I have a problem right now n i dont kno what to do.. me n my new boyfriends been goin out for 2 weeks and i really dont got mad fellings for him cuz hes more like a friend plus i still have mad mad feelings for my ex!! n i dont kno wat i should do i want to break up wit my new boyfriend n go with my old one but my frienmds r telling me no.. n then another reason i havent is cuz my ex was a real ass hole n i just dont know wat to do will sum 1 please help me!!!!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? brizz27 answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 8:38 pm: well if you dont have feelings for your new boyfriend then you shouldnt lead him on to think you do and keep going out with him. and you may have feelings for your old boyfriend but if he was an asshole to you then you should get with him either cause you deserve someone thats not gonna be an asshole to you and thats gonna treat you right. that may not be what you wanted to hear but i hope i helped you. ♥
operation_waffle answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 5:42 pm: If it was me I wouldn't go out with the old bf because he must have treated you wrong. Just think about why you like your ex. and what you like about your new bf.
loves2shop86 answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 2:20 am: hey! well sounds to me like you have a problem with being single! best choice you can make is to break up with this guy because you obviously don't like him! and do NOT go back out with your ex... he is your EX bf for a reason! being single is so much fun... you don't want to be with someone unless you REALLY like him, because otherwise your not putting yourself out there and you will never find the perfect guy for you, because you will be too busy being in a relationship with someone that isn't exactly what you want! so ditch them both and go out there and find exactly what you're looking for!
oh, and why listen to your friends telling you not to break up with your boyfriend? yeah they are your friends and all, but they are not in the relationship!! if you are not happy, then that's all you need to make up your mind! [ loves2shop86's advice column | Ask loves2shop86 A Question ]
Alpha345 answered Tuesday April 4 2006, 12:36 am: Spellcheck please. Your chat speak pains my heart.
It sounds like you don't really have any feeling to either guys. "mad feelings"? That means you have some feelings, but your ready to disregard it for an ex who aparently is a jerk?
My suggestion to you is to just end the relationship with your boyfriend now and keep it as friends. Because if you are questioning your feelings towards him, the feelings probably aren't there. And it is always better to keep a friend than to lose one to petty squables.
And as for your ex, let him be. Why go for him if he is crap? That's just stupid.
sexyx3lolx3helper answered Monday April 3 2006, 10:36 pm: OMG I know how you fell and it is like.. so not good.. ok like first you have to get rid of this guy that you.. dont reallt have felings for!! Tell him.. hey i just wont to be friends!! and about the other guy.. the meaner they are to you.. the MORE WE LOVE UM!! GO BACK TO HIM!! YOU MISS HIM GIRL!! [ sexyx3lolx3helper's advice column | Ask sexyx3lolx3helper A Question ]
missmissgurl answered Monday April 3 2006, 10:08 pm: Well, if you don't really like your new bf its a bad idea to stay with him because if you really care about him you'll hurt him. As for your ex forget him theres a reason yur broken up and if he's a jerk do u really not have enough self respect for yourself to do better? I'd just play it single for a while, and avoid your ex it'll help you move on. [ missmissgurl's advice column | Ask missmissgurl A Question ]
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