about it or talk to your dad about it!! If not then you will have to go to your dad. Just tell him that you are so tired of him playing favorites and that you fell like he is treating your sister like he loves her more.. Just let him know how it fells no matter how awkard it fells or how shy you may be! I Promiss it will come out to be better for you in the end!!
GOOD LUCK!!
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i like this guy in my english class and were working on this project together. its so much fun i love being around him and we have good conversation. im worried though becuase friday is the presentation for our project and when its over i dont want things to be like they used to when we didnt talk much. i think he may like me but im not bold enough to ask him out. i dont know what to do about it! please help! (link)
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you could tell him that you really had alott of fun working on the project together and that he is a really cool guy!! If you and your friends like go to movies or go out to eat sometimes then why dont you invite him to do something like that saterday after the project is due!! That way it isn't uncomfortable becuase you too are still close maybe this will be a good time to ask him if he wonts to talk sometimes like ask him if he will call you tommorw or something!! Just be cool when you ask him this stuff though!! Don't make it be like you are falling head over hills for him!! lol.. first I would hang out and be friends before you ask him out.. WHO KNOWS maybe he will ask you first!! GOOD LUCK!!
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Well I have liked this kid since January. That's like the first time we have started talking. He was so shy & was scared to say the wrong thing. It was adorable! He was like obsessed with me, and I guess I could've acted better twords him. So after bout a month things completly changed. I am like head over heals for him, and now he's like idk we're "talking." I was his first kiss and everything, and while we went out because we went out for about 2 weeks things were great. We madeout alot, and stuff. This one girl tho Sam constantly talks to the kids I like, and trys to become real close with them. I hate it! But anyhow he is just so like mean now, but he says he likes me. We hang out alot, and kiss still. I just wanna go out with him again more then everr. I don't know what to do. I am obsessed. =( I know this story is a lil confussing, but if anyone has any advice, pleasee help! What should I tell him? I have so much to tell him, but don't know how. Thanksss.♥ (link)
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='( I know how it fells.. Well, it comes down to 2 things..
1- Talk to him even though you don't exzactly know how to .. "put" what you fell into words.. It will all comeout if you to are alone together and haveing a "moment".. (the kissing times!!) He must fell something for you if he still kisses you!! He may fell the same about you and he may wont to talk to you also!!! GIVE YOURSELF A CHANCE!! I know that you are probbly a beautiful and sweet girl!! You deserve to have what you wont!! Maybe he is just being mean becuase.. He dosent know exzactly what he fells for you!!! I would talk to him!!
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2-Forget him!! THIS WILL BE HARD!! you apperently like him and you two must have something for each other!!But if you are going to "forget" him.. Don't kiss him anymore and let him know that you are just trying to move on!! and he will probbly ask why.. THEN that would be a good time for you to tell him how you fell!! I would do number one!! TAKE NO CHANCES!! HE IS THE GUY YOU LIKE?!!? GO FOR HIM!!
Eather way.. good luck!! I know what it fells like to be in this positioN!!
oOo.. YEA!! and dont let him walk all over you just becuase you like him!! Let him know that you have a little controll over him too!!
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I have a problem right now n i dont kno what to do.. me n my new boyfriends been goin out for 2 weeks and i really dont got mad fellings for him cuz hes more like a friend plus i still have mad mad feelings for my ex!! n i dont kno wat i should do i want to break up wit my new boyfriend n go with my old one but my frienmds r telling me no.. n then another reason i havent is cuz my ex was a real ass hole n i just dont know wat to do will sum 1 please help me!!!!! (link)
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OMG I know how you fell and it is like.. so not good.. ok like first you have to get rid of this guy that you.. dont reallt have felings for!! Tell him.. hey i just wont to be friends!! and about the other guy.. the meaner they are to you.. the MORE WE LOVE UM!! GO BACK TO HIM!! YOU MISS HIM GIRL!!
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